
The Imperfects
We’re all imperfect. On this podcast, founder of The Resilience Project Hugh van Cuylenburg, his good friend Ryan Shelton, and only one of their brothers, Josh van Cuylenburg, talks to a variety of interesting people who vulnerably share their own struggles and imperfections, or expertly pass on their wisdom on the subject of imperfection. Whether it’s in The Vulnerabilitea House, The Academy of Imperfection, or with our very own psychologist, Dr Emily, The Imperfects are here to find some valuable takeaways we can all apply to our own imperfect lives.
Latest episodes

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Aug 1, 2024 • 58min
Another Imperfect Chat About Men
Chanel Contos is an advocate working with Teach Us Consent, dedicated to tackling issues of consent and behavior. In this enlightening discussion, she shares insights on vulnerability and the importance of open conversations about violence and consent. The conversation covers the complexities of masculinity, the societal pressures that define aggressive behavior, and the critical nature of empathy in relationships. They also explore ways to break the cycle of shame in sports, encouraging men to reflect on their past actions and foster a positive dialogue.

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Jul 28, 2024 • 1h 17min
How I Built Dis - The Resilience Project Story
Hugh van Cuylenburg, founder of The Resilience Project, focuses on building wellbeing programs for schools and workplaces. He discusses his personal entrepreneurial journey, filled with failures and hard-earned successes. Hugh shares transformative moments, like an unexpected speaking opportunity that shaped his career. He emphasizes the project's impact on youth mental health, demonstrating resilience during the pandemic. The conversation uncovers the power of vulnerability, encouraging listeners to embrace their unique paths to success.

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Jul 21, 2024 • 1h 29min
Dr Emily - What Are Your Values?
Dr. Emily, resident psychologist, discusses the importance of understanding and living by personal values, using them as a compass for decision-making. She emphasizes the connection between values, fulfillment, and well-being, encouraging listeners to align actions with core values for a more meaningful life.

Jul 14, 2024 • 1h 8min
Zan Rowe - If I Had A Year To Live
In the ultimate power move, we interview Zan Rowe, ‘one of Australia’s best interviewers’. Talk about pressure. Champion of the airwaves, TV presenter, music journalist and podcaster, Zan has soundtracked the lives of many Australians. In this episode of the Vulnerabilitea House, Zan draws the card; ‘how would your ambitions change if you only had one year to live?’ In between getting ‘death ready’ and facing burnout just when her professional dreams were all coming true, Zan and Hugh fan-girl hard for Johann Sebastian Bach. You can watch the full episode here: https://youtu.be/g-ABdHgMKyE Links mentioned in this episode: 🎧 Previous episodes of the imperfects Linda Marigliano - https://apple.co/4hUsiIl 📺 Things to watch To watch Take 5’s episode with Guy Pearce - https://ab.co/3xRKYGA 🎧 Things to listen to Zan's podcast 'Bang On', with Myf Warhurst - https://ab.co/3SbvDHN Night of the Swallow by Kate Bush - https://bit.ly/4cw18o4 See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jul 7, 2024 • 1h 29min
Poh Ling Yeow - When The Relationship Ends
Poh Ling Yeow shares wisdom in owning bad decisions, moving forward with empathy. Her journey from outsider to TV success, navigating relationships and loss. Breaks from cultural norms, embracing imperfections. Discusses 'stick it to me' phrase, self-compassion, and imperfect cookbook ideas.

Jun 30, 2024 • 1h 24min
Professor Felice Jacka - Food For Thought
Professor Felice Jacka, a leading expert, discusses the impact of diet on mental health and cognition. Topics include gut microbiome, effects of junk food, benefits of plant-rich diets, and the role of fermented foods. Emphasizes the link between nutrition, brain health, and overall well-being.

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Jun 28, 2024 • 24min
IMPERFIX: What is Rape Culture? with Chanel Contos
Last season we met Chanel Contos from Teach Us Consent and we were completely blown away by her courage and the work she's taking on. So much so, that within minutes of Hugh opening and reading Chanel’s book, “Consent Laid Bare”, he had nominated her for Australian of The Year. In this snippet from the full episode, Hugh, Ryan, Josh and Chanel discuss the normalised and systemic nature of sexual violence against women and the pervasive issue of rape culture; including what it is and how we can all take steps to dismantle it. To learn more about Chanel, her work and the Teach Us Consent campaign, follow this link: https://bit.ly/3QVhlK0 🎧 Things to listen to Chanel Contos - https://bit.ly/3RNKpEm 📖 Things to read Consent Laid Bare - https://bit.ly/40Z0Xgh To view a version of the 'rape culture pyramid' - https://bit.ly/49XPFgh The Imperfects is not a licensed mental health service and is not a substitute for professional mental health advice, treatment or assessment. The advice given in this episode is general in nature, but if you’re struggling, please see a healthcare professional, or call lifeline on 13 11 14.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 23, 2024 • 1h 21min
Michael Klim - The Race of His LIfe
Former Olympic swimmer Michael Klim shares his journey battling CIDP and finding a new identity post-athletics. The episode highlights his struggles, reflections on life, and the importance of blood donations. From Olympic successes to personal challenges, Michael's story is one of resilience and learning to navigate through grief and change.

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Jun 16, 2024 • 1h 13min
Dr Emily - What Are Your Boundaries?
Dr. Emily, a psychologist, discusses the importance of boundaries with the hosts, emphasizing self-respect and teaching others how to treat you. The podcast explores personal struggles, navigating boundaries in demanding jobs, and setting boundaries for self-care. Discussions include the impact of boundaries on relationships, the power of setting boundaries for self-care, and modeling self-care as parents.

Jun 14, 2024 • 15min
IMPERFIX: How Rick Davies Deals with His OCD
Actor Rick Davies, known for his role on 'Offspring', opens up about living with OCD & finding peace. He discusses the relief of diagnosis, inspired by Penny Moodie's work, and shares his journey towards happiness amidst the torment.