Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Just like in nature, storms hit marriages unexpectedly, with gales of conflict, thunderous arguments, and torrential emotions. But fear not, for just as a lighthouse guides a ship through a violent storm, you can weather the storm in your marriage. Now there are different shapes and sizes of storms. You can have little squabbles that fade quickly, like a single gray cloud overhead. Or you can have torrential downpours that result in flash flooding everywhere. All of a sudden, you have rivers where there were once sidewalks. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Part of the struggle is recognizing if you're even in a storm, and should you be concerned about it. In the early days of marriage, a couple may face the storm of adjusting to the realities of living together. Differences in habits, communication styles, and expectations may create tensions and lead to conflicts. You know, things just don't jive together like they used to. Dating was much easier because you were still trying to win the prize. But then, you have the pressure of society's expectations, financial difficulties, and parenting challenges, which can further intensify any storm. So the first thing is: Are you in a storm that you should be concerned about? There is no right or wrong answer. But I would say this. If you keep whispering under your breath about something your spouse is doing that you don't like or whatever it is continues to bother you, there's a storm brewin'. If you find that you all have a shouting match over a particular subject every time it comes up for conversation, there's a storm brewin'. Half the battle is knowing that a fronts coming. When you look at the weather map, if you see that a major storm is approaching, you can prepare accordingly. But if you allow it to surprise you, for whatever reason, then you have to deal with the onset of panic and lack of preparedness. Think of a tornado. You have to be focused, diligent, and present to know what is happening in your marriage. But I want to say this too. Every storm eventually passes. However, if you're not in the right state of mind, it can take you under. So if you want to gain strength through adversity, you have to learn how to weather the storm. The K.I.S.S. ~ Weather the storm! And when you weather the storm, you aren't doing it from behind You want to get in ahead of the storm. 1. Embrace Effective Expression Just as calmness follows a storm, open and honest communication can dissipate the intensity of conflicts. Remember the wisdom of Proverbs 15:1, "A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." It is crucial to listen attentively, empathize with one another's perspectives, and express thoughts and feelings in a respectful manner. Aim to address issues promptly, focusing on finding solutions rather than dwelling on the problem itself. AND...you have to know when to talk about it. What you are looking for is common ground to come together so you can work in a manner that supports each other. 2. Build a Foundation of Trust and Forgiveness Trust is the bedrock upon which all thriving marriages are built, and forgiveness serves as the healing balm to mend any cracks that may emerge. As Ephesians 4:32 reminds us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you." Prioritize the practice of forgiveness even during stormy times, allowing for growth, healing, and the restoration of trust. You've got to forge the walls to your marriage with trust and forgiveness. Let's say you've experienced infidelity in your marriage, which threatened to end your marriage in divorce. Obviously, trust is an issue. However, through seeking counseling and engaging in open conversations, you all decide to move forward as a couple, choosing to forgive and work towards rebuilding trust. Each day, you make conscious efforts to rebuild your relationship on a foundation of trust, transparency, and forgiveness. 3. Seek Professional Guidance and Support Just as sailors rely on navigational tools during a storm, seeking professional guidance can provide the necessary direction and strength to navigate marital challenges. Professional counselors, therapists, or trusted spiritual mentors can provide valuable insights, tools, and perspectives to help couples weather the storm and emerge stronger on the other side. Your marriage is not immune to the storms that life brings, but remember that with faith, resilience, and intentional actions, you can triumph over adversity. PRAYER: Psalm 107:29 proclaims, "He made the storm be still, and the waves of the sea were hushed." May the Lord bless your marriage. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Often in the world of parenting, when peace is hard to find, we are faced with a whirlwind of challenges that test our patience and push us to our limits. However, there are ways to find rest and calm for our weary hearts. Parenting is undoubtedly one of life's greatest joys, but it can also be overwhelming, exhausting, and at times, downright chaotic. Amidst the constant noise, mess, and struggles, finding peace can feel like an impossible dream. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co I can remember cleaning the house many times, only to find more frustration, not at the cleaning part, but stepping on all the legos. Being a parent is not fair. It's downright abuse at times. We are asked to do the unthinkable by kids who take us for granted and lack respect for our hard work. They expect us to feed them every day and provide a roof over their heads. Now you know I'm stretching this a little bit. But if you don't find the humor in the chaos, the stress will bury you quicker. If you want to find that peace, you have to create your sanctuary. The K.I.S.S. ~ Create your sanctuary! 1. Embrace Imperfection As parents, we often put immense pressure on ourselves to be perfect, to have all the answers, and to create an idyllic environment for our children. But the reality is, perfection is an unattainable goal. Instead, let us learn to embrace imperfection and be gentle with ourselves. Allow yourself to make mistakes and acknowledge that it's okay not to have all the answers. Remember, your love and presence are what truly matters to your children. 2. Practice Self-Care Amidst the never-ending tasks of parenting, we often neglect our own well-being. It's important to remember that taking care of yourself is not selfish but rather essential for your ability to be the best parent you can be. Carve out time for self-care, whether it's taking a long bath, reading a book, or simply going for a walk. When you prioritize self-care, you are refueling your soul and replenishing the energy needed to face the challenges of parenting. 3. Seek Support and Rest in Faith Parenting is not meant to be done alone. Reach out to your support system, whether it's trusted friends, family members, or parenting groups within your community. Share your struggles, seek advice, and allow yourself to lean on others. Additionally, find solace in your faith. Turn to scriptures, such as Matthew 11:28, which says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Connect with your spiritual beliefs, seeking peace and solace that goes beyond human understanding. Parenting is an incredible journey that comes with its fair share of challenges. Remember that it is in the midst of chaos and noise that we can find moments of tranquility. Rest assured that even in the mayhem, you are doing your best, and your love for your children will guide you along the way. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do." ~ Eleanor Roosevelt In this spirit, you can embrace your struggles as opportunities for growth, recognizing that it is in these moments of uncertainty that you are truly tested. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co But you have to remember, perspective is everything. Instead of viewing roadblocks as obstacles, you get to choose to see them as stepping stones on your journey. They redirect you to new paths, revealing opportunities that you may have otherwise missed. By shifting your mindset, you can transform frustration into motivation, and setbacks into stepping stones toward success. However, when challenges arise, it's easy to get caught up in the problem itself, forgetting that every problem has a solution waiting to be discovered. Rather than dwelling on what went wrong, redirect your focus toward finding creative ways to overcome obstacles. As you adopt a solution-oriented mindset, you empower yourself to break through barriers and forge new paths ahead. The K.I.S.S. ~ Look fear in the face! But as you know, it's tough to do life on your own. Therefore, seeking support from others is not a sign of weakness, but a strength. It's okay to have people who surround you with wise counsel and will cheer you on when only the crickets are heard. When faced with roadblocks, it's the perfect time to lean on mentors, friends, and family who believe in you. Sharing your struggles allows you to gain perspective, insight, and valuable advice. Together, you can conquer the most daunting challenges, knowing that you have a network of support cheering you on. Have no fear; your support is near! You got this! So keep at it by navigating through difficult times. Your resilience muscle is stronger than you think. Believe in your ability to bounce back, learn from experiences, and adapt to new circumstances. This can make all the difference. You must grab ahold of what sustains you in a positive way. Drown out the naysayers, and awaken the dream even deeper. But the setbacks you endure today are merely paving the way for your future greatness. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness." ~ Kristianne Wargo And let's not forget the importance of celebrating small steps; those small victories that count toward extraordinary opportunities. Every step forward, regardless of how seemingly insignificant, is a cause for celebration. So acknowledge and appreciate the progress you make. That is what will keep your motor runnin'. It'll fuel your motivation and keep moving forward. Even though life is unpredictable and adventurous, you get to show up with a heart ready to pounce and a mind ready to explore. Look fear in the face. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Embarking on a healthy living journey doesn't have to be overwhelming. Oftentimes, people feel the pressure of having to make radical changes all at once. Stop and smell the roses. A little goes a long way. Because when you think about it, who wants to increase stress and become more discouraged? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Where do you feel like you've skipped out on yourself? I don't know about you, but it's oh-so-easy to do everything for everyone else, yet not give a second thought about yourself. Don't throw away the greatest gift given to your family. YOU!!! By taking small steps toward a healthier lifestyle, you get to make a significant difference for yourself in the long run. So get ready to do....well, just a little. The K.I.S.S. ~ Do just a little! Now doing a little doesn't mean that you aren't doing anything at all. It also doesn't mean you get to be lazy. You are being very strategic with how you work your habits to support your everyday mission of living healthy. 1. Find joy in movement: Exercise is a crucial component of a healthy lifestyle, but it doesn't have to mean spending hours at the gym or running a marathon. Start by incorporating enjoyable physical activities into your daily routine. Take a leisurely walk in nature or dance to your favorite uplifting music. These activities can help boost your mood, improve your cardiovascular health, and increase overall fitness levels. Think outside the box. Don't do something that is normal for you. Take up a new activity that's fun and challenging in all the positive ways. Pickleball might be a good option. Swimming instead of running. Biblical Resource: Proverbs 3:8-9 reminds us that through honoring God with our bodies, we will find health and vitality: "This will bring health to your body and nourishment to your bones." 2. Nourish your body with wholesome foods: Nutrition plays a vital role in maintaining optimal health. Rather than completely overhauling your diet overnight, begin by making small dietary changes. Incorporate more fruits and vegetables into your meals, swap sugary drinks for water, or pack nourishing snacks like nuts and seeds. These small changes can gradually improve your overall diet and provide your body with essential vitamins, minerals, and antioxidants. Biblical Resource: In 1 Corinthians 6:19-20, we are encouraged to treat our bodies as temples of the Holy Spirit: "Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price. Therefore, honor God with your bodies." 3. Prioritize quality sleep: In our fast-paced world, getting enough sleep often takes a backseat. However, good-quality sleep is crucial for overall health and well-being. Establish a consistent sleep routine, create a calming environment in your bedroom, and try relaxation techniques such as meditation or reading before bed. These small changes can help improve sleep quality, boost energy levels, and enhance cognitive function. Biblical Resource: Psalm 4:8 assures us that a peaceful sleep is a gift from God: "In peace I will lie down and sleep, for you alone, Lord, make me dwell in safety." Let me share this with you. When you are making any changes to your routine, conduct it in a manner that you will succeed. In other words, don't set yourself up for failure. Remember, healthy living is a lifelong journey, and it's okay to start small. So, take that first step today towards a healthier, happier you, and let the process unfold gradually, knowing that a little goes a long way. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? 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(https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Within each of us lies a dream – the kind that seems so unimaginable, so grand, that it almost feels too good to be true. Cast aside those doubts and dream a little dream! A little dream that's so big, you have no words. A dream that takes you on a journey toward the extraordinary. A dream that ignites an unquenchable passion within our souls. It is through pursuing this seemingly unattainable dream that we open ourselves to life's remarkable possibilities. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co So dare to dream. "Go confidently in the direction of your dreams." - Henry David Thoreau Release yourself from the confines of doubt and fear. Dream without limitations. Don't put limitations on where you can go, for it is within these daring dreams that you find the potential to change not only yourself but the world around you. Embrace the journey as you dream a little dream. "Life is either a daring adventure or nothing at all." - Helen Keller The road to achieving the extraordinary is paved with challenges and triumphs. Embrace every twist and turn, for it is through adversity that we grow, developing resilience and strength. You got this! And remember, it is the journey itself that shapes you, molding you into the remarkable individual you are meant to become. The K.I.S.S. ~ Dream a little dream! And in order to do that, you've gotta show up wholeheartedly. "Believe you can and you're halfway there." - Theodore Roosevelt Approach life with an open and receptive mind. Seek knowledge, inspiration, and diverse perspectives. Step beyond the boundaries of your comfort zone, daring to explore uncharted territories. It is through this wholehearted dedication that you will uncover the hidden gems and surprises that propel you closer to the extraordinary. If you don't dare, you'll drift. And don't forget to surround yourself with champions. "As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another." - Proverbs 27:17 We all need champions around us. So seek a tribe of like-minded individuals who believe in your dreams and encourage your growth. Together, you can inspire, support, and uplift one another, even when you face adversity. Surround yourself with champions who strengthen your resolve and ignite the fire within your soul. "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." - Philippians 4:6 Release your fears and anxieties, placing your trust in God's guidance that intertwines with your dreams. Embrace the extraordinariness that awaits you. The journey may seem daunting, but remember, the unattainable can become attainable when you believe, persist, and surrender to God as He guides you. Now is the time to cast aside doubts and take that leap of faith toward the unimaginable. Embrace the extraordinary and witness the miracles that unfold when you dare to chase your dreams without hesitation. Trust in yourself, for you are destined for greatness. Dream a little dream. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Life is a series of ups and downs, and all around, all that cause us to be uncertain in the unknown. But it's in the power of transition where greatness is made. Because once you have the trophy, what is there? The growth is in the transition. The celebration is in the transformation. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co If you knew in advance the work and emotional roller coaster your life would take, you most would run in the other direction. But when it comes to your dreams and goals, you cannot give up. You have to hunker down and fight for what's right by being the anchor for yourself. You have to be your biggest cheerleader. However, that doesn't mean you're going to get everything you go after. Life lessons are best learned in the trenches. Life is your everyday teacher. So take the breeze of opportunities, failures, and the few successes to do what you've be called to do. Take AIM on what matters and facilitate an atmosphere of growth. The K.I.S.S. ~ Facilitate an atmosphere of growth! There is no have to. You GET to facilitate. You GET to build up. You GET to encourage. You GET to have hard conversations. You GET to make memories. You GET to teach the hard knocks of life. You GET to pray. You GET to celebrate the wins. You GET to cry when failure wins. You GET to hug so tightly. You GET to lose sleep. You GET to love unconditionally. You GET to live. So don't run away. Don't throw in the towel whether life is tough or easy. Facilitate an atmosphere of growth with grit, grind, and grace. GRIT - Persevere with passion for the goal at hand. What do you need to learn in this circumstance/situation? Find those teachable moments. GRIND - Life is hard, but the reward is greater. Keep at what matters. And you may have to ask yourself a thousand times in one day, "Why am I doing this?" Because you get to! Because you are facilitating an atmosphere of growth. GRACE - Always have your heart open to love unconditionally. That doesn't mean you give yourself a pass or others for that matter. You give yourself a place to fall and learn in the midst of failure and success. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In life, we often face challenges that seem insurmountable. During such times, it's reassuring to know that there is a wellspring of grace and love available to us, sourced from a power far greater than ourselves. Embrace God's unfathomable grace. His unconditional love and boundless grace can uplift our spirits, providing the strength and hope we need to persevere. It is in His embrace that we find solace, knowing that His love surpasses all understanding. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co Ephesians 3:20-21 states, "Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, forever and ever! Amen." These words remind us that God's grace is not limited by our circumstances or our understanding. His love extends beyond our human comprehension, and His power is capable of exceeding our wildest expectations. During moments of deep despair or when we feel burdened by the weight of life's challenges, it is in God's grace that we find true refuge. His grace is not merely a fleeting emotion, but a limitless wellspring of strength, renewal, and second chances. It is a gift freely given to all who seek it, regardless of our flaws or past mistakes. In our moments of weakness, His grace embraces us, reminding us that we are never alone or abandoned. God's love is unlike anything we can experience in this earthly realm. It is an unwavering, selfless love that transcends human comprehension. In times when we feel broken or unlovable, God's love envelops us, offering respite and solace. His arms are always open, waiting to envelop us, providing comfort and reassurance. It is through His love that we find healing, restoration, and the strength to carry on. As we reflect on Ephesians 3:20-21, we are reminded that God's love is not limited to a specific time or generation. It is a love that has transcended throughout the ages, touching the hearts of countless individuals. This enduring love brings hope, comfort, and a peace that surpasses understanding. It is a love that is freely given to each one of us, beckoning us to embrace it and allow it to transform our lives. The K.I.S.S. ~ Embrace God's unfathomable grace! To receive God's grace and love, we must surrender our burdens and trust in His divine plan for our lives. In moments of struggle, let us turn to Him through prayer, pouring out our hearts with complete vulnerability. Let us seek His guidance, trusting that He will provide the strength we need to overcome any obstacle. Embrace the certainty that His grace is sufficient for us, even in the face of adversity. In this journey, let us also extend God's grace and love to others, becoming vessels of His compassion and kindness. By sharing His love with those around us, we become a testament to His unfathomable grace, shining light into the darkest of places. In times when we feel the need for significant grace and boundless love, may we turn to God, for His grace knows no bounds. As we reflect on Ephesians 3:20-21, let us remember that His power goes beyond what we can conceive, and His love surpasses our understanding. In His embrace, we find hope, strength, and the transformative power of His immeasurable grace. May we bask in the everlasting love of God, allowing it to heal, guide, and inspire us. Remember, you are never alone. God's grace and love are always present, waiting to uplift and embrace you. "You are loved more than you will ever know by someone who died to know you." - Romans 5:8 "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? 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(https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In marriage, shame cannot be used to force a change in your spouse. Yet, many people will do just that in an attempt to control who they want their spouse to be. Don't play with fire. Love conquers shame. In the sacred bond of marriage, the path to growth and transformation starts with a choice rooted in love, understanding, and compassion. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co While it may be tempting to use shame as a tool to bring about change in a spouse, it has been proven time and again that this approach is ineffective and destructive. One cannot shame someone into transformation; instead, change springs forth from a willing heart. If you find yourself trapped in this debilitating pattern of shame within your marriage, it's time to take steps toward healing and restoration. The K.I.S.S. ~ Love conquers shame! Let's explore three essential actions you can take to break free from shame and foster an environment of love, acceptance, and growth. 1. Embrace the Power of Vulnerability Shame often thrives in the shadows and secrecy, suffocating the authenticity and openness within a marriage. To dismantle this destructive force, spouses must bravely step into vulnerability. By cultivating an atmosphere of trust and safety, couples can: - Share their Feelings: Openly express your emotions, fears, and insecurities without fear of judgment. Encourage your partner to do the same, establishing a space where both can be seen, heard, and valued. - Practice Active Empathy: Seek to understand your partner's perspective and empathize with their struggles. Genuine empathy allows for compassionate connection, paving the way for healing and change. - Seek Professional Help: Consider seeking guidance from a qualified marriage counselor or therapist. These professionals can provide a safe space where both partners can explore the root causes of shame and develop healthy coping strategies to address them. Bible Verse: "Therefore encourage one another and build each other up." - 1 Thessalonians 5:11 2. Foster a Culture of Encouragement and Grace Shame can be debilitating, leaving wounds that hinder growth and perpetuate cycles of negativity. To break free from this destructive pattern, spouses must cultivate an environment of encouragement, grace, and acceptance. This includes: - Celebrating Successes: Instead of fixating on failures or shortcomings, prioritize celebrating achievements, no matter how small. By shifting the focus to accomplishments, you can nurture a culture of affirmation and build each other up. - Extending Forgiveness: Embrace the transformative power of forgiveness within your marriage. Practice letting go of past mistakes and offer genuine forgiveness, freeing both individuals from the burdens of shame and guilt. Bible Verse: "Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." - Colossians 3:13 3. Cultivate Communication and Empathy Effective communication forms the bedrock of any healthy marriage. Break the chains of shame by fostering open, honest, and empathetic dialogue. Here are key steps to guide you: - Active Listening: Truly listen to your spouse without interrupting, judgment, or defensiveness. Seek to understand their perspective and validate their feelings. - Choose Your Words Wisely: Speak with kindness, respect, and thoughtfulness, even when addressing difficult topics. Avoid using shaming language or belittling remarks that can erode trust and connection. - Practice Healthy Conflict Resolution: Instead of resorting to blame and shame during conflicts, strive for mutual understanding, compassion, and compromise. Focus on finding solutions that benefit both partners and strengthen the marriage. Bible Verse: "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." - Proverbs 15:1 You can create an environment that nourishes love, growth, and transformation within your marriage. As you continue on this journey, remember that by choosing love, you sow the seeds for a marriage grounded in acceptance, understanding, and mutual growth. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. 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Precious moments and unforgettable memories make parenting pleasurable. But realistically, more times of backtalk and expletives are thrown your direction. Don't take it personally. Parenting is an incredibly rewarding journey, but it's also a lot of craziness and chaos; times that we don't always want to remember. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co And the thing is, when you're trying to do what's best for your kiddos, they don't always like your response. They want it their way no matter what the consequences. Now hopefully, they learn fast that if you work within the rules, life is a lot more exciting with less yelling. Because who really needs all that stress? But it's in these moments that your child grows, and so do you. And ultimately, that's what we want for our children. Therefore, when all else fails, don't take it personally. The K.I.S.S. ~ Don't take it personally! 1. Cultivate Empathy and Understanding When your children resist your guidance, it's crucial to remember that their independence and desire to do what they want and express themselves are natural aspects of their development. Rather than taking their actions personally, you get to choose to approach these moments with empathy and understanding. Put yourself in their shoes. This way, you can better understand their perspective and respond with patience and compassion. Yelling, getting frustrated does not work. And as they get older, they'll just throw it back in your face. Create a safe environment for your children to express themselves while still providing guidance and setting appropriate boundaries. 2. Find Support Networks Parenting can feel so empty, often like a solitary journey, but it doesn't have to be. Seek out support networks of other parents who can empathize with your experiences and offer valuable advice. Join parenting communities, attend workshops, or join online forums or groups that can help alleviate the feeling of loneliness and provide invaluable insights into effective parenting strategies. When you engage with others who share similar difficulties, it reminds you that we're not alone, giving you the reassurance and strength you need to stay focused on raising your children well. 3. Focus on the Bigger Picture In the midst of challenging parenting moments, it can be helpful to remind ourselves of our ultimate aspiration as parents—to raise children who have the power to impact the world around them positively. By keeping this bigger picture in mind, you get to transform moments of hurt into opportunities for growth and learning. Recognize that redirecting, teaching, and guiding our children are essential components of their personal development. Instilling valuable life skills and nurturing their character is going to enable them to navigate the world confidently. Embracing this broader perspective empowers you to transcend momentary difficulties and continue leading our children with love and purpose. Parenting is a beautiful, yet complex journey that comes with both joy and challenges. Remember, when our children resist our guidance, it's not a reflection of our worth as parents. Don't take it personally! Embrace each moment as an opportunity for growth, and marvel at the incredible potential held within your child. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

No one appreciates when something doesn't work out. But it's in these very moments of disappointment that the opportunity arises. Embrace the closed doors. Life has a funny way of throwing curveballs our way, leaving us stuck and questioning our purpose. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co We've all experienced moments when doors seem to slam shut, dreams slip through our fingers, and we are left feeling disheartened and defeated. But through all of this, you can find your inner strength and unlock a path that aligns with your true calling. Instead of dwelling on missed opportunities, shift your perspective and view closed doors as divine detours. Trust in the belief that every closed door is leading you closer to where you are meant to be. Just like a seed planted deep in the soil, we may not see the growth at first, but it is happening beneath the surface, preparing us for the breakthrough that awaits. "Sometimes when you're in a dark place, you think you've been buried, but you've actually been planted." - Christine Caine The K.I.S.S. ~ Embrace the closed doors! Rejection can feel like a heavy burden to carry, but instead of allowing it to define you, you must use it as fuel for personal growth and development. Remember, even the greatest minds and visionaries faced countless rejections before achieving their success. It is through rejection that we learn resilience, perseverance, and the true measure of our character. Just as a caterpillar embraces the transformative process in its cocoon, it is essential to embrace your own journey. Allow the closed doors and setbacks to shape you into a stronger version of yourself. Understand that the path to greatness is rarely linear and that true growth often happens during times of struggle and uncertainty. Rather than dwelling on the closed doors, focus on unlocking your true potential. Embrace your unique talents and strengths and identify opportunities that align with your passions. Let go of societal expectations and pursue the path that ignites your passion. Remember, the doors that close on you are not the end, but rather the beginning of a new chapter in your journey. Embrace the closed doors and unlock your true potential. Trust in the process, have faith in God, and believe that something far greater awaits you. The world needs your unique gifts and talents, so go forth fearlessly, knowing that every closed door is actually an open door disguised to guide you closer to your calling. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at Women of IMPACT. https://createyournow.mn.co TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.