It's A Lot with Abbie Chatfield

Why is Abbie having panic attacks about Trisha Paytas and the Frenemies podcast? Also, at what point is someone considered to be 'ghosted'? Is it two weeks? Two months? A year? You'll hear what Abbie deems a proper ghosting in this week's Nightmare Fuel. LINKS Frenemies podcast link https://apple.co/3x9MG03 Regarding Trisha Quitting episode https://bit.ly/359utnf Pregnancy Announced episode https://bit.ly/3xe9sDX Trisha Paytas Youtube 'Stepping down from Frenemies' http://bit.ly/trisha-frenemies .  Ethan Klein Youtube 'Regarding Quitting Frenemies' http://bit.ly/ethanklein-frenemies  Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
 Executive Producer and editor: Elise Cooper
  Producer and editor: Lem Zakharia  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why is Abbie so scared of going into a relationship? Also, this week's Nightmare Fuel features a meaty Zooper Dooper and a quick Glug It Up refresher.  LINKS Dr. Kirk Honda's Psychology in Seattle Channel https://bit.ly/3x1sKwb Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
 Executive Producer and editor: Elise Cooper
  Producer and editor: Lem Zakharia  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Should Abbie go on a date with 'The Englishman'? Following Abbie's dating dilemmas comes in a triple dose of Nightmare Fuel featuring the one with the nude brekkie date gone wrong, the one with the horrific boss comment, and the one who tried to break into her own apartment. Enjoy! LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
 Executive Producer and editor: Elise Cooper
  Producer and editor: Lem Zakharia  See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Does a naked woman have to be a sexy woman? Why is sucking your tummy in bad for your vagina? And, can you teach yourself how to squirt? Founder of the 'Yoni Pleasure Palace' and Nude Yoga queen Rosie Rees answers all questions nudity and sex while opening up to Abbie about one of the most difficult situations she's faced.  Disclaimer: You are encouraged to make your own health care choices based on your own research and in conjunction with your qualified practitioner. LINKS Yoni Pleasure Palace https://www.yonipleasurepalace.com/ Naked Awakening https://www.nakedawakening.com.au/ Buy a Sacred Squirter https://www.sacredsquirter.com/ Two Mum Tribe @twomumtribe https://bit.ly/3bOMrPJ Cael O'Donnell's Instagram @imcaelodonnell The Girl Meet Girl group on Facebook https://www.facebook.com/groups/351298342090954/ Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfield
 Guest: Rosie Rees @rosie.rees
 Executive Producer: Elise Cooper
 Producer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This week is a cheeky lil catch up. Abbie's back from a trip to the Northern Territory where she had more fun than you can poke a stick at. Plus her Nightmare Fuel is just plain weird, and a lesson in how to not pick someone up. LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

You've heard of the clandestine 'Soggy Sao' urban myth, right? If not, don't worry, Abbie demystifies all things cracker and cum. Also, Abbie wonders, why on EARTH are people still editing their photos? Aren't we past this cringe fest already? Finally, get ready for a lovely lil TikTok rant. LINKS Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Can assertiveness be mistaken for bitchiness? Bel Crawford is the powerhouse behind The Self-Love Club podcast and she has a LOT to share with Abbie about managing shitty friendships, establishing your personality and authority at work, a how to cut f*ck boys out of your life for good. Also, why on earth is Abbie talking about Grant Denyer going for a wee? This episode is brought to you by CHEEX: a sexual wellness platform with ethical erotica for everyone. Use code ABBIE for a 2 week free trial today at getcheex.com LINKS The Self-Love Club podcast https://apple.co/3gT1SK5 The Self-Love Club Instagram @selfloveclubpodcast Courtney Act + Vanity podcast  Brenda Call Me http://bit.ly/brendacallme  Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldGuest: Bel Crawford @belcrawfordExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

This episode contains discussions of violence against women, and homicide. Please reach out to Lifeline on 13 11 14 or lifeline.org.au if any of the topics discussed raise any issues for you. The recent news of the death of Kelly Wilkinson has made national headlines. How many more women have to lose their lives for Australia to step up and pay attention. Also, is Abbie sleeping with a "reformed mansplainer"?  Plus we have a double whammy of a nightmare fuel. Abbie has a personal one about what someone recently said about her vajeen - AND a terrible albeit psychic first date to rival all weird ass first dates. LINKS Donate to Kelly Wilkinson's children https://bit.ly/3tSdGjb Find your local member to write to about legislation changes  http://bit.ly/auspol-localmember  Review the podcast on Apple http://bit.ly/ial-review  Listen to The Space podcast http://bit.ly/thespace-podcast  Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Why has Abbie decided to identify as Queer and why are some people accusing her of bi erasure? Plus, who knew that there are people out there who can tell you exactly what they want and need out of whatever kind of relationship you're having with them and NOT gaslight you... Cause Abbie only just found that out and it's AMAZING. Also, a compliment and a medical/dating Nightmare Fuel? Yes please! LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer and editor: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Have you seen or heard about Khloe Kardashian's "leaked" bikini photo? Well, Abbie has A LOT to say about it. Also, ABBIE HAS RELEASED A NEW VIBRATOR!!! Producer Elise tries it out first hand and you get to hear aaaaallll the details. LINKS Get Your Abbie Vibrator here https://bit.ly/3t6AEmq Margot Pincus' TikTok https://bit.ly/3mPC7eN Podcast Instagram @itsalotpod Abbie's Instagram @abbiechatfield Get your It's A Lot merchandise http://bit.ly/itsalot-merch  Send your Nightmare Fuel via voice note to hello@itsalotpodcast.com CREDITS Host: Abbie Chatfield @abbiechatfieldExecutive Producer: Elise CooperProducer and editor: Lem Zakharia See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.