100% Real With Ruby; nutrition, strength, fat loss, muscle, macros - without the fluff

feel like nothing worksanymore?you're eating “healthy,”training hard, and doing all the “right” things—but your body just isn’tchanging the way it used to.if you’ve ever said “i’m doingeverything right, and nothing’s working”—this episode is going to hit hard. fat loss is harder whenyou’re overstressed, under-recovered. , or spent years in a deficit—thisepisode is going to explain why fat loss actually is harder for you… ifyou’re petite, over 35, or peri/post-menopausal… your body’s margin for erroris even tighter. this isn’t just about hormones.it’s not just about age. it’s about what no one told you happens when youcombine low muscle mass, years of dieting, and a body that’s stressed out +under-recovered. you’ll walk away with: • the real reason your fat loss hasstalled (and why it’s not your fault) • what to focus on if you want to stay lean,strong, and healthy for life• why more cardio or morediscipline is not the answer• how to create the body + lifeyou want without burning out trying if you’ve been told “just eatless and move more”—this is going to flip that whole belief on its head.want to come on for a chat aboutyour own journey or struggles? i’d love to hear from you.   find me @transformxruby oninstagramask podcast questions:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_linkapply for a free consult:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_linkdirect link to dm me on ig: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby--It’s time to rewrite the rules, build strong bodies, and take control of your results.this episode will change the way you think about body transformation forever.subscribe to my pod for more actionable advice, strategies that actually work, and no-nonsense conversations about what it really takes to transform your body and mindset. Share this episode with a friend who needs to hear itI cover:Why weight loss is harder for womenWeight loss tips for petite womenFat loss strategies for women over 35Strength training for womenWhy eating less doesn’t workPeriodized nutrition for weight lossBuilding muscle to boost metabolismStop dieting and start thrivingMindset shifts for sustainable fat lossHow to balance hormones and lose weight

Do you need a new lens? Are you feeling fulfilled in your journey? Or resentment? Are you lit up by your life? hard work… working hard… discipline – the REAL problem is HOW you’ve been using all 3its time to redefine what “results” mean based on who you want to become, not what you're afraid to lose.chris liddle and i unpack the hidden cost of hustle culture, the identity traps in the fitness world, and how your body can’t change if your beliefs don’t.what we cover: • why resentment is the real reason you can’t stay consistent • the trap of chasing your old body while living a new life • how to build boundaries, not burnout • the psychology of shame, muscle-building, and why you're exhausted (not broken) • the real reason you keep flip-flopping between motivation and exhaustionwe also talk about what changes when you stop chasing impressive and start chasing aligned. this isn’t a motivation podcast—it’s a conversation about self-trust, identity, and reclaiming your energy without losing your goals.if you’re feeling stuck, resentful, or burnt out from "doing the right things" with no payoff, this is your permission slip to stop blaming yourself and start upgrading your framework. you’ll get:the language to name what you’re experiencing (so you can finally shift it)a belief reframe that changes how you show up tomorrowa shift in how you measure successthe exact questions to ask when your results don’t match your effort mini wins you can apply right now:• track emotional reps—not just physical ones• pick one boundary to reinforce this week so your training actually feels good again • stop mistaking burnout for failure—zoom out and reassess• find your new baseline—and stop over-correcting every dipfind me @transformxruby on instagramChris’s Personal Motto: Lead by ExampleHis IG and podcast below POD episode; https://open.spotify.com/episode/3znsYGrFGASeboQipZ9D85IG; https://www.instagram.com/christianliddle/ Podcast; https://podcast.invigoratetraining.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAaepE6sVZl7tK4OsOPNceaBQ1z6sMHLv5TjGmwDZ3i6jzwR53fkwyR8N6qsDUA_aem_u930rfe-GjdclIc1Uh0ckw3 books mentionedhttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/24453082-big-magic https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/155981.Psycho_Cyberneticshttps://www.goodreads.com/book/show/123276099-unlocked ask podcast questions: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_link apply for a free consult: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_link direct link to dm me on ig: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby

no one ever taught you how to track this part of progress.in this episode, i unpack the realities of progress — from strength gains to body recomposition — and why most women throw away the phase their body needs most.→ what progress actually looks + feels like when the numbers stall→ how strength can increase without building muscle (and why that matters)→ the tiny cues your body’s changing — before you see itthis episode is the one you play when you're on the edge of switchingprograms, slashing calories again, or questioning why you even bother.because here’s the thing: your progress might be working perfectly—you're just not being taught how tosee it.inside this episode: i unpack what real progressactually looks like• how to spot the real markers of progress (and why they’re never loud)• the science behind why you gain strength without gaining muscle• what to track so you don’t fall for “it’s not working” lies again🔥 mini win 1: you’ll learn how to film and track your lifts like acoach—so you actually see progress🔥 mini win 2: you’ll reframe your entire view on progress so youstop burning out when things get quietdrop a comment or dm if you’re navigating this phase—or want to come onthe podcast and unpack your story.👇 find me @transformxruby on instagramask podcast questions: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_linkapply for a free consult: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_linkdm me directly: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby 

you’re lifting. you’re tracking. you’re trying.but your body’s like… “nah.”this episode is for the women chasing fat loss and musclegrowth—but not getting either.tom and i talk through the sneaky reasons your training isn’t translating toresults. not because you’re not working hard—but because you’re stuck in thein-between: not quite cutting, not quite building, and definitely notprogressing.we dig into:• the difference between fat loss goals vs. physique goals• how intensity gets confused with effort• why your glutes aren’t growing (and it’s not your program)• how to fix your training if you’ve hit a plateau• how most women never build the muscle they think they’re building• the mental shift that makes your body finally change💥 2 takeaways to apply right now:\→ stop training to feel tired—start training to get stronger→ your dream body probably weighs more than you thinkthis one’s raw, real, and hits hard—because most women are doing“everything right”... but stuck in the wrong plan. its time to  stop “training to feel it” and start trainingto change📣 want to come on the podcast to chat about your journey or what’skeeping you stuck? i’d love to hear from you.find me @transformxruby on instagramask podcast questions: question formapply for a free consult: coaching formdm me directly: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby

if you’ve ever looked in the mirror and wondered:“why am i training so much… and still look the same?”its not about showing up… but HOW you show up in this episode, i break down the exact blueprint i use with clients to go from “why am i not seeing changes?” to “holy shit, i actually look like i train now.”this episode will shift the way you see effort, intensity, and progress. it’s not a motivational fluff piece. it’s a wake-up call with a training blueprint that actually builds shape — especially if you feel like you’ve been doing everything “right” and still look the same.→ if you’re tired of the pump without progress → if you’re changing your program every 4 weeks → if you’re wondering why your check-ins look the same month after month this is for you.i’m breaking down:• the difference between “activating” your glutes and actually growing them• the boring lifts that work (and why you keep skipping them)• why soreness, fatigue, or “burn” aren’t real progress markers• what intensity actually feels like — and how to start chasing that instead🧠 key mindset shifts you’ll leave with: • why more food won’t fix undertrained glutes • how to finally track progress beyond the scale • why “training hard” ≠ training with intent📌 actionable takeaways: → film your lifts. check your form. rate your sets honestly. → commit to a long-ter👇👇👇find me @transformxruby on instagram ask podcast questions: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_link apply for a free consult: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_link direct link to DM me on IG: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby—

SummaryIn this episode, Ruby and Nikias discuss the often overlooked aspects of muscle building compared to fat loss. They explore the psychological challenges faced during bulking phases, the importance of tracking progress through training metrics rather than physical measurements, and share personal experiences that highlight the need for patience and a solid routine in the muscle-building journey. The conversation emphasizes the significance of mindset and the need to shift focus from body image to training quality. In this conversation, Ruby Cherie and Nikias Tomasiello delve into the intricacies of muscle hypertrophy, the significance of training volume, and the psychological aspects of bulking. They discuss the importance of maintenance phases, the need for a mindset shift regarding body image, and the realistic expectations one should have when building muscle. The conversation emphasizes the necessity of a structured training program, proper nutrition, and the importance of recovery in achieving fitness goals.TakeawaysMany fitness discussions focus solely on fat loss journeys.Building muscle requires different metrics than fat loss.Patience is key in the muscle-building process.Bulking is often misunderstood and viewed negatively.Tracking training performance is more important than body measurements.Mindset plays a crucial role in muscle building.Confidence can grow through the process of bulking.It's essential to have a structured routine for muscle building.Physical changes in muscle growth are slow and require time.Focus on improving training quality rather than just body metrics. Everything you do in your program has a spill on effect.Focus on the elements that lead to muscle building.You're not an after photo; focus on the process.Expectations need to align with reality in fitness.Trust yourself to commit to a long-term building phase.Mindset plays a crucial role in muscle growth.Meal timing and nutrition are essential for recovery.You can't sculpt muscle from eating alone; training is key.Building muscle takes time and patience.Avoid the cycle of mini cuts and focus on long-term goals.Chapters00:00The Journey Beyond Fat Loss03:08Understanding Muscle Building Phases05:55Personal Experiences with Bulking09:10Tracking Progress in Muscle Building12:00The Importance of Mindset in Building Muscle14:48Navigating Body Image and Expectations18:00The Role of Measurements and Metrics21:06Focusing on Training Quality Over Quantity24:07Building Confidence Through the Process30:19Understanding Muscle Hypertrophy and Training Volume35:54The Importance of Maintenance Phases39:10Mindset Shifts in Bulking and Body Image44:23Expectations vs. Reality in Muscle Building51:15Practical Steps for Effective Muscle Buildingthings we discuss: muscle building, fat loss, bulking, fitness journey, body image, nutrition, training, mindset, progress tracking, personal experiences, muscle hypertrophy, training volume, maintenance phase, body image, bulking, expectations, nutrition, muscle building, fitness mindset, recovery

the effort trap no one talks aboutyou’re showing up. tracking. trying harder than ever.but your body? not responding.and that kills your motivation faster than anything.what happens when you’re doing all the things… and your body still isn’tchanging?you don’t just lose motivation.you lose trust. in your process. in your body. in yourself.this episode is for the woman who’s stuck in the effort trap—whereyou’re doing “everything right” but not seeing the payoff.you’ll hear why it’s not about working harder… it’s about setting your body upto actually respond.💡 mini win 1: learn the signs you’re in a false deficit (and why you’renot lazy, just exhausted).💡 mini win 2: walk away knowing how to rebuild belief by shifting frommicromanaging to training with intention.because real results don’t come from being stricter—they come from theright setup.if you’ve ever thought:“i’ve got nothing left to cut”“maybe i’m just not meant to have that body”“why do i always burn out or backslide...”this is for you.i also share how control masquerades as commitment, why maintenanceisn’t a luxury, and how to finally stop second guessing every bite, scaleshift, or training session.if you're ready to stop grinding and actually get traction—listen in.→ if this hit home, share it with a friend who’s stuck in the samecycle.→ want to come on the pod and talk through your story or struggles? dm me orfill out the question box below. i’d love to have you on.find me @transformxruby on instagramask podcast questions:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_linkapply for a free consult:https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_linkdirect link to dm me on ig:https://ig.me/m/transformxruby 

most women think they need to eat less and do more to get lean.but what if the thing you're chasing — that lean, strong, defined look — actually requires more food, heavier lifting, and a different version of progress tracking than what you've been taught?in this episode, i sit down with brandon smith to unpack the difference between what women think they need to do vs. what actually gets them results they can see and feel.we break down:• why the scale going up can be a sign you’re on the right track• what “toning” actually looks like with food and training + what it really takes to build shape beyond the initial couple months • how your training might be keeping you in maintenance (not transformation) • why building muscle often feels like fat gain — and how to handle it (+ what to focus on so you make sure its muscle)• the emotional wins you’re overlooking that signal real change6 HUGE tracks for you to get started on: how to rewire the way you define progress (so you stop sabotaging it)what to track instead of obsessing over your weighthow to know if you’re actually progressing (or just maintaining)what emotional growth looks like, and why it’s just as important as physicalwhy progress isn’t always scale-based—but it is always effort-basedthe real difference between looking strong… and being strongthis is for every woman who’s done the deficit, followed the plan, and still felt like her body didn’t match her effort.and if that’s you? you’re not broken. you’ve just been trained to look in the wrong places.want to come on and share your own story or struggles?i’d love to hear it.find me @transformxruby on instagramask podcast questions: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_linkapply for a free consult: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_linkdirect link to DM me on IG: https://ig.me/m/transformxrubyBRANDON: https://tfgu.net/

feel like you’ve tried every macro calculator, but still don’t know what you should actually be eating?what if you’ve been asking the wrong question this whole time?because if you think the solution is just finding the right macro ratio or calorie target,i’m going to show you why that’s actually what’s keeping you stuck.in this episode, we’re not just talking about macros — we’re dismantling the entire way you’ve been taught to think about them. if you’ve ever googled “how many calories should i eat?” or felt stuck between obsessively tracking and totally winging it, this episode is your permission slip to stop blaming your body and start asking better questions.we’re going deep into:• why 1400–1600 cals isn’t “maintenance” — it’s survival• the reason macro calculators keep failing you• how to build habits in maintenance (not deficits)• the missing piece between numbers and results: trusttakeaway #1: if your digestion is wrecked, your energy’s tanked, or your sleep sucks — your macros won’t work.takeaway #2: stop optimizing before you’re even consistent. standardize first. then build.this isn’t just about macros. this is about reclaiming your progress. so if you’re stuck in food fear, low energy, or chronic second-guessing — this one’s for you.if you’ve tracked for years, still feel lost, and are ready to do it differently – this episode is here to explain it all to you. ground up. and why it matters to put the time in to getting it right.want to come on the podcast to share your story or struggles? message me on instagram or fill out the link below.find me @transformxruby on instagramask podcast questions: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_linkapply for a free consult: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_linkdirect link to dm me on ig: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby

ever feel like you’re doing everything right—training consistently, eating clean, tracking your food… but still not seeing the body you want?this one’s for the woman who feels like she’s spinning her wheels. Like your body was changing… but now its just staying the same… burn, bloat, and confusion: the real cost of false progresswhat i wish i knew before training 6x a week for 2 years is packed into this episode this episode dives into the real reasons women get stuck in false progress—even when they’re consistent. i’ll walk you through why “just lift and eat enough protein” isn’t enough if your effort, fueling, and recovery don’t match your goals.you’ll learn: • why grazing and “clean eating” aren’t helping your body change • what to shift when your training isn’t building anything • how to finally get results without doing more or cutting harder→ we’ll talk about what effort actually looks like→ why muscle is the missing piece in your fat loss puzzle→ and how to rewire your progress markers for good2 mini takeaways:• eating more isn’t the problem—it’s the solution if you know how to use it• progress isn’t always visible right away, but it’s happening when you train with purpose2 mini wins: • figure out if your training is actually stimulating growth or just burning energy • understand how to fuel for real physique change—not just fat lossif this sounds like your story, let’s talk. i’d love to have you on the pod.Find mack @mackfitness305& our first episode https://open.spotify.com/episode/4YzJADIP9UkttRg5heog7U find me @transformxruby on instagram ask podcast questions: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSczwoVPaIPvsLDkqjnkvFy2MjCG2vwYj7u9Uq3bJLMTiS-q8w/viewform?usp=sf_link apply for a free consult: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfqaxMDfbPYPYVui3BgSClnDXTj4BWjRvPkbBHuK5CP7SQsIw/viewform?usp=sf_link direct link to DM me on IG: https://ig.me/m/transformxruby