Leading Saints Podcast

Dean Nate Sharp talks about mentoring bishops, hopeful repentance, and making sacrament meetings Christ-centered. He emphasizes the role of stake presidents in guiding youth through the repentance process with optimism and support. The podcast also explores Jesus as the ultimate advocate and breaks down the dangers of viewing one's relationship with Him transactionally.

Julie Hillyard shares insights on teaching the gospel, working with Dr. Covey, and engaging youth in Sunday School discussions. Topics include strategies for promoting engaging conversations, adapting to online classes, and fostering a supportive atmosphere in teaching. Reflects on impactful conversations and encourages sharing episodes for teaching improvement.

Campus director Kempe Nicoll shares insights on social media impact, engaging youth, and spreading uplifting messages. He discusses leveraging social media for gospel sharing, transitioning to bishop, and reflecting on challenges in Latter-day Saint communities. The podcast delves into engaging youth, utilizing technology for gospel declaration, and discovering leadership's role in spiritual growth.

Joe Speredon, experienced leader in men's work, discusses the silent burdens men carry and the importance of vulnerability. He emphasizes the need for men to open up and support each other in the Elders Quorum. Joe explores the concept of brotherhood, authenticity, and creating safe spaces for men to reflect and connect. He also delves into the effects of unrighteous dominion and the role of masculinity in spiritual growth.

John Hilton III, an expert in religious studies, discusses the significance of 'Fence Laws' in church leadership, navigating legalistic burdens, and the personalized approach to doctrine engagement. The podcast explores the complexities of religious rules, the perils of judgment, and the importance of following prophetic guidance with empathy.

Learn from expert Jacob Hansen about changing church culture by gathering the saints based on shared interests and values. Explore building community through engaging activities and revitalizing elders quorum culture. Emphasizes the importance of human connections and civil discourse in shaping a positive church environment.

Douglas McKinlay discusses his journey from stake president to regional representative, sharing insights on motivating missionaries, leading diverse programs, and transitioning to a mission president role. He also talks about the challenges faced during military service, marriage, and temple locations decisions. The conversation highlights the importance of visual aids in teaching complex concepts and the significance of leading with love in spiritual growth.

Ashly Leavitt has an associate degree in theatre and music, a bachelor's degree in broadcast communications, and a master's degree in clinical mental health counseling. After a 10-year career as an educator, Heavenly Father made it clear that He wanted her to shift to counseling and specialize in betrayal trauma recovery, relationship repair, and divorce recovery. Ashly loves helping those who have experienced betrayal trauma to discover and reconnect with themselves again. As a co-founder of Rejoice! Recovery, she enjoys using her educator and counselor experiences together to create classes on healing and relationships, leading discussions on boundaries, and co-hosting the podcast, Phoenix Forte: Connecting to Healing and Joy After Divorce. You can catch Ashly presenting at conferences and retreats. On Sunday, you'll find her serving in her all-time-favorite calling as a Relief Society instructor. Ashly has previously served in Primary and Young Women's Presidencies, but she's been honored to serve by teaching Relief Society in multiple wards over the last 12 years. However, Ashly’s biggest accomplishment is managing to survive as a single mom of two. During her free time (if such a thing exists) you would find Ashly supporting the local theatre scene, playing board games with friends and family, participating in the Lamb of God Easter production on Temple Square, and laughing with her kids while they dance in the kitchen together. Links The Choice to Leave Abuse, by Ryan Anderson PsychologyToday.com There is already a discussion started about this podcast. Share your thoughts here. Watch on YouTube Read the transcript of this podcast Highlights 2:10 What is betrayal trauma? Why do church leaders need to understand it? 4:10 Ashly explains betrayal trauma and the sub-behaviors that come along with it. Betrayal trauma has lots of side effects on your health. 7:45 A common source of betrayal trauma is sexual infidelity. 9:00 The "hit by a truck" analogy. The importance of focusing on the person that was betrayed or wounded. Too often we focus on fixing the person that is looking at pornography or being unfaithful. 13:15 The other behaviors that normally come with cheating or viewing pornography. There are abuse tactics, such as lying, gaslighting, blaming, and defensiveness. 15:30 What is gaslighting? Making someone question the truth and their own sanity. Making them second guess themselves. A lot of women have their intuition saying that something is off but their husband makes them feel like they are crazy. 18:00 Often the shame spiral keeps people from telling the whole truth. They are scared of what people will think if they share everything that is going on. In cheating scenarios the wife feels something off but the husband says they are fine. 18:50 Bishops should work with the individuals instead of the marriage. Talk to the husband and wife separately so that they can speak their truth and get validation. 19:45 Everybody in the relationship is trying to maintain control. Wives try to control the behaviors and situations to feel safe and stop from getting hurt again. 22:20 The bishop isn’t supposed to be the one healing everyone. Don’t take on roles that aren’t yours. 23:30 What should leaders and couples consider when the betrayal bomb goes off? 25:20 A great question that a bishop can ask is, "How can I help you feel safe?" Prioritize safety and not the emotions of the betrayer. 28:30 The push from the wife to "punish" their husband by taking away the sacrament or membership council. They are trying to fix the problem but it’s not theirs to fix. 31:30 Shame makes people want to hide and not tell anyone so finding a safe place to share and a support group for those in recovery is important. 35:20 What can we do to help the children in these situations? 38:10 The importance of boundaries and the process of forgiveness 44:30 Appropriate disclosure and things leaders should keep in mind 46:00 Leaders want to sav...

Discover the journey of Aaron Jaussi's leadership in the church, his passion for positive masculinity and adventure. Explore the Sons of Thunder project promoting brotherhood and masculinity within the community. Learn about the impact of efficient group messaging in Elder's Quorum success and the transformative resources for personal growth.

In this solo episode, Kurt reflects on his suggestions from a series of newsletter messages for stake presidents. Links Read the newsletter messages related to this episode How I Lead as the Bishop’s Wife | An Interview with Alanna Francom Join the Leading Saints Community Watch on YouTube There is already a discussion started about this podcast. Share your thoughts . Read the transcript of this podcast Highlights 3:00 Be intentional about your leadership and it will reach more people. 4:00 Kurt served as a bishop and then served in a stake presidency. 5:40 Principle one - Lead the leaders NOT the stake 9:05 Principle two - Consider mandatory stake programs and themes 11:40 Principle three - How to lighten the load through overcommunication 13:45 Principle four - Minimizing targets 16:00 Principle five - Shepherding the lost 19:00 Principle six- Empower the stake Relief Society president 20:30 Principle seven - Being a stake president also has to do with the president’s wife. Invite her into the experience. 22:30 Principle eight - Take a three year reset The Leading Saints Podcast is one of the top independent Latter-day Saints podcasts as part of nonprofit Leading Saints' mission to help Latter-day Saints be better prepared to lead. Learn more and listen to any of the past episodes for free at LeadingSaints.org. Past guests include Emily Belle Freeman, David Butler, Hank Smith, John Bytheway, Reyna and Elena Aburto, Liz Wiseman, Stephen M. R. Covey, Julie Beck, Brad Wilcox, Jody Moore, Tony Overbay, John H. Groberg, Elaine Dalton, Tad R. Callister, Lynn G. Robbins, J. Devn Cornish, Bonnie Oscarson, Dennis B. Neuenschwander, Anthony Sweat, John Hilton III, Barbara Morgan Gardner, Blair Hodges, Whitney Johnson, Ryan Gottfredson, Greg McKeown, Ganel-Lyn Condie, Michael Goodman, Wendy Ulrich, Richard Ostler, and many more in over 700 episodes. Discover podcasts, articles, virtual conferences, and live events related to callings such as the bishopric, Relief Society, elders quorum, Primary, youth leadership, stake leadership, ward mission, ward council, young adults, ministering, and teaching.