

Speaking of Sex with The Pleasure Mechanics
Pleasure Mechanics
Passionate & Compassionate conversations about all areas of sex, love & connection with The Pleasure Mechanics. Explicit, soulful, candid conversations rich with erotic knowledge and know-how.
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Dec 6, 2024 • 28min
Full Body Oral
Dive into the world of full body oral play, where every inch of the body is an opportunity for pleasure! Discover how communication about desires can deepen intimacy and unlock new erotic experiences. Explore the art of kissing, emphasizing the power of vulnerability and engagement. Learn about intriguing practices like analingus and the significance of embracing unconventional sensations. Whether you're in a committed relationship or navigating the complexities of polyamory, this discussion enhances connection and fulfillment in your intimate life.

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Oct 12, 2024 • 26min
Rethinking Refractory Myths
Dive into the intriguing world of sexual pleasure and the often misunderstood refractory period. Discover how ejaculation and orgasm differ, and challenge cultural myths that hinder erotic experiences. The hosts encourage a redefinition of what satisfaction means, promoting a more inclusive view of intimacy after ejaculation. With a focus on genuine connections over conventional performance metrics, this discussion invites a deeper understanding of sexuality and the joy of exploration.

Oct 4, 2024 • 29min
Lasting Longer In Bed
Want to last longer in bed so you can keep the pleasure going longer? Want to satisfy your partner and offer the kind of endurance they crave? You are not alone! We get a ton of emails from people wanting to make sex last longer and experience more satisfying intercourse. This Best Of Episode is […]

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Sep 27, 2024 • 26min
Building Stamina
Discover how stamina goes beyond physical endurance in intimate moments. Uncover the mental aspects that influence pleasure and learn to shift focus from performance to enjoyment. Embrace personal growth in your sexual identity while exploring techniques for mindful body awareness. Delve into the importance of pauses and sensation in building connections. Enhance your experiences with practical strategies that help reduce anxiety and promote deeper intimacy.

Sep 20, 2024 • 38min
Responsive Giving
How we offer and give our time, gifts and attention matter in all of our relationships. And when we cultivate the skillset of becoming responsive givers of erotic pleasure we are able to offer our lovers more specifically what they want and enjoy and can then offer more sexually satisfying experiences to our lovers. In this […]

Sep 16, 2024 • 23min
Tough and Tender
How do you like it – Tough, or Tender? For many of us, what we truly crave is an exquisite blend of Tough & Tender, Rough & Romantic, Intense & Intimate. Tough & Tender don’t have to be opposite ends of a spectrum or mutually exclusive – we can revel in the delicious combinations of […]

Sep 7, 2024 • 36min
Getting Real About STIs with Dr. Ina Park
Join us in conversation with Dr. Ina Park, author of Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History, and Surprising Secrets of STDs In this essential episode we cover how to talk about sexual safety without stigma, the real risks and rewards we navigate as sexually active adults, and how we can all create a healthier, […]

Aug 14, 2024 • 28min
Mindful Kink
In this Best Of Pleasure Mechanics episode, we explore bringing the foundational attitudes of mindfulness into erotic exploration, getting kinky and expanding our sense of sexual self. One of our coaching clients told us that this episode was a game-changer for them, allowing them to approach bringing kink into a relationship after FIFTY years of […]

Jul 22, 2024 • 34min
Safer Sexier Oral Play with Melanie Cristol
Join us to explore how to enjoy safer sexier oral play in this Pleasure Mechanics interview with CEO and founder of Lorals, Melanie Cristol. Ready to uplevel your experience of oral? Join our Oral Mastery Course for an immersive, experiential course in oral pleasure for all bodies! More About Lorals: Lorals has revolutionized oral sex. […]

Jun 28, 2024 • 34min
Compassionate Care With Dr. Nazanin Moali
We all deserve compassionate, culturally relevant care. In this nourishing conversation, we speak with Dr. Nazanin Moali, clinical psychologist & addiction specialist, about how we can all create more empathy and freedom for one another. We talked about how she works with clients from conservative backgrounds to get free from toxic conditioning, without leaving beloved home […]