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Dave Stachowiak
Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. This Monday show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak brings perspective from a thriving, global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, expert researchers, deep conversation, and regular dialogue with listeners have attracted 40 million downloads and over 250K followers on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Activate your FREE membership to access the entire leadership and management library at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Sep 24, 2018 • 31min
372: Leverage Your Defining Moments, with Lynne Whiteford
Lynne Whiteford: Defining Moments
Lynne Whiteford is a talent management executive who’s led in many capacities, including a focus in learning, leadership development, success planning, and organizational design. Most recently she served as vice president at Disney ABC Television Group.
Key Points
Recognize and leverage your defining moments.
Realize that careers are not straight lines. It’s okay to not know the next step and to experiment. Careers get messy for all of us, at least sometimes, along the way.
Related Episodes
Growth Mindset Helps You Rise From the Ashes (episode 326)
How to Be a Happier Person (episode 334)
Three Steps to Great Career Conversations (episode 370)
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Sep 17, 2018 • 38min
371: Get Smart About Assessments, with Ken Nowack
Ken Nowack, a licensed psychologist and President of Envisia Learning, dives into the world of assessments in leadership. He categorizes assessments into three types: personality tools, skills, and interests. Ken highlights the importance of selecting the right assessment for individual growth and team dynamics. He also discusses the evolution of personality assessments and critiques popular tools, emphasizing alignment with personal values for effective career paths. Listeners gain practical insights on unlocking their potential through tailored assessments.

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Sep 10, 2018 • 37min
370: Three Steps to Great Career Conversations, with Russ Laraway
Russ Laraway: When They Win, You Win
Russ has had a diverse 28 year operational management career. He was a Company Commander in the Marine Corps before starting his first company, Pathfinders. From there, Russ went to the Wharton School, and then onto management roles at Google and Twitter. He then co-founded Candor, Inc., along with best selling author and past guest Kim Scott.
Over the last several years, Russ served as the Chief People Officer at Qualtrics, and is now the Chief People Officer for the fast-growing venture capital firm, Goodwater Capital, where he is helping Goodwater and its portfolio companies to empower their people to do great work and be totally psyched while doing it. He's the author of the book When They Win, You Win: Being a Great Manager Is Simpler Than You Think
Key Points
The three career conversations:
The life story
The career vision
The career action plan
Questions to help ask when career visioning:
What size company
What industry
What title
Four steps of the career action plan:
Develop your role
Get news skills through training
Develop your network
Talk about next step in your career
Resources Mentioned
When They Win, You Win: Being a Great Manager Is Simpler Than You Think by Russ Laraway
Radical Candor* by Kim Scott
Radical Candor
Related Episodes
An Astronaut’s Guide To Life On Earth (episode 149)
How Superbosses Master the Flow of Talent (episode 236)
How to Challenge Directly and Care Personally (episode 302)
What Great Technical People Leverage From Leadership (episode 312)
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Sep 8, 2018 • 24min
369: Move From Theory to Practice, with Steve Schroeder
Steve Schroeder
Steve Schroeder is a member of the Coaching for Leaders Academy and is a clinical practice manager in the pharmacy industry.
Key Points
Listen to what the other person is saying instead of trying to come up with an answer for what they’re doing.
Don’t worry about solving all the problems — just ask yourself if you asked the right questions to help people solve their own problems.
In some cases, by not holding people accountable you’re actually hurting their future career.
Resources Mentioned
The Coaching Habit* by Michael Bungay Stanier
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Success Talks podcast: Shawn Achor on the Secret to Reaching Big Potential
Related Episodes
These Coaching Questions Get Results, with Michael Bungay Stanier (episode 237)
How to Succeed with Leadership and Management, with John Kotter (episode 249)
The Truth and Lies of Performance Management, with Michael Bungay Stanier (episode 361)
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Sep 3, 2018 • 38min
368: The Way to Take Ownership and More Questions, with Tom Henschel
Tom Henschel: The Look & Sound of Leadership
Tom Henschel of Essential Communications grooms senior leaders and executive teams. An internationally recognized expert in the field of workplace communications and self-presentation, he has helped thousands of leaders achieve excellence through his work as an executive coach and his top-rated podcast, The Look & Sound of Leadership.
Listener Questions
Jennifer asked about how to not take criticism personally when she receives it.
Matt wondered if highly emotional intelligent leaders experience self-doubt.
Lillian asked how she could influence the work that is being delegated to her.
Amber wanted to know what she could do to address organizational change fatigue.
Resources Mentioned
Jennifer Garvey Berger at Growth Edge Coaching
How to Stop Worrying and Start Living* by Dale Carnegie
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Our Iceberg is Melting* by John Kotter
Start With Why* by Simon Sinek
The EQ Edge* by Steven Stein and Howard Book
Difficult Conversations* by Douglas Stone, Sheila Heen, and Bruce Patton
Thanks for the Feedback* by Douglas Stone and Sheila Heen
Who Moved my Cheese* by Spencer Johnson
Related Episodes
The Seven Steps You Follow To Delegate Work (episode 117)
How to Get Way Better at Accepting Feedback, with Sheila Heen (episode 143)
Start With Why, with Simon Sinek (episode 223)
Turn Followers Into Leaders, with David Marquet (episode 241)
Essentials of Adult Development, with Mindy Danna (episode 273)
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Aug 27, 2018 • 37min
367: How to Support Peak Performance, with Nada Wentzel
Nada Wentzel: The Jonah Group
Nada Wentzel is Global Solutions Director at the Jonah Group. She is a master coach, facilitator and international speaker, with qualifications in mechanical engineering, neuroscience, and organizational psychology.
Key Points
In terms of decision-making, the brain doesn’t actually know the difference between imaginary and real.
The thought of something bad happening can shift our direction.
Pain is an 8x stronger motivator than pleasure.
We’re designed to respond well to stress, but we are not designed to be in a chronic stress mode.
This about a 2-degree shift and how far a little adjustment can take you.
Create an optimal stress level that keeps people engaged but not burnt out.
Discuss the three H’s: Heartache, hero, highlight
Resources Mentioned
Nada Wentzel
The Jonah Group
Related Episodes
The Path to Start Leading Your Team, with John Piñeiro (episode 349)
The Value of Pivoting for Growth, with Beth Garrison (episode 351)
How Personal Clarity Engages Others, with Jeff Phipps (episode 357)
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Aug 20, 2018 • 39min
366: How to Move From Victim to Victor, with John Sanei
John Sanei: What’s Your Moonshot?
John Sanei is a trend specialist, business strategist, keynote speaker, author, entrepreneur, and a Singularity University faculty member, working with clients across industries and around the world. He’s the author of the book What's Your Moonshot?: Future-proof yourself and your business in the age of exponential disruption* and also the newly released book Magnetiize: Stop the chase. Understand the change. Take control of your future*.
Key Points
The lens we use to look at the world and ourselves is actually how the world reacts back to us.
What we look for is what we find.
When you finish complaining and moaning, are you empowered or disempowered?
We have an incredible privilege of choice to either take responsibility or to blame.
The 3 types of victims:
Martyr victim - the victim who feels sorry for themselves
Arrogant inferior victim - the person who cuts others down so he or she can feel better about themself
Arrogant superior victim - the person who thinks all problems are below them, that everybody else is a fool who can’t do anything right
Bonus Audio
The Importance of Kindness
Resources Mentioned
What's Your Moonshot?: Future-proof yourself and your business in the age of exponential disruption by John Sanei*
Magnetiize: Stop the chase. Understand the change. Take control of your future by John Sanei*
John Sanei's site
Book Notes
Download my highlights from What's Your Moonshot? in PDF format (free membership required).
Related Episodes
Ten Ways to Pick Yourself Up When You’re Beaten Down (episode 85)
How to Tame Your Inner Critic, with Tara Mohr (episode 232)
The Power of Solitude, with Mike Erwin (episode 308)
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Aug 13, 2018 • 36min
365: The Starting Point for Mindfulness, with Michelle Maldonado
Michelle Maldonado: Mindfulness
Michelle is Founder and CEO of Lucenscia, a human potential and business strategy firm dedicated to developing leaders and organizations with positive impact in the world. Michelle is a faculty member and Meta-Coach for Daniel Goleman's inaugural Emotional Intelligence Coaching Certification Program. Her work has been featured by the Human Capital Institute, the Mindful Leadership Summit, Leadership Excellence, and Chief Learning Officer.
Key Points
Mindfulness is paying attention to what’s happening in the present moment — in the body, in the mind, in the external environment — with an attitude of curiosity and kindness.
What are you thinking, and how is that impacting your interaction with the person before you?
There is a different quality of experience when you’re paying attention to what’s happening.
The easiest way to get started with mindfulness is to focus on your breathing.
Bonus Audio
Michelle on Clarity and Resilience
Resources Mentioned
Emotional Intelligence Coaching Certification
Search Inside Yourself Leadership Institute
Lucenscia (Michelle’s firm)
Flourish by Martin E. P. Seligman*
In Group vs Out Group with David Eagleman *
Recommended Reading
Unconscious Bias: Turning Discovery and Awareness Into Action and Impact
Finding the Space to Lead: A Practical Guide to Mindful Leadership* by Janice Marturano
Search Inside Yourself: The Unexpected Path to Achieving Success, Happiness* by Chade-Meng Tan
The Emotional Life of Your Brain: How Its Unique Patterns Affect the Way You Think, Feel, and Live — and How You Can Change Them* by Richard Davidson and Sharon Begley
Mindfulness for Beginners: Reclaiming the Present Moment — and Your Life* by Jon Kabat-Zinn
The Mindful Day: Practical Ways to Find Focus, Calm, and Joy From Morning to Evening* by Laurie Cameron
Creating Mindful Leaders: How to Power Down, Power Up, and Power Forward* by Joe Burton
Related Episodes
Have Conversations That Matter, with Celeste Headlee (episode 344)
Enhance Your Self-Awareness, with Daniel Goleman (episode 353)
The Path of Humble Leadership, with Edgar Schein and Peter Schein (episode 363)
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Aug 6, 2018 • 37min
364: Finding Courage to Lead and More Questions, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni Stachowiak is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, a professor of business and management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, Bonni was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. She joins me monthly to respond to listener questions.
Questions
Garfield asked about how to lead a team that doesn’t have enough to do.
Kevin wondered how his disability might be affecting his ability to lead his team.
Roland asked for advice on working for a disengaged leader.
Jane wanted to know if she should stay with her organization if there’s no clear path forward to make things better.
Resources Mentioned
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People* by Stephen Covey
Scrum
Seth Godin’s blog
Leading Change* by John Kotter
Our Iceberg is Melting* by John Kotter and Holger Rathgeber
Feel the Fear and Do It Anyway* by Susan Jeffers
Related Episodes
How to Tame Your Inner Critic, with Tara Mohr (episode 232)
How to Succeed with Leadership and Management, with John Kotter (episode 249)
How to Actually Move Numbers, with Chris McChesney (episode 294)
How to Create a Vivid Vision, with Cameron Herold (episode 345)
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Jul 30, 2018 • 36min
363: The Path of Humble Leadership, with Edgar Schein and Peter Schein
Edgar Schein and Peter Schein: Humble Leadership
Ed Schein is Professor Emeritus of MIT’s Sloan School of Management. He is the author of many books and publications, including the new book Humble Leadership*. Peter Schein is the cofounder and COO of the Organizational Culture and Leadership Institute and co-author of Humble Leadership*.
Key Points
The problems today’s leaders face are becoming more and more complex, and leaders can no longer be expected to know all the answers.
All people are vulnerable in one sense because nobody knows everything.
The value systems of many companies do not incentivize managers to get the most out of their teams, instead of rewarding managers for playing up to management.
Bonus Audio
Transparency, Openness, and Safety
Resources Mentioned
Humble Leadership* by Edgar and Peter Schein
Organizational Culture and Leadership Institute
Related Episodes
How to Be a Non-Conformist, with Adam Grant (episode 238)
Turn Followers Into Leaders, with David Marquet (episode 241)
How to Increase Your Conversational Intelligence, with Judith Glaser (episode 271)
How to Be a Happier Person, with Neil Pasricha (episode 334)
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