everybody has a secret

the pity orgasm

Jan 22, 2026
This week, the delightful Miranda Davidson joins the fun! She shares her witty commentary on a range of one-night stand secrets. From a ghosting incident that left a listener baffled, to a cringe-worthy 'pity orgasm,' the tales are as hilarious as they are awkward. A near-miss with the Mile High Club and a wild butt plug mishap that led to an emergency department visit certainly spice things up. The hosts dive into the often unspoken realities of casual encounters, making for a laugh-out-loud recap.
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ANECDOTE

Mysterious Midnight Exit

  • Lily described a date that escalated to kissing at her place before the man abruptly left claiming he had to help his dad in the morning.
  • She later found she was blocked on Hinge and threw out the dad's glasses he left behind.
ADVICE

Don't Chase Ghosting

  • When someone blocks and erases contact after intimacy, treat it as a red flag and avoid chasing explanations.
  • The hosts advise digging gently through mutuals if closure is needed but prioritise personal boundaries.
ANECDOTE

Pity Orgasm Revealed

  • Jessie discovered a 'pity orgasm' when she orgasmed thinking about someone else while a man performed poorly, including blowing raspberries on her vulva.
  • She reflected that imagining a crush (Fleetwood Mac fantasy) can produce orgasm even if the act itself is bad.
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