Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with the Techy Tantrika, Devika Singh. Devika is a holistic intimacy and self-relationship coach, holistic sex educator, and pleasure-inclusive sex education advocate. Her work focuses on reporting sex/dating tech trends along with normalizing conversations around topics that are still considered ‘taboo’ or socially charged. These topics include sex education, pro-sex spirituality, various forms of intimacy, rebirth and transitions (personal transformation), death positivity, and how metaphysics impact how we connect to one another throughout life. Key points: Devika introduces herself Sexual content, censorship, and terms of service FOSTA-SESTA legislation “Think of the children” rhetoric Artificial intelligence and human trafficking Tech billionaires and outrage marketing Sex toys and data privacy Politics and technology Relevant links: Devika’s YouTube/Instagram/TikTok: @TheTechyTantrika Devika’s website: devika-singh.com

Lucas Aoun, a leading biohacker, discusses the importance of testosterone for men's health and optimizing sexual performance. They explore the use of Cat's Waba herb for dating, and various supplements, herbs, and nootropics for altering cognitive function and personality.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ceecee Jacobsen. Ceecee is a coach, public speaker, social media influencer, model, and trans activist from Eysturoy (East Island), Faroe Islands, a collection of 18 small islands about halfway between Norway and Iceland. The two of us talk about her experience as the first openly trans person in her entire country as well as the narratives around performing gender, disclosing that you’re trans, and the use of labels for our sexual and gender identity. Key points: Ceecee introduces herself Loneliness and growing up trans Performing femininity and masculinity The mask of normalcy The “trap” narrative Disclosing that you’re trans The relevance of sexual identity labels The erasure of women Relevant links: Ceecee’s TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ceeceejacobsencc  Ceecee’s Instagram: @ceeceejacobsen Ceecee’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@CeeceeJacobsencc 

Tobias Penno, Mental Health Practitioner, discusses similarities between sexuality and psychedelics, emphasizing responsible use, preparation, and therapeutic benefits. Topics include sensory awareness during sexual encounters, integrating psychedelic experiences into daily life for emotional healing, and the transformative tool psychedelics offer for self-discovery.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jim Benson. Jim has dedicated his life to helping men of all ages and backgrounds love themselves more fully. For the past 20 years, he has been coaching guys to “breakthroughs in the bedroom.” Jim's Awakened Masculine program blends best practices across disciplines to create a powerful transformative environment for men to experience more personal pleasure and relationship satisfaction. He has trained as a professional coach at the Coaches Training Institute and held the PCC (Professional Certified Coach) credential from the International Coach Federation for many years. He has 7000 hours of individual, relationship, and group coaching experience. And, he is a graduate of The Interchange Counseling program. Key Points: Jim introduces himself Working with men Separating orgasm and ejaculation The importance of breathing and moving Different breathing techniques Energy circulation Practical advice for couples Relevant Links: Jim's website: https://awakenedmasculine.com/ Cam’s Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser/ 

Quicky #19 is from Season 2, Episode 10: The Seed Bearer: Conscious Conception for Men (with Josh Fairleigh) On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Josh Fairleigh. Josh grew up on the east coast of Australia, surfing, skating, boxing, fishing, loving all the outdoor active lifestyle this environment allows. School was very low on the list; this resulted in a early school drop out and the introduction of his first job in the surfboard industry. Surfing being Josh’s life passion; he shaped custom surfboards for about 15 years until his Saturn return when he began to see the environmental impact of the industry and pictured his own health in another 15 years. This was the time when Josh became very interested in health and natural medicines. After an awakening during a yoga course in Thailand with some influential teachers Josh began studying Ayurveda, Yoga, Reiki, Pranic Healing and Shamanic Crystal work and finally found the passion for academic education that he could not find in the earlier school years. Josh now teaches Breath workshops and does energy and Shamanic Healing’s. Josh became interested in Feng Shui as he spent many years traveling the world and Australia, through this travelling from town to town, country to country he was aware of his own moods, perception and reality changing; which made him curious as to how much our environment has an effect on our reality, from the weather, the land forms, water quality, different beliefs, colours, shapes and the spiritual energy. Josh has studied Feng Shui and Environmental studies with the Australian College of Environmental Studies. He now emphasises Breathwork as a tool to facilitate spiritual, mental, physical and emotional health. This approach and training touches all of these aspects of life; from physical fitness, to harmonising our internal and external energy bodies. We spoke about Josh's Lyme Disease and how it has affected his relationship with himself, his wife and his daughter, particularly with regards to how he perceives his masculinity.

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ian Ferguson, he is the co-creator of The Erotic Blueprint Breakthrough™ and co-founder of The Blueprint Breakthrough, Inc., a company dedicated to Erotic Liberation for All. Our company mission is to realize a vision of global sexual wellness,  putting an end to the perpetuation of sexual trauma, empowering every person to have the healthy relationships they desire and to claim the consensual and fulfilling pleasure they deserve. Ian, an internationally recognized speaker, has appeared on Netflix’s ‘Sex, Love and Goop,’ as well as top podcasts for Tony Robbins and on other media such as Good Morning America, VH1, Anderson Live and Details magazine.  Ian is an Expert Trainer of the Erotic Blueprint™ Methodology and has helped to license over 300 Erotic Blueprint Coaches™ who now serve the global Blueprint community. Key Points: Ian introduces himself Intimacy, parenthood, and life stressors] Finding middle ground with your partner The creation of the Erotic Blueprints Mitigating inauthenticity Resistance to sexual exploration Advice for expanding sexual experiences Relevant Links: Ian’s Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ian.ferguson.925 Ian’s Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/user/NewWorldSexEducation Ian’s Website: The Blueprint Breakthrough https://missjaiya.com Cam’s Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser/ 

Quicky #18 is from Season 2, Episode 4: Be A Man: Sex, Anger and Doing the Work (with Tim Morrison) On today's episode I chat with a dear brother of mine, Tim Morrison. He is a leading Mens work facilitator and transformational coach, he is also a multi instrumentalist and gifted shamanic, somatic bodyworker who uses sacred sound and breath to create deep transformational spaces Tim guides people on the path of personal transformation. He initiates a deep inner journey to walk people home to themselves, to connect back to the earth, back to who they truly are so they can live and lead from their heart. His passion is to walk through the shadows of deep change. Tim is building a transformational movement where everyone is guided to consciously lead within their own life, so they can live a life of purpose and fulfilment in their own genius. Tim was initiated onto the shamanic path from spirit and plant medicines, along with having trained in breath work, jungle medicine with the Katukina tribe of Brazil and worked with the Shipibo and Mestiso lineage in Peru. His focus now is on expanding consciousness and deepening human connection. We talk about the intersection of men's work and sexuality as well as the transmission of sexuality teachings in the Tantra community.

On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Laurie Mintz, a Professor at the University of Florida where she teaches Human Sexuality to hundreds of undergraduates yearly. She has published over 55 academic works. She is the author of two popular press books—both with published studies demonstrating their effectiveness: Becoming Cliterate: Why Orgasm Equality Matters and How to Get It  and A Tired Woman’s Guide to Passionate Sex.  Mintz has a private practice, working with clients on general and sexual issues. She is a Fellow of the American Psychological Association, indicating that her work has had a positive national influence on the field of psychology. Key points: Laurie introduces herself Eating disorders and sexuality Penis size anxiety Representations of the penis The importance of the clitoris Prioritizing pleasure with vibrators Men being invested in women’s pleasure Closing the orgasm gap Relevant links: Laurie’s Website: https://www.drlauriemintz.com/  Laurie’s Instagram: @drlauriemintz  Cam’s Patreon: https://patreon.com/thecamfraser/ 

On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lorraine. She is a Somatic Therapist, Pleasure Coach and Bodyworker based in the Western Suburbs of Melbourne. She has been working in the field of sexuality for the past 25 years. Starting out in the strip clubs of the UK and moving into therapy and bodywork in 2015. She works with all genders, specialising in working with people who have experienced sexual and physical trauma and people recovering from surgery and illness. Helping them to feel more pleasure and restore sexual function. She works both online and in person offering 1:1 sessions and group workshops. Key Points: Lorraine introduces herself Common experiences of trauma How trauma manifests in the body Cam shares about his own traumatic experiences Feeling pleasure after trauma Men acknowledging their trauma Advice for moving forward Relevant Links: Lorraine's Instagram: @lorrainepentello Lorraine's Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lorrainepentello Lorraine's website: https://lorrainepentello.com/