

Coaching for Leaders
Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born; they’re made. Many leaders reach points in their careers where what worked yesterday doesn’t work today. This Monday show helps leaders thrive at these key inflection points. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak shares insights from a decade of leading a global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, proven leaders, expert thinkers, and deep conversation have attracted 50 million downloads and over 300,000 followers. Join the FREE membership to search the entire leadership and management library by topic at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Nov 5, 2018 • 35min
379: Influence Without Authority and More Questions, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni Stachowiak is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, a professor of business and management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, Bonni was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. She joins me monthly to respond to listener questions.
Listener Questions
Samantha asked about what to do if you have a problem employee that is affecting the team.
Pat asked about how to show respect for difficult work while also setting clear boundaries for ethical behavior.
Ashish asked about using buzzwords and complexity vs. keeping language simple.
Craig wanted to know how to influence people whom you have no direct control.
Resources Mentioned
Theory in Practice* by Chris Argyris
Temple Grandin
Double-loop learning
Team of Teams* by General Stanley McChrystal
Related Episodes
What Search Dogs Can Teach You About Engagement (episode 25)
Use Power for Good and Not Evil (episode 254)
How to Challenge Directly and Care Personally (episode 302)
Five Steps to Hold People Accountable (episode 306)
Executive Presence with Your Elevator Speech (episode 316)
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Oct 29, 2018 • 39min
378: The Way to Stay Grounded, with Parker Palmer
Parker Palmer: On the Brink of Everything
Parker Palmer is the founder and senior partner emeritus of the Center for Courage & Renewal and is a world-renowned writer, speaker, and activist who focuses on issues in education, community, leadership, spirituality and social change. He is the author of the newly published book, On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity, and Getting Old*.
Key Points
“The unexamined life is not worth living.” —Socrates
Encourage people to examine the fears they have about looking inward.
When we befriend what we are afraid of, it will become our friend.
“If you can’t get out of it, get into it.” —Outward Bound motto
Focus on building goodwill in your business because it repays many times over.
Resources Mentioned
On the Brink of Everything: Grace, Gravity, and Getting Old* by Parker Palmer
The New Better Off: Reinventing the American Dream* by Courtney Martin
Outward Bound
Book Notes
Download my highlights from On the Brink of Everything in PDF format (free membership required).
Related Episodes
How to Tame Your Inner Critic, with Tara Mohr (episode 232)
The Power of Solitude, with Mike Erwin (episode 308)
The Path of Humble Leadership, with Edgar Schein and Peter Schein (episode 363)
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Oct 22, 2018 • 38min
377: How to Lead an Offsite, with Tom Henschel
Tom Henschel: The Look & Sound of Leadership
Executive coach Tom Henschel of Essential Communications grooms senior leaders and executive teams. An internationally recognized expert in the field of workplace communications and self-presentation, he has helped thousands of leaders achieve excellence through his work as an executive coach and his top-rated podcast, The Look & Sound of Leadership.
Key Points
An offsite doesn’t have to actually be offsite, but it needs to be treated like it is.
What do you want the team to know that they don’t know now? Or what do you want them to be able to do that they can’t do now?
An offsite is a great way to just talk and have experiences together that you don’t normally have time for.
Really skilled facilitation is an art, not a science.
Think about the why before the what.
A good offsite is the start of a process, not the end of a process.
If the offsite is really productive, it creates more work.
Leaders should adopt the language of the offsite and use it repeatedly so people don’t forget.
Bonus Audio
How to balance fun versus professional in an offsite
Resources Mentioned
Fieldbook of Team Interventions: Step-by-Step Guide to High Performance Teams* by Harry Eggleton and Judy Rice
Liberating Structures
Overcoming the Five Dysfunctions of a Team: A Field Guide for Leaders, Managers, and Facilitators* by Patrick Lencioni
The Thiagi Group
Leading Offsites episode from The Look & Sound of Leadership
Related Episodes
The Four Unique Types of Teams, with Susan Gerke (episode 138)
How to Create Team Guidelines, with Susan Gerke (episode 192)
How to Lead Through Uncertainty and Change, with Jacqueline Farrington (episode 224)
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Oct 15, 2018 • 36min
376: How to Become the Person You Want to Be, with James Clear
James Clear: Atomic Habits
James Clear is an author and speaker focused on habits, decision-making, and continuous improvement. He is a regular speaker at Fortune 500 companies and his work is used by teams in the NFL, NBA, and MLB. He’s the author of the new book, Atomic Habits: An Easy & Proven Way to Build Good Habits & Break Bad Ones*.
Key Points
Goals are great for deciding what direction you want to head, but to actually get there it’s all about your systems.
Results aren’t what needs to change; the processes and habits are what need to change.
Start with the identity you want for yourself and build your habits to reinforce that identity.
Your habits are what prove your identity to yourself.
Habits are like compound interest for self-improvement.
Bonus Audio
How habits reinforce your identity
Resources Mentioned
Atomic Habits* by James Clear
James Clear on Annual Reviews
Related Episodes
Getting Things Done with David Allen (episode 184)
Create Behavior That Lasts With Marshall Goldsmith (episode 196)
The Best Way to Make New Habits Reality (episode 217)
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Oct 13, 2018 • 35min
375: A Useful Mindset for New Leaders, with Mark Ipaviz
Mark Ipaviz: ELEVEN Australia
Mark Ipaviz is a member of the Coaching for Leaders Academy and National Sales Manager at Ozdare where he manages the brand ELEVEN Australia.
Key Points
Create an environment where people come to work absolutely loving every second of their day.
If you create an environment where everyone feels loved, you create a family.
If you take care of your people, they will take care of your customers.
Resources Mentioned
ELEVEN Australia
How to Win Friends and Influence People* by Dale Carnegie
The 7th Habits of Highly Effective People* by Stephen Covey
The 5 Levels of Leadership by John Maxwell
The Coaching Habit* by Michael Bungay Stanier
Related Episodes
These Coaching Questions Get Results (episode 237)
How to Get the Ideal Team Player (episode 301)
Your Permission to Fail (episode 338)
Three Steps to Great Career Conversations (episode 370)
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Oct 8, 2018 • 38min
374: How to Get Moving, with Scott Harrison
Scott Harrison: charity: water
Scott is the founder and CEO of charity: water, one of the most visible non-profit organizations in America. He’s author of the new book Thirst: A Story of Redemption, Compassion, and a Mission to Bring Clean Water to the World.
Key Points
If you’re chasing the wrong things there will never be enough.
To do remarkable things you must have remarkable clarity of vision.
Pick one thing and focus all of your energy on it.
Resources Mentioned
Thirst by Scott Harrison*
Video: The Spring
Thirstbook.com
The Spring
Related Episodes
How to Be a Non-Conformist, with Adam Grant (episode 238)
Four Steps to Get Unstuck and Embrace Change (episode 297)
Six Tactics to Achieve Extraordinary Performance (episode 337)
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Oct 1, 2018 • 39min
373: How to Connect Personal Growth to Business Outcomes, with Jonathan Raymond
Jonathan Raymond: Good Authority
Jonathan Raymond is the founder of Refound, where he and his team work with organizations to create a company culture based in personal growth. He’s the author of the book Good Authority: How to Become the Leader Your Team Is Waiting For* and the creator of the The Good Accountability course*.
Key Points
People often separate their career goals from the personal development goals, and it doesn’t have to be that way.
Leaders often have a quick chat and then leave the conversation without actually making any deep connections.
We often don’t ask a question and leave it enough time to breathe.
Employees get lots of feedback, but it’s often not helpful feedback.
Think about feedback as a diagnostic tool.
Leaders no longer need to be the problem solvers — they need to help make space for others to solve problems.
Employees are looking for emotional transparency.
Bonus Audio
Emotional Intelligence and Women in the Workplace
Resources Mentioned
The Good Accountability course*
Good Authority by Jonathan Raymond*
Refound
Book Notes
Download my highlights from Good Authority in PDF format (free membership required).
Related Episodes
Five Steps to Hold People Accountable (episode 306)
The Path of Humble Leadership (episode 363)
Three Steps to Great Career Conversations (episode 370)
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Sep 24, 2018 • 31min
372: Leverage Your Defining Moments, with Lynne Whiteford
Lynne Whiteford: Defining Moments
Lynne Whiteford is a talent management executive who’s led in many capacities, including a focus in learning, leadership development, success planning, and organizational design. Most recently she served as vice president at Disney ABC Television Group.
Key Points
Recognize and leverage your defining moments.
Realize that careers are not straight lines. It’s okay to not know the next step and to experiment. Careers get messy for all of us, at least sometimes, along the way.
Related Episodes
Growth Mindset Helps You Rise From the Ashes (episode 326)
How to Be a Happier Person (episode 334)
Three Steps to Great Career Conversations (episode 370)
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Sep 17, 2018 • 38min
371: Get Smart About Assessments, with Ken Nowack
Ken Nowack, a licensed psychologist and President of Envisia Learning, dives into the world of assessments in leadership. He categorizes assessments into three types: personality tools, skills, and interests. Ken highlights the importance of selecting the right assessment for individual growth and team dynamics. He also discusses the evolution of personality assessments and critiques popular tools, emphasizing alignment with personal values for effective career paths. Listeners gain practical insights on unlocking their potential through tailored assessments.

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Sep 10, 2018 • 37min
370: Three Steps to Great Career Conversations, with Russ Laraway
Russ Laraway: When They Win, You Win
Russ has had a diverse 28 year operational management career. He was a Company Commander in the Marine Corps before starting his first company, Pathfinders. From there, Russ went to the Wharton School, and then onto management roles at Google and Twitter. He then co-founded Candor, Inc., along with best selling author and past guest Kim Scott.
Over the last several years, Russ served as the Chief People Officer at Qualtrics, and is now the Chief People Officer for the fast-growing venture capital firm, Goodwater Capital, where he is helping Goodwater and its portfolio companies to empower their people to do great work and be totally psyched while doing it. He’s the author of the book When They Win, You Win: Being a Great Manager Is Simpler Than You Think
Key Points
The three career conversations:
The life story
The career vision
The career action plan
Questions to help ask when career visioning:
What size company
What industry
What title
Four steps of the career action plan:
Develop your role
Get news skills through training
Develop your network
Talk about next step in your career
Resources Mentioned
When They Win, You Win: Being a Great Manager Is Simpler Than You Think by Russ Laraway
Radical Candor* by Kim Scott
Radical Candor
Related Episodes
An Astronaut’s Guide To Life On Earth (episode 149)
How Superbosses Master the Flow of Talent (episode 236)
How to Challenge Directly and Care Personally (episode 302)
What Great Technical People Leverage From Leadership (episode 312)
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