It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Abbie had a break on Saturday so is giving you a 20 minute lockdown episode. She talks about femme men, performative actions that become habits and what that means for the body positivity movement being co-opted by thin white women (perhaps including herself) as well as the low down on going to therapy and finding a therapist for you!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie has a laugh about a reply to a nude she received, then answers a question about sexting and sending nudes. Here is the link to Abbie's PopSugar article on sexting! https://www.popsugar.com.au/love/how-to-sext-someone-47331817  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie discusses WAP by Cardi B and Megan Thee Stallion and all of the reasons why she loves the banger. If you don't agree, check your internalised misogyny.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie is stuck in Quarantine due to COVID-19 border restrictions in Queensland and because of this, she is going to be uploading daily mini episodes to keep herself sane. Email itsalotpod@gmail.com for questions or topic suggestions  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode is a rollercoaster of juicy relationship head scratchers starting with Abbie chatting to her gorgeous friends Viola and Simon, which then swiftly turns into a “Tell All” Interview conducted by Simon on his friend's sticky relationship status.  Simon's Friend - who remains unnamed, has been thrown into a long distance relationship. Since the move, Simons unnamed friend has found out that her loving partner doesn’t think he can commit to a physically monogamous relationship. However his emotion and spiritual commitment is to her.  This episode is a very interesting perspective on modern dating and how to navigate your partners needs, but also a reminder not to forget your own wants, needs and desires.  For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week is a little late, and a little different. Abbie had a date, her first date since her most recent break up. After Abbie being turned down multiple times on a drunken night, Danny Clayton finally agreed to a date. This is a big big deal. Learn how Abbie actually is in the dating game, with a play by play recount of Abbie and Danny's first meeting through to the end of their first date.  After their date, they give each other a report card, and have an insightful and funny chat about dating in general from both of their perspectives.  Huge "will they, won't they?" energy in this one. Hope you all enjoy this change from the regular format!   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TRIGGER WARNING: Emotional Labor  I wonder which woman you are using for free Therapy today ?  This week Abbie finally gets a chance to sit down and chat with Soaliha, who you probably know from the podcast group. Soaliha is all all round gem, and this chat is a testament to that.  In this episode, Abbie and Soaliha unravel that mess that is - Male toxicity and Emotional Labor. As women, it’s fair to say we have ALL been there to take out a man's emotional garbage. Not just boyfriends, all men. Safe to say, It’s A Lot!  Mentioned in this Episode  https://www.5why.com.au/everything-you-need-to-know-about-the-freebritney-movement/ You can follow Soaliha on  Instagram @soalihaofficial  Twitter @soaliha_ For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Abbie talks about being happy while being single, answers a question about a failed threesome, gives some advice on how to not fear that everyone hates you and describes in detail how to give a blow job (SORRY MUM AND OTHER FAMILY MEMBERS) The Daily Mail will have a field day.   Ask Abbie: How to be Single Past Life Regression – Brian Weiss Feeld App for Threesomes and other alternate sex scenes  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week abbie speaks to April, also known as “The Bodzilla” all about flags in relationships. Not all flags have to be the Colour RED, Abbie and April breakdown the Red, Yellow and evn green flags to navigate dating. Discussing how we can be blinded by flags and allow certain behaviors to slip under the radar when we are with someone we THINK is right for us.  Follow April on Instagram  @thebodzilla Mentioned in this Episode   Vush  - Use code ABBIE for 65% Off  thebodzilla.com For more, Join the IT'S A LOT WITH ABBIE CHATFIELD PODCAST GROUP on facebook  Or follow on instagram @itsalotpod If you would like to be on the episode with Abbie, Send a video to itsalotpod@gmail.com  and give an insight into who you are and why you think you would be great on the show.   See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

TW: Suicide, mental health, abortion This week Abbie talks about her preparation for BIP and how she feels about being on reality TV once again. She then answers questions regarding her abortion, how to keep a FWB situation fulfilling for both parties and whether feminism has a place in Bach Nation. The link to Abbie's IGTV: https://www.instagram.com/tv/B7aSjvWFuSR/?utm_source=ig_web_button_share_sheet Follow @itsalotpod on instagram!  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.