Restore The Glory Podcast

This week, Jake and Bob reflect on the last episode conversation with Matt Fradd. They discuss the link between shame and compulsion, the addiction cycle and how to truly find healing from sexual sin.   Guiding Quote: “Take heart!” - John 16:33   Key points The link between shame and compulsion Pornography blurs the lines of fantasy and reality A fresh perspective on deeper, long-lasting healing Explanation of the addiction cycle How our attitude toward our wounds and our sin affects our spiritual lives Practical advice about the process and next steps in the healing journey The role of grace in the healing process   Practical Application: Where have you not experienced love that there might be a shame response? Pray about what might be your ‘holy desire’ (for God, connection, love, etc) behind areas of shame, and what might be your unholy desires? Every morning, reflect on your wedding vows and recommit to them.   References:  Sexual Healing (Part 4) - Battling Pornography with Matt Fradd, Restore the Glory Podcast Unwanted, Jay Stringer (book)  Be Transformed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book)  Be Restored, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book) Be Healed, Dr. Bob Schuchts (book) Breaking Free From Pornography w/ Fr. Sean Kilcawley, Pints with Aquinas Podcast   Connect with Restore the Glory: Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!   Editing by ForteCatholic.com

Renowned expert Matt Fradd joins the conversation for our fourth episode in the series on Sexual Healing. Matt shares about ongoing journey to freedom from a pornography addiction that began at a young age. Matt, Jake and Bob discuss compulsions towards porn, how to avoid temptation and overcome addictions over time with the help of God and His people. If you or someone you know is battling a porn addiction, we hope you find this episode and the resources below helpful.    Guiding Quote: “But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." - 2 Corinthians 12:9   Key points - Dealing with the fallout from a porn addiction in childhood- Desire and compulsions that come in response to unmet desire- How to find recovery from porn addiction- The lie that there is a ‘silver bullet’ to healing. Rather, it’s a consistent effort to break free from addictions- Why it’s often hard to talk about these things in the church - God loves us in our weakness and failures- Overcoming shame - The importance of compassion and exhortation    Resources: - Treating Pornography Addiction: The Essential Tools for Recovery, Dr. Kevin Skinner (book) - The Porn Myth, Matt Fradd (book)- Matt Fradd’s Podcast, Pints With Aquinas (podcast)- Strive: 21-Day Porn Detox (for men)- Magdala Ministries for women struggling with sexual addiction- Forged: 33 Days Toward Freedom, Jason Evert & Matt Fradd (book)- Integrity Restored: resources for overcoming porn addiction   Practical Application: Find a trusted person to share honestly about your struggle, if you find yourself battling pornography use.  Thank God for the opportunities he has given you to show you his power through your weakness.  Explore one of the resources on our list to find new ways to support a loved one or overcome your own struggles.   Connect with Restore the Glory: Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast  Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast   Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness by sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!   Editing by ForteCatholic.com

As they continue the series on Sexual Healing, Jake and Bob share their takeaways and insights from last episode’s conversion with Sr. Miriam James Heidland. If you missed that powerful episode, please go back and listen! Jake and Bob revisit some core aspects of Theology of the Body, how Sister’s story illustrates these principles, and how we can find healing and help others do the same.   Key points What stood out to Jake and Bob from last episode’s conversation with Sr. Miriam James Heidland Revisiting insights from Theology of the Body as applied to healing journey Where to begin in our own healing journey Healing of our identity and how we see God’s identity Understanding the importance of the healing of trust in our relationship with God and others The role of shame and how to find freedom from shame We’ve all experienced disorder in our sexuality by virtue of living in a fallen world   Resources:  Theology of the Body Series: Episodes 3-8 from Restore the Glory (podcast) The Wounded Heart by Dan Allender (book)  Be Restored by Bob Schuchts (book)  Unwanted by Jay Stringer (book)    Connect with Restore the Glory: Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast  Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast   Subscribe/Rate Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness and wholeness sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks!   Editing by ForteCatholic.com

Show Notes It’s a joy to welcome our dear friend and special guest, Sr. Miriam James Heidland, onto the podcast. Continuing the series on Sexual Healing, Sr. Miriam teaches us how to have a disposition of tenderness and reverence toward our own stories, what she calls holy ground. Jake, Bob and Sr. Miriam regularly work alongside each other leading healing events, so this conversation is familiar territory. We are grateful for her vulnerability. Content warning: sexual abuse and the impacts of childhood abuse are discussed within this episode. References:  Abiding Together Podcast  Sr. Miriam’s Twitter Loved As I Am, book by Sr. Miriam  JPII Healing Center Society of Our Lady of the Most Holy Trinity (SOLT Sisters) Connect with Restore the Glory: Instagram: @restoretheglorypodcast  Twitter: @RestoreGloryPod Facebook: Restore the Glory Podcast Subscribe/Rate Never miss out on an episode by hitting the subscribe button right now! Help other people find the show and grow in holiness and wholeness sharing this podcast with them individually or on your social media. Thanks! Editing by ForteCatholic.com

In this episode, Jake and Bob lay the groundwork for a new series on sexual healing. Sexual woundedness affects almost everyone on some level. Jake and Bob offer their professional perspective on healing in this important area and share why it's important to let the Holy Spirit lead us when it comes to addressing wounds. Please note: specific examples of trauma and disordered sexuality are discussed within this episode. Listen with discretion. 

In this bonus episode in our series on Healing in Marriage, Jake and Dr. Bob are joined by Chris & Natalie Stefanick. Ten years into their marriage, the recognition of childhood abuse launched them into a challenging season of healing that ultimately demonstrates the power of God’s love, the grace of the sacrament of marriage and hope that healing from deep wounds is not only possible, but part of God’s desire for our restoration. Editing by ForteCatholic.com

Today, we welcome our first ever guest onto the show! Heather Khym joins us so that she and Jake can share the powerful story of how they found restoration in their marriage after Jake’s struggle with addiction came to light early in their marriage. This is a “must listen” conversation for married couples as Jake and Heather share from both the husband and wife’s perspective on dealing with tough issues and coming out stronger on the other side.

In this podcast, the hosts discuss how to restore trust in broken areas of a marriage. They emphasize the importance of reconciliation, vulnerability, forgiveness, and personal growth. They also highlight the significance of having a supportive community and express their gratitude to the listeners for their support.

Discover how to find healing and forgiveness in marriage by addressing vulnerabilities, childhood wounds, and character flaws. Explore the importance of trust, self-acceptance, and establishing healthy bonds. Learn about breaking soul ties and renouncing fear for healing and restoration in your relationship.

This podcast explores healing in marriage, addressing conflict and honoring your spouse. It discusses the challenges and rewards of marriage, recognizing spiritual warfare, understanding conflict roots, living with different temperaments, teamwork in marriage, and a guide for healing and restoration.