everybody has a secret

his nickname was 'workplace mattress'...

Dec 11, 2025
Join a lively discussion about the etiquette of having loud sex in apartment buildings and how to handle awkward neighbor notes. Dive into a dating horror story involving deception, heartbreak, and a disappearing love interest. The hosts offer compassionate insights on healing and moving on from such experiences. Plus, enjoy rapid-fire listener tales of dating fails that highlight the ups and downs of romance in 2025. It's a mix of humor, relatable dilemmas, and valuable lessons that resonate with everyone!
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ADVICE

Celebrate Quietly But Don’t Stop Living

  • If neighbours complain about noise, acknowledge it but don't let it ruin celebrations; be mindful of volume and hours.
  • Consider discreet communication (a note) is better than constant door knocks or calls, and keep living well.
ANECDOTE

The 'Paul' Situationship That Collapsed

  • Bianca dated 'Paul', had intense early romance, then experienced slow fades and emotional inconsistency over months.
  • She was heartbroken when he missed her birthday and later lied about leaving the country, prompting humiliation and confusion.
INSIGHT

When Early Intensity Precedes Withdrawal

  • Loving behaviour early on can still be part of a pattern where someone flees when things get serious.
  • Inconsistent intensity often functions like unintentional love-bombing followed by avoidance.
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