Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

Todays Quicky comes from Season 2 Episode 9: #25 Overcoming Fear with Compassion and Love (with Adam Roa) On today’s episode of the Men, Sex & Pleasure Podcast, I chat with Adam Roa. Adam is a transformational artist, founder of the online personal development community, CREATE, and the podcast host of "The Deep Dive with Adam Roa". He has been listed by Goalcast as one of the “Top 33 Gamechangers to Watch" and his viral poem, “You Are Who You’ve Been Looking For" has been viewed more than 200 million times. He has spoken on countless stages, including Oslo Freedom Forum, MindValley A-Fest, and Envision Festival. Adam has recently begun to blend his poetry into mainstream music, with his first single, "Voices", releasing on October 1st. A modern day renaissance man, he is known for his unique blend of science and spirituality wrapped in artistic mediums. We shared about our deepest fears, how they hold us back and how to use compassion to overcome them.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Bryony Cole. Bryony has amassed a global following as the go-to expert on sextech. With over one million downloads of her Future of Sex podcast, and extensive global media coverage she is the trusted authority for industry insights in The New York Times, The Today Show, Wired and many other global media. Bryony has written for Playboy, and appeared on TV shows such as Netflix’s FollowThis Series, Vice Slutever, The Money Channel, and The Morning Show on Channel 7. As a highly-regarded speaker, her stage presence roster includes some of the world’s largest culture, technology and ideas events such as SXSW and Vivid. Her global sextech hackathon events and Future of Sex reports are considered the pinnacle of industry insights and innovation. She is a sought-after consultant who partners with organizations across the world forecasting trends in the sextech industry for governments, tech titans and entertainment companies. Most recently, Marie Claire awarded her podcast Future of Sex as ‘one of the best sex and relationship podcasts of 2020’. Key points: Bryony introduces herself Being replaced by sex robots A cyberpunk or solarpunk future? Deepfakes and fear mongering The impact of technology on relationships The evolution of sex toys and robots Pro-social technology which enhances connection Polarization and possibilities Relevant links: Bryony’s Instagram: @bryonycole Bryony’s website: https://www.bryonycole.co/ 

Quicky #22 is an excerpt from Season 2, Episode 8: #24 Energetical Lovemaking and Deep Intimacy (with Avi Kabani) Views and opinions expressed by Avi Kabani do not reflect the official policy or position of any other agency, organization, employer or company. Today on the Men, Sex & Pleaure podcast, I chat with Avi Kabani. Avi is an author who writes about the nature of sexual energy, deep states of lovemaking, and the challenges of modern-day intimate relationships. He is best known for exploring these topics in relation to men, women, culture, and self. Drawing on the work of David Deida, Avi shared with me his take on sex therapy and sexual art. We spoke about the energetics of lovemaking and how to take your sexual experiences to those deeper levels of intimacy. If you’re familiar with Deida’s work, you’ll really resonate with this conversation about sex, healing and masculinity.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with the Techy Tantrika, Devika Singh. Devika is a holistic intimacy and self-relationship coach, holistic sex educator, and pleasure-inclusive sex education advocate. Her work focuses on reporting sex/dating tech trends along with normalizing conversations around topics that are still considered ‘taboo’ or socially charged. These topics include sex education, pro-sex spirituality, various forms of intimacy, rebirth and transitions (personal transformation), death positivity, and how metaphysics impact how we connect to one another throughout life. Key points: Devika introduces herself Sexual content, censorship, and terms of service FOSTA-SESTA legislation “Think of the children” rhetoric Artificial intelligence and human trafficking Tech billionaires and outrage marketing Sex toys and data privacy Politics and technology Relevant links: Devika’s YouTube/Instagram/TikTok: @TheTechyTantrika Devika’s website: devika-singh.com

Lucas Aoun, a leading biohacker, discusses the importance of testosterone for men's health and optimizing sexual performance. They explore the use of Cat's Waba herb for dating, and various supplements, herbs, and nootropics for altering cognitive function and personality.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ceecee Jacobsen. Ceecee is a coach, public speaker, social media influencer, model, and trans activist from Eysturoy (East Island), Faroe Islands, a collection of 18 small islands about halfway between Norway and Iceland. The two of us talk about her experience as the first openly trans person in her entire country as well as the narratives around performing gender, disclosing that you’re trans, and the use of labels for our sexual and gender identity. Key points: Ceecee introduces herself Loneliness and growing up trans Performing femininity and masculinity The mask of normalcy The “trap” narrative Disclosing that you’re trans The relevance of sexual identity labels The erasure of women Relevant links: Ceecee’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ceeceejacobsencc  Ceecee’s Instagram: @ceeceejacobsen Ceecee’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CeeceeJacobsencc 

Tobias Penno, Mental Health Practitioner, discusses similarities between sexuality and psychedelics, emphasizing responsible use, preparation, and therapeutic benefits. Topics include sensory awareness during sexual encounters, integrating psychedelic experiences into daily life for emotional healing, and the transformative tool psychedelics offer for self-discovery.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jim Benson. Jim has dedicated his life to helping men of all ages and backgrounds love themselves more fully. For the past 20 years, he has been coaching guys to “breakthroughs in the bedroom.” Jim's Awakened Masculine program blends best practices across disciplines to create a powerful transformative environment for men to experience more personal pleasure and relationship satisfaction. He has trained as a professional coach at the Coaches Training Institute and held the PCC (Professional Certified Coach) credential from the International Coach Federation for many years. He has 7000 hours of individual, relationship, and group coaching experience. And, he is a graduate of The Interchange Counseling program. Key Points: Jim introduces himself Working with men Separating orgasm and ejaculation The importance of breathing and moving Different breathing techniques Energy circulation Practical advice for couples Relevant Links: Jim's website: https://awakenedmasculine.com/ Cam’s Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser/ 

Quicky #19 is from Season 2, Episode 10: The Seed Bearer: Conscious Conception for Men (with Josh Fairleigh) On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Josh Fairleigh. Josh grew up on the east coast of Australia, surfing, skating, boxing, fishing, loving all the outdoor active lifestyle this environment allows. School was very low on the list; this resulted in a early school drop out and the introduction of his first job in the surfboard industry. Surfing being Josh’s life passion; he shaped custom surfboards for about 15 years until his Saturn return when he began to see the environmental impact of the industry and pictured his own health in another 15 years. This was the time when Josh became very interested in health and natural medicines. After an awakening during a yoga course in Thailand with some influential teachers Josh began studying Ayurveda, Yoga, Reiki, Pranic Healing and Shamanic Crystal work and finally found the passion for academic education that he could not find in the earlier school years. Josh now teaches Breath workshops and does energy and Shamanic Healing’s. Josh became interested in Feng Shui as he spent many years traveling the world and Australia, through this travelling from town to town, country to country he was aware of his own moods, perception and reality changing; which made him curious as to how much our environment has an effect on our reality, from the weather, the land forms, water quality, different beliefs, colours, shapes and the spiritual energy. Josh has studied Feng Shui and Environmental studies with the Australian College of Environmental Studies. He now emphasises Breathwork as a tool to facilitate spiritual, mental, physical and emotional health. This approach and training touches all of these aspects of life; from physical fitness, to harmonising our internal and external energy bodies. We spoke about Josh's Lyme Disease and how it has affected his relationship with himself, his wife and his daughter, particularly with regards to how he perceives his masculinity.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ian Ferguson, he is the co-creator of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and co-founder of The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc., a company dedicated to Erotic Liberation for All. Our company mission is to realize a vision of global sexual wellness,  putting an end to the perpetuation of sexual trauma, empowering every person to have the healthy relationships they desire and to claim the consensual and fulfilling pleasure they deserve. Ian, an internationally recognized speaker, has appeared on Netflix’s ‘Sex, Love and Goop,’ as well as top podcasts for Tony Robbins and on other media such as Good Morning America, VH1, Anderson Live and Details magazine.  Ian is an Expert Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and has helped to license over 300 Erotic Blueprint Coaches™ who now serve the global Blueprint community. Key Points: Ian introduces himself Intimacy, parenthood, and life stressors] Finding middle ground with your partner The creation of the Erotic Blueprints Mitigating inauthenticity Resistance to sexual exploration Advice for expanding sexual experiences Relevant Links: Ian’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ian.ferguson.925 Ian’s Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/NewWorldSexEducation Ian’s Website: The Blueprint Breakthrough https://missjaiya.com Cam’s Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser/