Seeing Other People

On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to transform your love life. We discuss the stigma surrounding "learning" how to date, even though dating is a relatively new concept. They share their hesitations about signing up for the class, what they thought the other students would be like vs. what they were actually like, how it felt to learn about dating with a group of strangers, what what surprised them and challenged them throughout the process, what they learned from Logan, what they learned from each other, and how their dating lives are going now that they've completed the course.  Want to be a student in Logan's next cohort? Applications are open now through Thursday, January 20th! Click here to apply.  Logan is the resident Dating Expert on the new hit podcast This Is Dating. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the importance of having “Other Significant Others," and why our partner can’t be our go-to person for everything. Logan shares her advice for people who feel like they’ve tried everything, but it’s just not working out for them. Logan’s announcing her next cohort for her course Date Smarter in the next few days. Add your email here to be the first to hear about it. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide,  and spiraling into depression.  We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if you should date while battling an eating disorder, finding the balance between vulnerability and oversharing, why The Bachelor franchise is wrongfully encouraging trauma bonding, and more. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating trends this year, red flags you should avoid, and how to prioritize dating. Mia shares the important conversations that she and her fiancé are having to ensure their marriage will have a strong foundation, and Carleigh opens up about is embracing singlehood and navigating dating burnout. Finally, we discuss how we stay mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating life and relationships. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career vs. where I want to be, what the future of Seeing Other People looks like, and the biggest takeaways and dating lessons from all of this year’s expert and Unfiltered guests.  Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during covid, dating while living at home with his parents, the struggles of being a hopeless romantic in today’s dating world, and more. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno, hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast, to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021.   We dive into how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, what really happened with #shotgirlsummer, and our biggest red flags and green flags when going on dates. We look back on the many surprising celebrity couples and dating trends that have consumed our year. Finally, we discuss how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, and what we think we’ll see in 2022. Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts.  On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided with a breakup six years into a relationship with his girlfriend who he lived with. This happened during covid while he was already going through a challenging time in his life. He shares had a break up impacted his mental health and what his recovery journey has been like, including seeking therapy and psychiatry for the first time, experimenting with different mental health professionals to find the right one, contacting the suicide hotline, creating a routine, discovering new hobbies and passions, and more. Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six years. We hear about how their movie-worthy meet-cute, the challenges they’ve overcome in their relationship, and the pros and cons of dating a therapist. They share how they navigate big life transitions, how they support each other, how they ask for space when they need it, and how they have learned to communicate effectively. Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happened when they reconnected, and where they are now, and how the way she handled this experience changed her for the better. Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.