The Dr. Psych Mom Show
with clinical psychologist 
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The Dr. Psych Mom Show with clinical psychologist Dr. Samantha Rodman Whiten

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Jan 7, 2023 • 16min

When Men Get Anxious About When The Next Sexual Encounter Will Be

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is when your wife asks "Are you done yet?" and responsive vs zero desire. For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ A lot of guys feel this way and it prevents them from enjoying sex when they have it. They are worried about getting everything they can get out of the encounter because they have no clue when the next one will be.  Here, I give you an easy solve (at least easy if your wife is at least somewhat invested in your happiness, which is a big ask for some)! Listen and learn, grasshoppers.
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Jan 6, 2023 • 18min

Choreplay DOES WORK... But Here's The Caveat

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is when your wife asks "Are you done yet?" and responsive vs zero desire. For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ Of course, there are many women for whom the man doing more chores has zero effect on sexual frequency. But there's also many women for whom it works!  Here's how to differentiate! Reference: https://www.drpsychmom.com/2015/10/26/why-wives-who-take-care-of-all-the-housework-dont-want-sex/
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Jan 5, 2023 • 20min

When Your Boyfriend Doesn't Want To Get Married

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is when your wife asks "Are you done yet?" and responsive vs zero desire. For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ Some women struggle with a man who won't commit. Other women struggle with having married a man who didn't want to commit that somehow ended up committing. Here is how to deal with this situation and why you keep getting into it.
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Jan 4, 2023 • 20min

Encouraging Your Husband To Masturbate Is Like Encouraging Your Wife To Get Love Letters From A Romance Robot

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is about responsive desire vs zero desire and when your wife says "Are you done yet?" For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ Is your goal to outsource yourself out of your partner's primary way of feeling loved? What's the end game?  It's worse than you think. 
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Jan 2, 2023 • 19min

Midlife Crises In Women

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is why kids empathize less with more successful parents (especially if they are avoidant!). For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ While I've discussed midlife crises in general and how women change in their 40's and in menopause, I haven't directly discussed how midlife crises look in women. Often, it looks like marital dissatisfaction, which means this episode is important for men to listen to as well!
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Jan 1, 2023 • 18min

When Does Frequency Of Sex Change From A Quantitative Problem To A Qualitative One?

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is why kids empathize less with more successful parents (especially if they are avoidant!). For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ I see two inflection points with sexual frequency that change it from a quantitative issue to a qualitative one. The first is when frequency drops below what would be necessary for partners to not feel the need to masturbate. The second is when frequency drops below once every two weeks, at which point people start seeing the clinical definition of "sexless marriage" in the distance and when they tend to feel very disconnected. In this episode, I discuss these points and others, and what to do when you see your relationship heading down this path.
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Dec 31, 2022 • 16min

Hold On, How Is The Sex Denying Partner The Victim?

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is why kids empathize less with more successful parents (especially if they are avoidant!). For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ A pernicious form of crazy making that I see in sexless marriages is that the sex denying partner is the victim rather than the one who is being denied the sex!  How did this fairy story take hold and what personality dynamics are evident in the denier and the denied in this scenario? Also: how did the book The Women's Room, a feminist classic published in 1977, take the exactly opposite view than is currently espoused, where the woman being denied sex was the victim, and which one makes more sense to me as a marriage therapist?
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Dec 30, 2022 • 18min

Adults Used To Have Sex

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is why sometimes kids have less empathy for more successful parents. For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ If you listened to my podcast about how TV shows for teens used to show that married adults have sex, you will love this line I just heard upon rewatching the first episode of Dawson's Creek: "Moms have great sex lives." Doesn't that seem insane given where we are at 20+ years later? Part of being an adult used to be having sex and having fun in general, and now the norm seems to be to view yourself as a sacrificial lamb slaughtered on the pyre of your children's happiness. What has changed, why, and how can you counteract it?
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Dec 28, 2022 • 16min

Should You Manipulate Your Husband With Sex?

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is whether everyone should try therapy.  For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ Yeah sure for once you'd be using sex in a positive way! :) More on why it isn't bad to manipulate your spouse IF you're doing it to be in a happier marriage!
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Dec 27, 2022 • 15min

Does Drinking "Not Really" Impact You?

Subscribe if you love the DPM show! https://anchor.fm/drpsychmomshow/subscribe and you'll get all my awesome bonus episodes; the most recent one is whether everyone should try therapy! For my secret Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/becomesupporter/DrPsychMom/ For coaching from DPM, visit https://www.drpsychmom.com/coaching/ For therapy, contact us at www.bestlifebehavioralhealth.com Follow me on TikTok! https://www.tiktok.com/@therealdrpsychmom and YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCqLm4xRaUeroBodFc-h4XDQ Many people drink "to relax" or "to have fun" but don't recognize how much alcohol impacts their mental and emotional health.  If you're always a little bit drunk or a little bit hungover, there's a tremendous negative effect on your clarity of mind, ability to connect and communicate with your partner, and alcohol is a depressant overall. Listen to this episode if you think that alcohol doesn't really impact your relationship, sex life, job, mood, or more.

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