Create Your Now with Kristianne Wargo

Colossians 3:2 commands us to, "Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things." This simple yet powerful directive calls us to develop A Heavenly Mind—a mindset anchored not in the shifting sands of this world, but in the unchanging reality of God's eternal kingdom. It invites us to live with an eternal perspective that reshapes how we think, feel, and respond each day. If your mind is caught in the chaos of life's battles, it's time to redirect your thoughts and embrace the power of a mind fixed on what truly matters. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Setting your mind on things above isn't just about dreaming of heaven; it's about thinking heaven right here and now. To set your affections on things above means placing your thoughts, emotions, and will firmly on God's reality. It's not about avoiding life on earth, but about seeing life through the lens of eternity, God's way. When your perspective is eternal, earthly troubles lose their grip, and your priorities shift toward what truly lasts. Here's the hard truth: most battles believers fight happen inside the mind. When wrong motives, bitterness, evil intentions, or negative thought patterns infect your mind, they derail your focus and pull you off course. Left unchecked, these forces drive your thoughts into dangerous territory and keep you stuck in defeat or confusion. Yet, you are called to have a heavenly mind! The K.I.S.S. ~ A Heavenly mind! That's why renewing your mind daily with God's Word is non-negotiable. Meditation is more than a quiet moment; it's a spiritual workout. Hold tight to key scriptures. Remind yourself of God's goodness. Speak the truth of Jesus' blood over your memories, wounds, and spirit. This is how your mind thrives and grows strong. It's all about walking every day God's way! Take intentional moments today to pray over your mind. Every time a challenge comes at you, don't just react. Instead, speak out over your situation with faith-based declarations—claim your victory before you see it. The mind that fixes itself on God's promises operates from spiritual authority, not worry or fear. Finally, focus your attention on faithful intentions. Let your heart and mind align with what is true, noble, and right. When your mind is anchored in heaven, your life on earth gains clarity, strength, and peace that no circumstance can steal. You've got one mind—make it heavenly. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Marriage is hard. That's the unvarnished truth. But it can also be incredible—deep, rewarding, and wildly fulfilling. But here's the catch: most couples don't realize that the key to a strong marriage isn't just in what you do, but how you do it. And that "how" has to come with the best of intentions. Too often, what drives interactions between partners isn't goodwill but defense. It's a silent scoreboard where each quietly aims to win or at least not lose. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com You hold back, you guard your words, you strike first in the battle of "who's right," all because losing feels like the end of the world. But let me be clear—this mindset never wins in a marriage, no matter how "right" you think you are. Instead, it chips away at trust and love, leaving wounds too deep to heal quickly. So, how does one shift from the battlefield mentality to intentional, sincere partnership? It starts with using your words and actions with the best possible intentions. The K.I.S.S. ~ Bring intention back into your marriage! That doesn't mean being naive or pretending everything is perfect. It means the following: Choosing love over ego Connection over winning Growth over blame Here are three things any partner can do to bring intention back into marriage: Speak to Connect, Not to Correct We all want to be heard. But the instant we start framing our words as accusations or demands, the other partner goes on the defensive. Instead, lead conversations from a place of curiosity and care. Ask questions, listen more than you talk, and assume the best in your partner—even when it's hard. Your goal isn't to score a point; it's to deepen understanding. Act with Awareness and Empathy Intentions show up in actions just as much as words. Before responding, reacting, or making decisions, pause. Ask yourself: What does my partner need right now? How can I make this moment better, not worse? Small gestures—offering help, holding space, saying "I see you"—can rewrite the story of your day and your relationship when done thoughtfully. But be careful not to do it out of spite. That's when the ego shows up! Choose Solutions Over Defensiveness When conflict arises, don't let pride or the need to be "right" steer your actions. Instead, team up to find answers. Remember, you're in this together, not opponents in a duel. Approach problems with "how can we fix this?" instead of "who caused this?" Shifting from blame to solutions builds resilience and trust. Marriage is not automatic. It demands initiative and intention every single day. Without that, your relationship drifts into a bland routine, becoming a placeholder rather than a partnership worth fighting for. So ask yourself—if your marriage just exists without purpose, what's the point of being married at all? Take AIM: Act with Intent, Intuition, and Mindfulness for your marriage. Make choices that serve the whole, not just yourself. Speak words that heal, act in ways that nurture, and handle conflicts with a desire to build—not break down. With the best of intentions, marriage doesn't just survive—it thrives. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Parenting today is not the easiest. There are many different approaches that the world encourages, ranging from letting the kids rule the roost to old-style harsh punishment. Regardless of where you fall on the spectrum, one size does not fit all. It takes a dash of this and a sprinkle of that to raise a well-balanced child. And that includes using the power of No. Think of it this way: If a child always gets what they want, where is the lesson? Saying No isn't about control or punishment—it's about teaching your child that the world doesn't revolve around them, and life comes with limits and boundaries. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Without this, children risk growing up entitled or ill-prepared for the real world. One Size Does Not Fit All—Know Your Child Parenting is not a cookie-cutter effort. Each child has a unique personality and temperament. What works perfectly for one won't necessarily work for another. As James Dobson wrote, "The heart of parenting is creating an environment where children learn to make good choices"—and sometimes that environment needs a clear No. If you stick rigidly to only one approach—whether it's unyielding discipline or permissiveness—you risk pushing your child into rebellion or reliance on you for every decision. When children learn that they can override boundaries through persistence or manipulation, they begin to take control instead of you leading the way. Adaptability Is Your Secret Weapon "Parenting is a daily chess match. You must read the situation, the child's mood, and the bigger picture. Complacency is your enemy. An effective parent is intentional, strategic, and consistent in setting limits while showing love." ~ Kristianne Wargo The power of No doesn't mean you say No to every whim. It means you are deliberate—sometimes gentle, sometimes firm—always clear about expectations and consequences, good or bad. "Boundaries, after all, aren't walls; they are guardrails that help your child navigate safely and confidently through life." ~ Kristianne Wargo Don't be afraid to use No as a parenting tool. The K.I.S.S. ~ Use No! 3 Things to Keep in Mind When Using the Power of No Make Your No Clear, Calm, and Consistent Children need predictability. If you say No one day and Yes the next on the same issue, they will test limits endlessly. As Dr. Dobson emphasizes, consistency is the key to effective parenting. Your calm but firm No sets the expectation and builds trust—your child knows where they stand. Explain the Why Behind the No Children aren't mind readers. Simply saying "No" without context breeds confusion or frustration. Take a moment to explain the reason behind the boundary in simple terms. For example: "No, you can't have candy now because it's almost dinner time, and we want you to be hungry for healthy food." This teaches decision-making and patience. Yet, there are times when No is enough! So, don't back down when 'No' needs to be just 'No'! Balance No with Empathy and Alternatives Saying No doesn't mean shutting your child down. Acknowledge their feelings—"I know you really want that toy"—and then offer a choice or an alternative—"Maybe we can save for it and get it next month, or pick a smaller toy today." This respects the child's emotions while maintaining your authority. Boundaries Protect and Prepare The power of No is not about being the "bad guy." It's about setting boundaries that protect your child physically and emotionally. Boundaries build character—helping them learn limits, responsibility, and respect for others. Children who grow up without clear limits may struggle with impulse control or entitlement later in life. In the words of parenting expert James Dobson, "Children need to be firmly and fairly guided toward self-control." The power of No, wielded wisely, plants the seeds for that self-control, well beyond childhood. Final Thought Your job as a parent is to stay adaptable, intentional, and clear. Say No when it counts. Teach your child that life isn't about getting everything they want but learning how to navigate challenges with resilience and respect. You're not just raising a child—you're raising an adult. No boundaries? You risk raising a child unprepared to face the real world. "The power of No is a tool—not to break your child's spirit—but to build their strength." ~ Kristianne Wargo "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? 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(https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Struggle is the silent companion of every worthwhile dream, the unseen force shaping your journey toward success. If you want to create something meaningful, you have to embrace the struggle—not run from it. It's messy, uncomfortable, and relentless, but it's also where growth happens and breakthroughs are born. The question isn't if you'll face challenges; it's how you choose to meet them. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Here's the hard-knock truth: Struggling is not a sign you're off track. It's proof you're on the frontlines of growth. Most people give up when the going gets tough—because struggle is uncomfortable. And it is. But successful people don't avoid struggle. They lean into it because that's where results are found. Why You Should Stop Fighting the Struggle and Start Embracing It Struggle means you're pushing boundaries. It means there is something valuable on the other side. Every breakthrough in business and life comes after wrestling with challenges. The first client who didn't respond. The pitch that fell flat. The content that didn't connect. Each of those struggles is an investment, paving the way for greatness. When you embrace the struggle, you regain your power. You shift from feeling victimized to becoming a warrior. You stop asking "Why me?" and start asking "What next?" The K.I.S.S. ~ Embrace the struggle! How to Embrace the Struggle Without Being Overwhelmed Name Your Resistance Identify what's holding you back—fear, distraction, people-pleasing, or perfectionism. Acknowledge it every day and don't let it control your schedule or self-worth. Set Realistic Micro-Goals When the goal feels overwhelming, focus on the next small step. Micro-wins build momentum and demonstrate that struggle is manageable. "One step at a time leads to miles of greatness. ~ Kristianne Wargo" Be Honest with Your Progress Not every day will be a victory. Some days require hard work. Accept this. Track what's effective and what's just busywork. Cut out the fluff. Create a Consistent Routine Develop habits that keep you steady through challenges. Whether it's writing for 20 minutes before breakfast or making one outreach call daily—make persistence part of your daily rhythm. Remember, You're Not Alone Everyone who has accomplished big things has faced a struggle. Surround yourself with people who understand and will help push you forward. Your Next Step The next time you find yourself thinking, "Why is this so hard?" recognize it as a sign you're growing. Stop wishing the struggle would disappear. Instead, face it head-on and say, "Let's keep moving." Because on the other side of struggle? Freedom. Impact. The satisfaction of moving forward despite obstacles. You're ready. Go and create your now! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Life's daily chaos has a sneaky way of crushing our health goals before they even get a chance to grow. Meetings pile up. Projects demand more. Family, friends, and deadlines pull at every minute. Meanwhile, your well-being gets pushed to the back burner. If you're eyeing the clock as it ticks toward the last six months of the year, why not make it your fresh start? Not next January, not when you "have time," but right now. Because here's the truth: your health is your real wealth. Without it, everything else falls apart. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The Science Behind a Fresh Start Researchers have identified what's called the "fresh start effect." It's why gyms flood with new faces every January, packed with people fired up to change. But fresh starts aren't bound to January 1st. They're tied to clear moments that split your life into "before" and "after." That moment can be anything: the first day of the week, the kickoff of a new project, or even a sunny Monday morning. You don't need to wait for the calendar to hand you that moment—you can create your now. And here's how: Engineer Your Healthy Reset. The K.I.S.S. ~ Engineer your healthy reset! You don't need a dramatic overhaul or grand gestures. The most powerful fresh starts come from simple, deliberate shifts that signal to your brain: It's time for change. Create your now. Pick a clear marker: Maybe it's Monday morning, or the day you finish reading this. Mark it in your calendar or journal. This is the first decision. Start small but meaningful: Clean out your kitchen junk drawer, prep meals for a few days, or set a specific, doable goal like "I will drink 8 glasses of water every day this week." It's not about the big stuff; it's the little stuff repeated. Create a ritual: Light a candle before your workout, put on a favorite song as you prepare your healthy snacks, or write a quick note to yourself about why health matters. Do something that keeps your why alive. Reset your environment: Rearrange your workout space or stock your fridge with fresh whole foods to reinforce the change. Dump all the processed crap and give yourself permission to feel good! The Power Is in the Repeat Fresh starts aren't a one-off thing—you can engineer these moments again and again. Reset weekly, monthly, or whenever life's been too much and your health took a hit. The key is to mark new beginnings that pull you forward, rather than letting momentum slip away. Your Health, Your Future Remember, health isn't something you "figure out" someday — it's the foundation under everything you want to do and be. Without it, even the best plans falter. So right now, as you step into a new half-year ahead, consider this your personal springboard. A chance to finally stop letting the chaos win and take control of your well-being. No excuses, no delay. Your fresh start isn't waiting for the perfect moment. It's waiting for your move. Make that first step count. Create your now! "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #WellnessWednesday #CreateYourNow #HealthAndWellness 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

If you are doing what you were created to do and being who you were created to be, one truth demands your attention: you must find a way to stay in rhythm. Life is brutally complicated. Every day throws curveballs—distractions, setbacks, doubts, and noise designed to throw you off course. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com But here's the real deal: complexity is inevitable, but chaos isn't. You don't have to let the swirl of life's complications dismantle your forward motion. The secret weapon? Staying in rhythm. What does that mean, exactly? It means showing up consistently, doing the work that feeds your purpose, and not letting what doesn't work pull you into frustration or give you excuses to quit. Rhythm is the steady beat beneath the chaos—a pulse you set, unshaken by external noise. The K.I.S.S. ~ Stay in rhythm! You were created for more than surviving the chaos. You were created to move forward, to build, create, and serve in your unique way. But if you stop moving—if you lose your rhythm because something got hard or because results aren't immediate—you hand your power to the very obstacles you should be overcoming. Staying in rhythm isn't about perfection. It's about persistence. It's about finding the groove where your actions and intentions line up and repeating that again and again, no matter how small the progress feels. It's in this steady cadence that momentum grows, clarity sharpens, and results start to stack. So don't let the things that don't work define your story. Identify what moves the needle for you—your unique method, your signature actions—and recommit to those. Cut out the noise. Align daily steps to your purpose, then keep the beat going. Remember: epic success is won in seasons of repetition, not bursts of sporadic effort. When you stay in rhythm, you don't just survive—you thrive. You are built to do this. Now the question is—will you keep the rhythm going? Stay in rhythm. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #Inspiration #CreateYourNow #DailyMotivation 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

Too often, we get caught in the trap of responding to the world's expectations instead of leading with our own strengths. It's a subtle yet costly mistake that can leave us feeling disconnected, frustrated, and stuck playing a role that's beneath our true potential. No wonder so many feel like they're swimming upstream or chasing their tails—the script is flipped. We're not showing up as our best selves; instead, we're shrinking down to fit someone else's mold. Don't play down — play up! What if you flipped the script? What if, instead of reacting to external noise or fitting into others' expectations, you leaned into your unique strengths and played up to the level you know you can own? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Imagine the shift in mindset: You acknowledge what you bring to the table. You recognize that you don't need to "dumb it down," shrink your ambitions, or silence your big ideas just to fit in. Instead, you take bold action from the confident place of your own expertise, talents, and vision. How would your attitude change? You'd step into every room with more confidence, knowing you belong there—not just tolerated, but prized. You'd communicate with clarity because you value what you have to say, instead of fearing judgment or rejection. You'd attract opportunities aligned with your true abilities, not settling for crumbs because you don't believe you deserve more. When you change your thoughts—when you decide to raise your own standards—you change your attitude. And with your attitude upgraded, your actions follow new rules. Maybe it's time to follow new rules! The K.I.S.S. ~ Follow new rules! 3 Bold Moves to Play to Your Level (Not Down to Others') Own Your Expertise, Loud and Proud Stop apologizing for your knowledge or watering down your message. Whether you're a coach, creator, or consultant, the moment you own your unique insights without hesitation, you create magnetic authority. Speak your truth with conviction, even if it feels bold or uncomfortable. Remember: Clarity cuts through noise faster than vague humility. Set Boundaries That Protect Your Energy and Vision Playing down often happens when we dilute ourselves to please or avoid conflict. Instead, get ruthless with your boundaries. Choose who and what you engage with based on whether it supports your growth. Guard your time, your ideas, your mental space. When you respect your own limits, others will respect you more—and you'll operate on your terms. Raise Your Standards, Then Show Up Consistently High performance doesn't mean perfection. It means not settling for less than the impact you're capable of delivering. Commit to delivering value that reflects your level of dedication and talent every single time, even if it's imperfect. Consistent, high-standard action accelerates your momentum and builds trust—not just externally but within yourself. Here's your brutal truth: The world isn't going to lower its bar for you. But you can stop lowering yours for the world. Start playing up to your level today. Your mind will sharpen. Your attitude will soar. Your actions will follow—and everything starts to change. You've got clarity. Now go prove it to yourself. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #MindsetMonday #CreateYourNow #PersonalDevelopment 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

In the hustle and bustle of everyday life, it's all too easy to slip into patterns shaped by the world's standards—standards that often conflict with the path God has for us. However, we are told to "give no foothold to the devil" (Ephesians 4:27, NIV), urging us, as believers, to stand firm and resist compromise. But what does that mean in practical, daily living? How do we stay rooted in God's will when the world pulls us in every other direction? Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com The Battle for Our Hearts is Real Ephesians 4:25-28 sets a powerful foundation: "So each of you must put off falsehood and speak truthfully to your neighbor, for we are all members of one body. 'In your anger do not sin': Do not let the sun go down while you are still angry, and do not give the devil a foothold. Anyone who has been stealing must steal no longer, but must work, doing something useful with their own hands, that they may have something to share with those in need." This passage is not just about avoiding obvious sin—it's about actively closing the doors through which the enemy can enter. Anger unresolved, lies told, laziness, or selfishness create cracks in our spiritual armor, footholds for discouragement, temptation, and division. What Does "Give No Foothold" Look Like Every Day? Guard your heart and mind. Proverbs 4:23 reminds us: "Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it." The world constantly feeds us messages that encourage bitterness, anxiety, envy, and distraction. These are the "footholds" that let fear and doubt into your life. Regular prayer, scripture meditation, and fellowship keep your soul fortified. Be persistent in listening to God. God's voice may not always be loud or immediate, but it's steady and sure. Jesus says in John 10:27, "My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me." Open your heart daily to God's guidance, whether through His Word, prayer, or the gentle nudging of the Holy Spirit. Act boldly in your faith. The world thrives on us playing it safe or conforming. But Scripture calls us to be courageous. Joshua 1:9 commands, "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the Lord your God will be with you wherever you go." Boldness flips the script, showing the world a faith unshaken by circumstance. Walk by faith, not by sight. 2 Corinthians 5:7 hits the core truth: "For we live by faith, not by sight." When life feels unpredictable and your next steps unclear, trust the unseen hand of God. Faith is the daily engine that resists the world's pull and moves forward in obedience. The K.I.S.S. ~ Give no foothold! When You Stop Giving Foothold, You Gain Freedom The enemy longs for just a tiny crack—an unresolved grudge, a moment of doubt, a "little" compromise—to start an invasion in your heart. But when you refuse to yield that small foothold, you stop the destructive cycle and reclaim ground in your spirit. Living this way means you're not at the mercy of the world's standards or pressures. Instead, you're anchored in a relationship with the God who directs your steps: You replace bitterness with truth and love. You swap anger for grace and closure. You choose action over apathy. You stand on the rock of God's promises when waves rise high. Your Next Step: Give No Foothold Ask yourself: Where am I tempted to give the enemy an entry point? What worldly standard am I letting dictate my decisions? Where do I need a stronger connection with God's voice? The answer is not to retreat in fear but to step forward with boldness and persistence in faith. Your God is faithful and mighty. He has led you this far and will not abandon you now. Remember: "Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand." — Ephesians 6:13 Stand firm. Create your now. Let each day be a choice to give no foothold—only wholehearted trust and obedience to where God is leading. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #SweetSpirit #CreateYourNow #SoulfulSunday 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

You want to jumpstart a new era of intimacy in your marriage. Yet, you don't want the same old date nights or "try harder" pep talks. You want real. Something that changes the way you move through life together, drawing closer when you least expect it. So, what do you think it is? Honestly, it's not something you can buy at a store or order online that comes in a sneaky, unnamed box. It's not about more counseling or coaching. It's not about scheduling time together, even though that's important. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com It's all about praying together. Prayer with your spouse is not about ticking off a spiritual checklist or repeating empty phrases. It's soul-level talk — unfiltered, raw, and honest — that brings your deepest desires, fears, and hopes into the light. It's the kind of connection that cuts through the noise and the daily grind. When I think about fireworks for your marriage, you cannot leave out praying together. The K.I.S.S. ~ Pray together! When you pray together, something powerful shifts: Your desires come to the surface. What you really want—not just the surface stuff—starts to take shape. And suddenly, those desires aren't just yours anymore; they're shared. You become instant allies. Instead of feeling like two separate puzzle pieces struggling to fit, you're moving in the same direction. Your hearts line up. Unexpected gratitude emerges. You'll find yourself recognizing blessings and strengths in each other you'd missed in the chaos. This isn't about praying for a miracle (though those happen, too). It's about creating space for honest emotional intimacy that no couples' therapy or date night can manufacture overnight. Imagine this: just five minutes a day, eyes closed or held tightly, asking God together to guide your hearts. What could happen to your marriage if you made that a non-negotiable? Would the distance between you begin to shrink? Would the walls come down, and vulnerability flood in? If your marriage feels stuck, lukewarm, or even disconnected, praying together may be the ignition switch you didn't know was waiting under the hood. It's bold. It's simple. And it works because it's beyond you—it invites God, who is outside your arguments, schedules, and distractions, to pull you closer. So here's your challenge: stop trying harder. Start praying together. Watch as your connection deepens when you least expect it—and how it changes everything. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #RelationshipBuilders #CreateYourNow #LoveAndMarriage 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.

The 4th of July is more than fireworks and barbecues. It's a powerful reminder of the freedom we enjoy—a freedom hard-won and fiercely protected. But what does freedom truly mean if not the ability to gather with the ones we love—the Heart of Independence? In the chaos and rush of daily life, freedom reveals its greatest value when we spend it alongside family. Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com Family is our first community, our support system, our shelter in storms, and the source of our deepest joy. Celebrating Independence Day as a family is powerful because it connects us not just to a nation's ideals, but to each other—strengthening bonds that fuel resilience and happiness. The Heart of Independence is family, freedom, and fierce connection. So, on this Independence Day, celebrate freedom together! The K.I.S.S. ~ Celebrate freedom together! Three Ways Families Can Celebrate Freedom Together Find ways to connect on a more intimate level. When you let freedom ring, you let love shine. Here are three meaningful ways your family can embrace the greatest gift of freedom—being together—and make this 4th of July unforgettable. 1. Create New Traditions That Reflect Your Unique Story Freedom means choosing how you live and who you become. Every family has its own culture, quirks, and ways of connecting. Whether it's a special recipe passed down for your holiday feast, a backyard picnic under the stars, or storytelling about your ancestors' journeys, crafting your own traditions builds lasting memories and a sense of belonging. This is your time to own what family means to you. 2. Disconnect to Reconnect In a world buzzing with screens and distractions, true freedom lies in undistracted presence. Switch off phones, gadgets, and social media for a few hours. Play board games, tell stories, or watch the fireworks together. This focused attention is a radical gift—one that says: You matter. Your story matters. When families unplug, they tune in to what really counts: each other. 3. Serve Together Freedom is also responsibility—the responsibility to give back and protect what we love. Volunteer as a family at a local charity, clean up a park, or participate in community events. Acts of service remind us that freedom is collective, not just individual. Teaching children the value of contributing to something bigger tightens family bonds while inspiring a shared purpose rooted in gratitude and care. The True Fireworks Are Found in Togetherness Celebrate this Independence Day by recognizing that the freedom to be a family, to support and love one another, is the deepest liberty of all. Fireworks light up the sky, but it's the light in your family's eyes—the laughter, the hugs, the shared stories—that truly ignites the spirit of freedom. This July 4th, don't just mark a holiday. Mark a moment. Build your family's living legacy of freedom through connection, presence, and service. Because there is no greater celebration than being free to love and be loved just as you are. Fireworks of the Heart by Kristianne Wargo Freedom is a spark— not just flags that wave or songs we sing, but the quiet pulse at day's end, when hands find hands, and voices blend. It's laughter spilling into night, around the fire's glow, eyes bright, where stories weave through whispered air, and every soul knows someone cares. Independence isn't just a date, it's choosing love beyond the gate. It's fierce connection, wild and true, a bond that breaks through fear's dark blue. Family—our first fireworks display, exploding colors, bright array, each burst a moment we belong, a heart that beats, stubborn and strong. So here's to freedom's truest flame: the ties that bind, no one can tame. In every hug, in every cheer, the greatest fireworks light us here. "Be present. Be incredible. Be YOU!!!" #ConfessionsOfAnUpsetMama #CreateYourNow #TodaysParent 🔔 Desire to be supported and encouraged by other like-minded women? Join us at the Kairos FREE Online Community. https://createyournow.com TAKE A.I.M. ~ Action Ignites Motivation - This is a complimentary (FREE) coaching call with me. You will discuss your specific situation while gaining tools and strategies to move you forward. (https://form.jotform.com/62988215824163) 🙏 Create Your Now TV on Pray.com (https://pray.com) 🎥 Create Your Now on YouTube (https://youtube.com/createyournow) 🎧 Create Your Now on Spotify, Pandora, and Audible. 🎶 Create Your Now on iHeart Radio (http://www.iheart.com/show/263-Create-Your-Now-Your-Best/) ✍️ YourBestSelfie@CreateYourNow.com Instagram @CreateYourNow @KristianneWargo Twitter @KristianneWargo @CreateYourNow Facebook www.facebook.com/TheKISSCoach www.facebook.com/CreateYourNow Cover Art by Jenny Hamson Photo by Canva.com Music by Mandisa - Overcomer http://www.mandisaofficial.com Song ID: 68209 Song Title: Overcomer Writer(s): Ben Glover, Chris Stevens, David Garcia Copyright © 2013 Meaux Mercy (BMI) Moody Producer Music (BMI) One Songs (ASCAP) Ariose Music (ASCAP) Universal Music - Brentwood Benson Publ. (ASCAP) D Soul Music (ASCAP) (adm. at CapitolCMGPublishing.com) All rights reserved. Used by permission.