

everybody has a secret
Shameless Media
join annabelle lee and charlotte white as they unpack the wild, never-been-told, real-life secrets of their listeners
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Dec 18, 2025 • 41min
the unforgivable wedding speech
Dive into a wild world of wedding tragedies and awkward crushes! The hosts share laugh-out-loud stories, like a maid-of-honor turning a wedding speech into a personal saga and a woman contemplating an off-the-books drink with her child's teacher. They also tackle relationship dilemmas, unpacking the drama of infidelity and whether secrets should be kept. Amusing reflections on past mistakes make for relatable listening, as the hosts take audience confessions to task in a fun recap of the year's biggest f*** ups!

Dec 11, 2025 • 43min
his nickname was 'workplace mattress'...
Join a lively discussion about the etiquette of having loud sex in apartment buildings and how to handle awkward neighbor notes. Dive into a dating horror story involving deception, heartbreak, and a disappearing love interest. The hosts offer compassionate insights on healing and moving on from such experiences. Plus, enjoy rapid-fire listener tales of dating fails that highlight the ups and downs of romance in 2025. It's a mix of humor, relatable dilemmas, and valuable lessons that resonate with everyone!

Dec 4, 2025 • 48min
propose or gtfo
This discussion dives into the complexities of proposals, featuring a survey on engagement timelines and the expectations that come with them. The hosts debate whether waiting years for a proposal shows commitment or creates doubts. They also consider the role of ultimatums in relationships and share intriguing stories about engagements revealing deeper issues. Plus, the conversation touches on modern reasons for marriage, preferences for surprise rings, and the rising trend of equal agency in double proposals. Join them as they explore love and commitment in today's world!

Nov 27, 2025 • 42min
we only have sex in public
The hosts dive into the concept of a 'humiliationship,' sharing wild stories of workplace affairs. One listener's secret exposes a messy relationship with an older colleague, complete with public hookups and mixed signals. They discuss the thrill and risks of secrecy in love, contrasting two different outcomes of workplace romances. The hosts offer advice on moving on and emphasize the importance of trusting friends and instincts. Plus, there's festive banter about holiday plans and a special Santa photo!

Nov 24, 2025 • 34min
The Confessional: they invited me into their relationship
In this revealing conversation, Jasmine spills the tea on her journey from friendship to a complicated open relationship with Ben and Rachel. She discusses the allure of poetic messages that turned into confusion and red flags. Jasmine highlights moments of manipulation and gaslighting that made her uneasy. She reflects on the lessons learned about trusting her instincts and the importance of integrity in non-monogamy. Ultimately, she shares how choosing to disappear brought her peace and support from true friends.

Nov 20, 2025 • 40min
I hate my boyfriend's group chat
The hosts dive into their reactions to a fan edit, sparking a debate about the attractiveness of hands. They uncover a dramatic group-chat incident where one host mysteriously got removed over a DM. A listener’s secret reveals shocking screenshots from a boys' group chat, leading to a discussion on toxic masculinity and whether partners should attend events like bucks parties. Personal anecdotes add a humorous touch, while role-playing a confrontation raises the stakes on addressing these secrets.

Nov 13, 2025 • 49min
nobody knows I’m in a 10-year relationship
The hosts dive into a range of complex relationship dilemmas. They discuss the ethics of wedding guest lists, especially when a friend's partner is problematic. A poignant tale unfolds about a secret 10-year relationship discovered during COVID, leaving the listener torn about staying or leaving. Another dilemma involves confronting an ex after a diary reveals a potential affair. The hosts expertly navigate these emotionally charged scenarios, offering both humor and wisdom as they unravel the intricacies of love and trust.

Nov 6, 2025 • 36min
the debaucherous wedding night
This episode kicks off with a quest to find a missing journal, leading to unexpected community involvement. The real drama unfolds as a guest shares a scandalous wedding night story involving a bathroom hookup with the bride. Hosts dissect the motivations behind the bride's actions, exploring themes of trust and infidelity. They dive into the moral dilemmas of such encounters, urging caution and reflection on whether the thrill is worth the potential fallout. Listeners are encouraged to share their wild experiences, adding to the intrigue!

Oct 30, 2025 • 37min
the dreaded 'hey girlie' message
In a spooktacular Halloween-themed discussion, the hosts share their fun pop star costumes and playful banter. A secret emerges as one host admits to creating a fan account, sparking laughs about sneaky photos. The intriguing ethics of hexing take center stage, with listeners sharing their witchy experiences, including minor curses on exes. The shocking story of a life-changing affair raises questions about rekindling connections, with wise advice against contacting a married ex. It's a wild ride of secrets and revelations!

Oct 27, 2025 • 41min
The Confessional: my dad, the criminal
A shocking family secret unfolds as Lisa discovers her biological father is a notorious criminal. She shares how this revelation reshaped her childhood, marked by instability and fear. Lisa recounts her mother’s horrifying experiences with violence and manipulation at the hands of her father. Despite the trauma, she finds strength through therapy and connections with half-siblings. The emotional journey explores the impact of inherited traits and the resilience of family bonds, leaving listeners questioning the weight of hidden truths.


