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Jan 26, 2024 • 9min

Episode 397: How women disrespect men without realizing it (bursting the bubble)

In this podcast, the speaker discusses unintentional disrespect from women towards men, highlighting behaviors such as inappropriate questioning and granting permission. The importance of adhering to instructions is emphasized, along with the negative effects of teasing and sarcasm in relationships. The speaker also explores how societal protections hinder women from understanding power dynamics and mentions five behaviors that can jeopardize a woman's relationship with a man.
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Jan 22, 2024 • 11min

Episode 396: How women disrespect men without realizing it (understanding power)

This podcast discusses how women unintentionally disrespect men in relationships by placing themselves above them. It explores power dynamics, inappropriate questioning, double standards, and disrespectful behaviors like control and surveillance.
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Jan 19, 2024 • 10min

Episode 395: Hire slow, fire fast (understanding the selection process)

Exploring the 'hire slow and fire fast' concept in corporate HR and applying it to personal relationships; emphasizing the importance of thorough vetting processes for potential partners; discussing the significance of communication frequency in relationships and the value of managing expectations; advocating for personal growth and swift recognition of warning signs in dating dynamics; highlighting the benefits of continuous applicant interviewing and the advantage of a large applicant pool in decision-making processes.
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Jan 17, 2024 • 1h 34min

Deep Dive 007: Shawn T. Smith

In this conversation, Shawn T. Smith, an author known for his tactical guide on relationships, discusses his latest book, "Gatekeeper." He highlights the necessity for men to skillfully vet relationships, emphasizing the importance of self-awareness and personal experience over mere checklists of red flags. The talk dives into the influence of early relationships on adult expectations, the challenges of modern dating, and the emotional dynamics essential for maintaining healthy partnerships. Shawn also reflects on societal pressures faced by women balancing career and family.
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Jan 15, 2024 • 9min

Episode 394: The servant takes the money (the double-edge of hypergamy)

Because of their hypergamous tendencies, women generally mate and date for gain -- and they typically have no qualms about passing over men who are not in a position to provide benefit. However, in every culture on the planet, it is the servant who takes the money. The servant is the one who is paid. One of the most over-looked consequences of hypergamy is the creation of a relational indebtedness that was historically discharged in domestic service. This does not interest most modern women; however, they are also not interested in disabusing themselves of their hypergamous tendencies. As might be expected, this creates problems in the economy of the sexual marketplace. Book a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Social Media Facebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQ Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: https://stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw/join Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #men #relationship
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Jan 12, 2024 • 11min

Episode 393: Overpaying is the cost of winning (why getting what you want is disappointing)

Whether we like it or not, life -- in its particulars -- is often a zero-sum game. In order to get what you want, it is often the case that no one else can have it. And getting what you want typically involves winning out against your competition. As a general rule, overpaying is the cost of winning: you will need to give more than anyone else in order to secure the desired good. One of the unintended consequences of this is that getting what you want tends to be disappointing. This is because -- in order to win any particular good -- you likely had to pay more than that good was worth. Book a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Social Media Facebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQ Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: https://stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw/join Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #men #relationship
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Jan 8, 2024 • 11min

Episode 392: Women’s greatest enemy (overcoming pride)

The podcast discusses how pride can hinder women in relationships, from misappraising their value to disparaging male attraction. It emphasizes the importance of humility for more satisfying relationships with men and reflects on societal norms around women's attitudes towards domestic tasks.
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Jan 5, 2024 • 10min

Episode 391: How to resist becoming emotionally attached (get a poker face)

Dr. O'Ryan Terriban discusses the importance of resisting emotional attachment in relationships. He advises men to avoid becoming emotionally involved too soon, using the analogy of poker to highlight the risks. The podcast emphasizes the need for patience and caution in building trust before investing emotionally in a person.
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Jan 1, 2024 • 11min

Episode 390: Men’s greatest enemy (moving past the fear)

Explore how cowardice affects men's relationships, from approaching women to handling emotions. Learn the importance of courage in creating satisfying connections. Discover tips on navigating emotional manipulation and leadership roles in relationships, and the dynamics of gender roles. Join the discussion on overcoming fears in dating and mating.
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Dec 29, 2023 • 8min

Episode 389: Fear is the basis of respect (people must hear you hiss)

A common refrain I hear in my consultations with men is feeling disrespected. These men feel as though other men look down on them, and that women tend to overlook them. And since I've been giving the same feedback in multiple sessions, I thought I would make an episode on the topic to spare guys the trouble. Basically, it's dangerous for a man to appear harmless, as it makes it more likely that he will be the target for aggression that others would like to direct elsewhere -- but are too afraid to do so. Whether we like it or not, fear is the basis of respect. Book a paid consultation: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com/consultations Social Media Facebook: https://facebook.com/profile.php?id=100090053889622 LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/orion-taraban-070b45168/ Instagram: https://instagram.com/psyc.hacks Twitter: https://twitter.com/oriontaraban Website: https://oriontarabanpsyd.com Orion's Theme: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WrXBzQ2HDEQ Thinking of going to grad school? Check out STELLAR, my top-rated GRE self-study program based on the world's only empirically-validated test prep system. Use the code "PSYCH" for 10% off all membership plans: https://stellargre.com. Become a Stellar affiliate and earn a 10% commission for every membership purchased by a new student you conduct into the program: https://stellargre.tapfiliate.com. GRE Bites: https://www.youtube.com/@grebites4993 Become a Psychonaut and join PsycHack's member community: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCSduXBjCHkLoo_y9ss2xzXw/join Sound mixing/editing by: valntinomusic.com Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world. #psychology #respect #men

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