The Sex Doctors Why Women's Sex Drive Goes Down... And What to Do About It (From a Sex Therapist)
Oct 27, 2025
Discover why women's sexual desire may wane over time and the common factors behind it. The hosts delve into the differences in male and female sexuality, including societal influences and evolutionary perspectives. They highlight real-life issues like stress and body image that can dampen desire. Practical strategies to rekindle intimacy are shared, such as exploring erotica and reconnecting with previous moments of arousal. The advice for couples emphasizes understanding, communication, and joint efforts to navigate low libido.
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Male And Female Sexuality Differ
- Men and women share sexual needs but show consistent, real differences in how desire is expressed.
- Dr. Abraham Morgentaler emphasizes these differences come from biology and practice, not moral judgment.
Clinical Examples Reveal Gender Patterns
- Dr. Abraham Morgentaler recounts never hearing women say they don't care about sex while hearing many say it.
- He uses common patient examples to illustrate gendered sexual complaints he encounters in practice.
Dual Control Model Explains Desire
- The Dual Control Model frames desire as a balance between excitatory and inhibitory factors.
- Women often have more 'turn-offs' while men often have more 'turn-ons', shifting moment-to-moment desire.
