

Seeing Other People
Ilana Dunn
Modern dating sucks, but dating expert Ilana Dunn is here to make it suck just a little bit less. Seeing Other People is your go-to podcast for honest conversations about dating, relationships, and everything in between. Each week features three types of episodes: Cohosts for Life on Mondays, where Ilana and her husband Jake open up about the everyday moments that shape their relationship; Tuesday episodes with impactful guests who help you navigate the complexities of modern dating; and Unfiltered episodes on Thursdays, where anonymous guests share their most raw and relatable experiences. No matter your relationship status, this show is here to help you a little less alone.
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Nov 23, 2021 • 50min
Dating While Grieving with Krista St. Germain
Krista St-Germain is a mom, grief expert and life coach for widowed moms and host of the Widowed Moms Podcast. She joins the show today to discuss sex, dating, and love after experiencing the traumatic loss of a partner or any individual in your life. We discuss the grieving process and why it isn’t linear, knowing when to start dating again, navigating the guilt around searching for a new partner, keeping their memory alive while moving on, rediscovering yourself, learning your triggers, and more.
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Nov 18, 2021 • 1h 2min
OCDating with Lindsay and Emily Stetzer
Lindsay and Emily Stetzer are sisters living with obsessive-compulsive disorder and anxiety, which led them to create Presently, a mindfulness jewelry company that helps you redirect your thoughts and return to the beauty of the present moment, wherever you are. Lindsay and Emily walk us through the different types of OCD, how their diagnoses impacted them, and how their OCD does and doesn’t affect their daily lives. They open up about how their OCD has impacted their past relationships and their current dating lives, as well as the tools they have learned to not let their mental health hold them back. Follow @presentlybracelets and treat yourself or a friend to an anxiety-soothing bracelet from Presently this holiday season at presentlybracelets.com Use code "seeingotherpeople" for 20% off your purchase. Tis the season for Friendsgiving and Batter That Matters's Fall Collection of cookies is the perfect thing to bring. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 16, 2021 • 56min
Learn About Divorce Before Getting Married with Kate Anthony
Kate Anthony, certified divorce coach and host of The Divorce Survival Guide Podcast, joins the show. We discuss how to decide if you should stay or leave your relationship, what factors lead to a divorce being amicable vs messy, and how to actually go about getting a divorce. We chat about prenups, couples therapy, the US litigation system, children of divorce, co-parenting, dating after divorce and more. Nobody goes into a relationship or marriage planning on getting divorced, which is why this episode is a must-listen even if you’re single or in the beginning stages of a relationship.
I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!
Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!
We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 11, 2021 • 54min
Unfiltered: Even Therapists Get Their Hearts Broken
On Unfiltered, I sit down with a 26 year old social worker and therapist who practices in New York City. We hear about her dating experience in her late teens and early twenties that led to the heartbreak that shaped who she is today. She shares what it’s like to date as a therapist, what she learns from her patients, what it’s like to hear her patients be vulnerable all day long while she struggles being vulnerable and more.
Im so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!
Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!
We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 9, 2021 • 50min
Bridesmaid for Hire & Surviving Weddings Single with Jen Glantz
On today’s episode I’m joined by Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid For Hire, 3x author, and host of You’re Not Getting Younger. Jen and I discuss how to cope with being the only one of your friends who isn’t engaged, going to weddings solo while feeling depressed about your own love life, and what you should expect if you have never been a bridesmaid before. We learn how we can best support our bride and groom friends, if/when we should offer our opinions on their wedding planning, common mistakes people make when it comes to wedding planning, and more. She shares her own love story and gives us an inside look at wedding horror stories, love stories, and everything in between that she has witnessed since she founded Bridesmaid For Hire.
I'm so excited to be partnering with Batter That Matters! Shop the Fall Collection and treat someone in your life (or yourself) to a box of the best cookies out there. Head to www.ourbattermatters.com and use code "seeingotherpeople" for 10% off your purchase!
Support and rep your favorite podcast by shopping the Seeing Other People x Nus merch collection!
We're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 4, 2021 • 51min
Unfiltered: Stop Lying to Yourself
On today's episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with a woman who shares what she went through when she caught her boyfriend hooking up with a stripper. She tells us what it was like finding this out, how she reacted to it, and how it impacted her dating life for years to come. We discuss wanting to change people, not having our needs met in situationships, and lying to ourselves about what kind of relationships we’re really ready for.
This month we're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can still be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay feeling healthy and balanced. Grab yours today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Nov 2, 2021 • 1h 6min
Owning Your Timeline with Laura Behnke
Laura Behnke joins the Seeing Other People family today to explain why you need to throw out your timeline. After 16 years of success as an award-winning television journalist, Laura still couldn’t help but feel like she was “behind” as she was in her 30s and had never been in a relationship. We discuss how to stop worrying about where you “should” be in your life, how to not feel like there’s something wrong with you for being single for a long period of time, what to say when someone asks why you’ve never been in a relationship, how friendships change as people’s lives go down different paths at different times, what to say to your friend who has never been in a relationship or feels left behind, and more.
The holidays are right around the corner, the sun is setting earlier, and it's getting cold out, so we're prioritizing feeling mentally and physically healthy so we can still be our best selves in our dating lives and our daily lives. Mindset Wellness CBD's Health Gummies are filled with Vitamin D and ingredients that help you stay healthy and feel balanced. Grab yours today at www.mindsetwellness.com and use code SeeingOtherPeople for 10% off and free shipping!
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 28, 2021 • 1h 1min
Unfiltered: On Again, Off Again
On today’s episode of Unfiltered, I sit down with Romeo, who shares the story about his on again, off again relationship that began in college.
We hear about the highs and lows of the relationship, the pressure he faced from his peers as a college athlete to have a get girls mentality, the breakups, the makeups, cheating, anxiety and more. Romeo explains how he overcame his heartbreak and worked through all of these things in order to end up in the healthy relationship that he is now in.
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Oct 26, 2021 • 57min
Overcoming Dating Anxiety with Kevin Nahai
On today's episode, I sit down with Kevin Nahai, a personal coach who focuses on helping people with anxiety, low self esteem, and finding a healthy relationship. We dive into the ins and outs of dating anxiety including: how to know if your anxiety is coming from you or from them, how to stop attracting unhealthy partners, how to not get anxious when someone doesn’t text back, why you should focus on whether or not you like them, why you should make sure your values align, when and how to share your anxieties with a new potential partner, and more.
Want help overcoming your anxiety and getting what you want out of this year's cuffing season? Mindset Wellness CBD's Focus Gummies are here to help you do both. Grab yours today and use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!
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Oct 21, 2021 • 1h 1min
Unfiltered: I Flew to NY for a First Date
On this episode of unfiltered I sit down with a woman from Canada who shares her story of booking a flight to New York City to meet somebody who she matched with on bumble a few months earlier. We hear what their conversations were like leading up to the trip, what happened when she finally got there, and how everything was not at all what she thought it was going to be like.
Cuffing season is here and it's time to focus on finding who and what you're looking for. My favorite way to focus is with the help of Mindset Wellness CBD's Focus Gummies. Try them today and thank me later. (And use code SeeingOtherPeople at checkout for 10% off and free shipping!)
Support this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/seeing-other-people/donations Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices