

Be The Husband She Brags About
Kings of Freedom
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
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Aug 16, 2023 • 47min
115: 3 Steps To Deep Intimacy Any Dude Can Nail
One of the greatest struggles in marriage for nearly every husband on the planet is trying to figure out how to create deep intimacy. This is especially true when, the further into marriage you go, the more disconnection and stagnation there is in most marriage experiences.
So how is the well-intentioned regular guy in marriage meant to suddenly figure this challenge of creating deep intimacy in the moment? Here’s how, of course! Let’s begin…..
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 10, 2023 • 1h 34min
114: The 7 Deadly Sins of Narcissistic Mother-In-Laws
Special return guest, Matilde Crocini (my beautiful Queen!), rocks the socks off us all in her in-depth surgical analysis of narcissistic mother-in-laws. Unchecked, narcissistic mother-in-laws can create havoc and destruction in your marriage.
Enjoy Mark and Matilde's ring-side-seat experiences of overcoming the destructive narcissistic traits and behaviours demonstrated in Matilde's mother.
Get ready to enter an uncensored revelatory ride of awakening awareness on this essential topic!!!
To connect with Matilde:
Women Reclaiming Their Fullness – Women reclaiming Their Fullness
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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Aug 9, 2023 • 35min
113: Today My Queen Ripped Through My Mediocrity Justifying BS!
Raw, real and delivered fresh from the octagon of my marriage today!
Enjoy!
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Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 3, 2023 • 38min
112: Why Every Husband Listening Should Get Remarried Soon!
It's a fun title that speaks to one of the most transformative healing perspectives any husband can bring into his marriage transformation journey.
This little known trick establishes a way of communicating that can burn up years of resentment in a surprisingly playful way leaving you the path of least resistance to creating the marriage of your dreams.
Let's begin....
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Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Aug 2, 2023 • 41min
110: How To Upgrade Your Commitment and Enter Hero Husband Status
Most husbands subconsciously think that exchanging marriage vows was the biggest commitment, yet that moment in the nervous system of our Queens doesn't count for sh1t compared with moment to moment embodied commitment.
Deriving deep inspiration from a mountaineer's perspective on the miraculous powers of commitment, welcome to a direct challenge to up-level your commitment levels to a standard your Queen is irrefutably inspired by.
Let's begin......
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
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Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 27, 2023 • 1h 5min
110: Be Like A Monk Who Loves To F!ck
The cultural shaming of desire has created one of the most destructive unspoken forces poisoning marriages in the modern era.
Our primal body loves the radically alive feeling that desire in it’s broadest sense affords us, including but not limited to it’s expression in sexual intimacy.
Yet, the culturally conditioned collective mindset of humanity has been indoctrinated into believing desire is somehow wrong.
It's time to open our minds up to a spiritually centred perspective on desire that allows us show up as the love liberating beings we were born to be.
Let’s begin….
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
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Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 26, 2023 • 43min
109: Marriage Is a Lonely Dogfight Without Brotherly Love and Support
A sad tragedy of modern living is that 99% of husbands are feeling lonely in marriage and life.
We men are missing the spiritual nourishment of genuine deep connection with other men and often our marriages are unwittingly taking a destructive hit because of this.
The subconscious boy energy patterns of neediness see our wives as the only source of love. This breeds the common catchphrase, “can’t live with her, can’t live without her”.
Almost all men suffer feelings of resentment and rejection when their wives don’t meet their attachment needs in the moment.
This episode introduces a simple but profound exercise you can do immediately to deepen your emotional resiliency in life and marriage.
By deepening your roots of brotherly love and support around you, you become the unfuckwithable mountain of love and presence your Queen has only fantasised about!
Let’s begin….
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 20, 2023 • 39min
111: Masculine Words Of Safety For Marriage First Aid Moments
The great feminine emotional wound is fearing abandonment in love.
Unwittingly most husbands trigger this wound in deeply emotional moments with their wives by trying to suggest a fix or solution to the problem.
The counter-intuitive trick to fixing a shitty feeling emotional moment your wife is experiencing is by meeting her there fully in that moment.
In this episode I share a list of high leverage words to say that will be medicine for your Queen’s soul to relax into knowing her Conscious King is on duty.
Let’s begin….
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 19, 2023 • 37min
109: The 4-Word Deep Connection Phrase Wives Love Hearing
This episode comes off the back of an intimate relationship wisdom bomb dropped by Duey Freeman during my recent conversation with him.
In these four simple words, you will have access to a high-leverage means to meet your Queen’s core feminine desire for union in love and sooth the core feminine emotional wound of abandonment.
I’ve played with this four-word phrase with my Queen for weeks to extraordinary effect, having her chuckle in delight in light moments to softening into tears from feeling seen in tough moments.
If you want a marriage experience that’s infinitely more fun to navigate, listen, and listen well ; )
Let’s begin….
The episode with Duey:
Be The Husband She Brags About / The 3 Most Important Words In Intimate Relationships with Duey Freeman (audioboom.com)
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 13, 2023 • 1h 23min
109: "Living an Alcohol-Free Peak Performance Lifestyle" with Shea Fairbanks
In this episode we welcome back in Shea Fairbanks. Emerging from a childhood of immensely traumatising events, for years Shea would use alcohol to help numb the pain.
Out of the ashes he would rise up to break free not only from alcoholism, but to create a life of epic freedom and uncommonly high levels of radical health and vitality.
Shea is an Alcohol Free Performance Coach and passionate advocate for a sober lifestyle.
With a background in human performance and a large focus on performance breathwork, Shea is guiding clients to radically elevate their health by focusing on vitality and longevity. A core part of his work is aligning men with their purpose and highest potential.
To connect with Shea:
Shea Fairbanks (@shea.fairbanks) • Instagram photos and videos
Alcohol Free Performance Coach (@shea.fairbanks) | TikTok
Black Sheep Masterminds
Black Sheep Masterminds (@blacksheepmasterminds) • Instagram photos and videos
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your rela
tionship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast


