PsycHacks Episode 461: Write your own invitation (how to make friends as an adult man)
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Sep 6, 2024 Discover the art of crafting your own invitations to meaningful friendships as an adult man. Learn how to present yourself attractively and create personal value that draws in influential individuals. Explore the vital role of male friendships in combating loneliness and enhancing overall well-being. Navigate the unique challenges men face in forming connections, focusing on the importance of deeper emotional ties over mere value calculations. Transform your social life by proactively building relationships that truly matter.
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Create Your Own Invitation
- You cannot wait for an invitation to join a group or meet someone important; you must create your own invitation.
- This means cultivating sufficient value to make others recognize or want to connect with you.
Orion's PsychHacks Origin Story
- Orion started PsychHacks to have conversations with interesting people he respected and admired.
- He worked years without reward, showing dedication to build value before being recognized.
Value Offsets Opportunity Cost
- People with value command attention because their interaction is worth others' opportunity cost.
- Without offering value, no one will invest scarce attention and time in you.