Seeing Other People

On this episode, I’m joined by Candice Horbacz aka Eva Lovia. We hear about Candice’s rise to fame in the adult film industry and what her career taught her about intimacy and relationships. Candice shares how she and her now-husband navigated their open relationship, worked through moments of jealousy and made it work despite the unique challenges they faced. We discuss what it takes to have a healthy open relationship, why you shouldn’t feel jealous that your partner enjoys porn, and how to communicate with a new partner about what you want in your sex life. Feel better with O Positiv's Immunity and PMS gummies! opositiv.com/seeingotherpeople for 20% off your purchase or subscription. Overcome your dating anxiety just like I did by taking Mindset Wellness CBD's Happy gummy before a date and Calm gummy after! Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping. curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one-month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this episode, I'm joined by a 27-year-old woman who has never had sex before. We hear about why she’s never had sex, what it’s like to date as a virgin, how dates react when she tells them about it, how others judge her and how she judges her self because of it. She shares her fears around losing her virginity and how our sex-obsessed culture causes her to feel isolated. Mindset Wellness CBD's happy and calm gummies alleviated my dating anxiety. Grab yours today at mindsetwellness.com & code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off + free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode I’m joined by Jen Lauren, host of Dare to Self Care. We discuss the importance of balancing your relationship and friendships, maintaining your independence and sense of self throughout your relationship, and continuing to practice self-care when you're in a relationship. Jen shares how she and her boyfriend went from “high school sweethearts” to serious partners in the real world, how they’ve changed as individuals and as partners over the course of their 10 year relationship, and the realities of moving in with your significant other. Get him the best tools for the job™ this Valentine's day at mandscaped.com and use code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off and free shipping. Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today. Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On todays episode, I sit down with Aliana Michals who shares her story of how her happy and healthy relationship was directly affected by the national dialogue surrounding the pandemic, vaccine efficacy and hesitancy. Aliana’s upcoming poetry collection, In Defense of Science, is a direct reflection on her how despite how in love she and her partner were, they ultimately chose their values over each other, in the end, they were better off for it. Pre order "In Defense of Science" here.  Choose your mindset with Mindset Wellness CBD's delicious and effectiveCBD gummys. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode, I’m joined by Jonny Lazarus and Justin Kapelmaster from The Latke Room. We discuss why your date or partner probably doesn’t know what you’re thinking, what an Instagram story view really means, how to slide into the DMs, why gender roles shouldn’t matter but social cues should, and why some people think they have to prioritize their career over their relationships. We answer listener emails about being ghosted after dating for four months and being unsure whether or not to close the door on a situationship.  Get him the best tools for the job™ this Valentine's day at mandscaped.com code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for 20% off and free shipping.  Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today's episode I'm joined by a 25 year old man who recently went through a breakup when his ex-girlfriend's parents found out that he has Aspergers Syndrome. He shares what having Aspergers is like, how it does and doesn’t impact his daily life and relationships, and what common misconceptions are of those with this disability. We hear about what his relationship was like, how the breakup unfolded, and how painful it is to be discriminated against because of a disability. Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On today’s episode, I’m joined by Blaine Anderson, aka Dating by Blaine, who is a dating coach for men. We hear about the biggest challenges men face in modern dating, ways men are misunderstood in dating, and how Blaine ended up helping men with their dating lives. Blaine shares tips for dating apps profiles, approaching a woman IRL, sliding into her DMs, and texting etiquette. We answer listener questions about exclusivity, having needs vs. being needy, burnout, and sifting through matches. Are you ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! curology.com/seeingotherpeople to get your one month free trial of Curology's custom skincare today daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with two individuals who recently took 'Date Smarter' – Logan Ury's six-week interactive bootcamp designed to transform your love life. We discuss the stigma surrounding "learning" how to date, even though dating is a relatively new concept. They share their hesitations about signing up for the class, what they thought the other students would be like vs. what they were actually like, how it felt to learn about dating with a group of strangers, what what surprised them and challenged them throughout the process, what they learned from Logan, what they learned from each other, and how their dating lives are going now that they've completed the course.  Want to be a student in Logan's next cohort? Applications are open now through Thursday, January 20th! Click here to apply.  Logan is the resident Dating Expert on the new hit podcast This Is Dating. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On Today’s episode I’m joined by behavioral scientist, dating coach, author, and Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, Logan Ury. We discuss how Logan helped me change my bad dating habits, how she initially friendzoned her now-husband for years until a dating coach helped her realize he was what she was looking for, why you need accountability partners to achieve your dating goals, the importance of having “Other Significant Others," and why our partner can’t be our go-to person for everything. Logan shares her advice for people who feel like they’ve tried everything, but it’s just not working out for them. Logan’s announcing her next cohort for her course Date Smarter in the next few days. Add your email here to be the first to hear about it. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On this Unfiltered episode, I sit down with Zoe Scurletis, host of the podcast Solace and the City, to talk about how our traumatic experiences impact who we are and how we date. Zoe walks us through what it was like developing an eating disorder, losing a friend to suicide,  and spiraling into depression.  We discuss if, when and how to communicate your past traumas when seeing someone new, if you should date while battling an eating disorder, finding the balance between vulnerability and oversharing, why The Bachelor franchise is wrongfully encouraging trauma bonding, and more. Ready to choose your mindset? Mindset Wellness CBD allows you to do exactly that and their gummies are next level. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 20% off and free shipping! trywinc.com/seeingotherpeople to get 4 custom curated bottles of wine for $29.95 https://www.daily-harvest.com/ code SEEINGOTHERPEOPLE for $40 off your first box kettleandfire.com code ILANA20 for 20% off bone broths and soups blaketaylor.com code ILANA15 for 15% off my favorite jewelry brand Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices