Seeing Other People

In this episode, I sit down with Mia and Carleigh, hosts of Mostly Balanced. We discuss healthier dating habits we should develop, our predictions for dating trends this year, red flags you should avoid, and how to prioritize dating. Mia shares the important conversations that she and her fiancé are having to ensure their marriage will have a strong foundation, and Carleigh opens up about is embracing singlehood and navigating dating burnout. Finally, we discuss how we stay mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating life and relationships. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this year’s final episode, I sit down with my producer, Camila Vola, to celebrate Seeing Other People's 1st birthday by reflecting on everything that happened in 2021. I open up about how this was one of the hardest years of my life, my fears and hesitations around losing my co host and doing the show solo, the biggest accomplishments and the scariest challenges I faced, where I am in my career vs. where I want to be, what the future of Seeing Other People looks like, and the biggest takeaways and dating lessons from all of this year’s expert and Unfiltered guests.  Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On todays episode I sit down with a 26 year old man from London. We hear about his recent transcontinental whirlwind romance, what it's been like dating during covid, dating while living at home with his parents, the struggles of being a hopeless romantic in today’s dating world, and more. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by the amazing Katie Dombrowski and Victoria Bruno, hosts of The Moral Hangover Podcast, to break down everything that happened in dating in 2021.   We dive into how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, what really happened with #shotgirlsummer, and our biggest red flags and green flags when going on dates. We look back on the many surprising celebrity couples and dating trends that have consumed our year. Finally, we discuss how the pandemic changed our dating lives for the better, and what we think we’ll see in 2022. Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode may be triggering for those who sensitive to suicidal thoughts.  On today’s episode, I sit down with a man who shares his story of being blindsided with a breakup six years into a relationship with his girlfriend who he lived with. This happened during covid while he was already going through a challenging time in his life. He shares had a break up impacted his mental health and what his recovery journey has been like, including seeking therapy and psychiatry for the first time, experimenting with different mental health professionals to find the right one, contacting the suicide hotline, creating a routine, discovering new hobbies and passions, and more. Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Therapist Jamie Genatt, and boyfriend, Taylor Adwar, join us to talk about how they built a successful partnership and healthy relationship over the last six years. We hear about how their movie-worthy meet-cute, the challenges they’ve overcome in their relationship, and the pros and cons of dating a therapist. They share how they navigate big life transitions, how they support each other, how they ask for space when they need it, and how they have learned to communicate effectively. Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode, I sat down with a woman who recently experienced being ghosted for the first time by a man who lived a few doors down from her. We hear how she processed being ghosted, how she didn’t feel the way social media and people in her life were telling her she should feel and how she used this experience to go down a path of self healing and self discovery. Later we find out what happened when they reconnected, and where they are now, and how the way she handled this experience changed her for the better. Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This episode is for the boys who want to be gentlemen, and for the girls who want to get inside a gentleman’s brain. I chat with James (Levon The Gent) Nichols II, founder of The Gent Code, who helps men become the best version of themselves in life, in dating, and in relationships. We discuss what it means to be a gentleman, the biggest dating pain points that men face (and how to overcome them), why genders react to breakups differently, why men seem to be afraid of commitment, and more. Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Do you wish you could choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s episode I sit down with a woman who shares her experiences being cheated on, later meeting the other women, and realizing they were not the ones to blame. We discuss how she found out she was cheated on, what it was like learning to trust again, and how she and these women helped support each other. We discuss why being cheated on has nothing to do with you, whether or not you should let someone know if you know they’re being cheated on, and more. Tis the season and Batter That Matters's cookies tis the perfect holiday gift. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Need sleep? I got you covered. Mindset Wellness CBD's Rest Gummies contain a perfect mix of CBD & melatonin that help you get the rest that you need. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

I’m joined by the hilarious Erica Spera and Molly DeMellier, hosts of Shooters Gotta Shoot. We’re diving into the results of the Instagram polls you’ve voted on, debating the winners, and sharing our own opinions on each. We break down what happens at the end of a date, being a guest or bringing a guest to the holidays, first date deal breakers, how much someone’s relationship history matters, if you need closure to move on, if "the one" is out there, and more. Erica runs a private virtual Herpes Support Group. Sign up here or email herpesgroupnyc@gmail.com for more information or if you’re interested in joining! Are you ready to treat yourself or your friend to the best cookies ever? Batter That Matters is my absolute obsession and everyone who tries their cookies falls in love with them. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase! Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection! Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices