

Be The Husband She Brags About
Kings of Freedom
Welcome to the podcast helping you be the high performing husband your wife loves, kids respect and friends admire.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
This podcast aims to end every man’s greatest fear that his best will never be enough to make marriage work, in the chaos of life’s overwhelming demands.
Join Masculine Mastery coach Mark Usher on a journey going from feeling frustrated, overwhelmed and incompetent in marriage to being the confident, attractive and radically alive husband your wife will love, laugh and let loose with.
Better Husbands Today. Better World Tomorrow.
Episodes
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Jul 12, 2023 • 46min
108: Unscrewing My Arrogant Ass Parenting Style
I ate humble pie recently when parenting expert Dan Peterson came on the show. Entering the interview with Dan, I felt I had the parenting game in the bag. Dan’s reflections ripped this hood of arrogance off my eyes leaving me staring at major blind spots I had been unable to see.
In today’s episode I share personal experiences in breaking up my arrogant ass parenting style immediately after I interviewed Dan. Dan’s three steps to consciously parent challenging kids has changed the game for me since speaking with him just three weeks ago.
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
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To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 6, 2023 • 1h 22min
107: Living A Life of Radical Masculine Freedom with Alex McAfee
Few men have lived with such radical masculine inner and outer freedom of expression than Alex McAfee. Enjoy this rip-roaring ride through his inner and outer world adventures as he details his process of navigating life’s chapters while remaining true to his authentic self.
It's the type of radical challenge we need set down to us as husbands to make sure we empty our fullest spiritual music into the arena of life while we are still here. Are you ready to pay the price to own your fullest, unapologetic freedom as a man? Hell YES! Of course you are, you’re a King!!!
Let’s begin….
To connect with Alex:
Conrad Cushions - Meditation Cushions for Modern World
Fast & Light - Los Angeles Digital Agency (fastandlight.agency)
Alex McAfee (@mcafeeme) • Instagram photos and videos
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jul 5, 2023 • 54min
106: The Single Paradigm Shift Needed to Save Your Marriage
How you look is how you see.
Marriage transformation can only happen when you bring into direct question how your mind looks on at your marriage. From one habitual perspective, it creates a loop of only seeing one possible reality, thus recreating the same reality.
This is only an issue if you don’t like the reality that’s showing up for you in marriage. Most guys don’t like their married life reality so we all need to take a deeper look at our perspective.
The simple-to-grasp paradigm shift presented within this episode changes everything for the better…..but only if you have the spiritual balls to go with it’s radical simplicity.
Let’s begin….
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I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jun 29, 2023 • 1h 20min
105: Marriage Transformation Hero Special Series with Calum Stenning
Will you do The Heroic Husbands Marriage Self-Assessment and Receive A 9-Point Personalised Fast Improvement Plan?
Start 5-Min Self-Assessment NOW
Want the Quickest & Easiest Path to Becoming the Marriage Transforming Hero of your relationship?
Coaching - Heroic Husbands
Don’t Miss The Upcoming Intake to the brand NEW Heroic Husbands Training and Community platform:
Community Platform - Heroic Husbands

Jun 28, 2023 • 1h 3min
104: The Revelatory Truth About Depression in Marriage
The experience of depression in marriage makes it a brutally painful and connection eroding experience for the couples involved.
Yet, like every aspect of modern life, the experience we live out is determined by the social story we've been conditioned to believe.
What if the story we've been told about our human experience of profound unrelenting sadness is the source of our cycle of disempowerment and hopelessness?
And what if there's a fresh perspective that can support us liberating our hearts from this blackness and the hearts of those around us? There is such a fresh and new perspective.
Let's begin....
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now
To connect with Mark’s Queen Matilde:
Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers podcast

Jun 22, 2023 • 1h 7min
103: The 3 Pillars of Consciously Parenting Challenging Children
For fathers everywhere who struggle to get their kids to behave well and show respect, Dan Peterson is the medicine to cure all our parenting woes.
Dan specializes in helping adults who work with or have challenging children, develop strategies for their child to succeed in both the school environment and family setting. Dan wants to provide parenting tips for children with behavioural problems and encourage positive parenting.
In this episode Dan’s framework will help you go from well-intentioned guesswork and struggle to becoming a ninja of conscious parenting! Be prepared for a revelatory ride in awakening how easeful and enjoyable parenting can be when you’re armed with an accurate map of the territory!
Let’s begin….
To connect with Dan:
http://www.thecompass4life.com/compass-4-life/about-dan/
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now

Jun 21, 2023 • 1h 7min
102: The Trash Can Metaphor Your Wife Needs You to Understand
Think of attraction like two magnets. Held in one position, it’s almost impossible to get them to stay together without exerting immense force. Yet, within a quick change of position they are glued together when the inherent attractive forces line up correctly.
The Trash Can Metaphor lines the attractive forces between you and your Queen up. Period.
Know and understand this metaphor and you will come to know and understand what being the Marriage Transforming Force of your relationship feels like. Let’s begin….
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now

Jun 15, 2023 • 1h 13min
101: Embodying Bravery In Love and Life with James Bravelove
In this beautiful conversation you get to meet the brilliant James Bravelove.
James details the profound inner journey he had in re-establishing his bond of love with his wife after a brief period of separation. He speaks to the heart of the “boy energy” every single man brings to his marriage, and his initiatory journey to releasing this persona to step into Kingship in love and life.
Be ready for an action-packed, fun-filled rollercoaster conversation between James and Mark!
Let’s begin……
To connect with James:
Alpha Rising | Menswork, Breathwork and Wellness (alpha-rising.com)
James Bravelove - men’s relationship coach (@alpharising.menswork) • Instagram photos and videos
Men Doing the Work, by Alpha Rising Menswork | Podcast on Spotify
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now

Jun 14, 2023 • 1h 12min
100: 6 Steps to Unstoppable Leadership Confidence She Trusts
One of the most common issues husbands report is having a lack of confidence in knowing how to lead in marriage. We desire to inspire our women to trust us deeply but unwittingly fall short of what they need from us.
The tragedy is that in the not knowing how to lead, most husbands stop trying.
The pain of trying and then failing to gain your Queen’s trust is the greatest pain we can experience in marriage.
Yet, what if there was a precise systematic way to show up that evoked the deepest response of trust in your leadership from your Queen? Would you want to know more???
Well there is. It’s simple to understand and profound in the impact it will create in your marriage as your Goddess starts trusting you with her entire heart and soul! Let’s begin…..
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now

Jun 8, 2023 • 1h 22min
99: Simple Steps To Healing Your Emotional Trauma with Justin Sunseri
In this episode we welcome in Justin Sunseri.
Justin is a trauma-informed therapist and the host of the Stuck Not Broken podcast.
Justin believes the world needs a new understanding of mental health. One that's simplified, easily accessible for anyone and doesn't rely on abstract psychobabble.
Enjoy a super fun and deceptively profound deep dive conversation into how you can navigate your emotional trauma as you learn to thrive in life as the powerful King you were born to become!!!
To connect with Justin:
Website: https://www.justinlmft.com/
Podcast: Stuck Not Broken
To connect with Mark:
Ready to end years of guesswork and unnecessary struggle and Be The Husband She Brags About?
Find out more about Heroic Husbands Men’s Circles here.
Book Your Free 60 mins Heroic Husbands Discovery Call Here:
Get your FREE “15 Simple Habits to Be The Husband She Brags About” e-book at www.kingsoffreedom.me
I want to hear from you! Click the link to send me a 90sec voice message with questions, clarifications or feedback on what was most meaningful in today’s episode.
Send Mark voice message Now


