
Coaching for Leaders
Leaders aren’t born, they’re made. This Monday show helps you discover leadership wisdom through insightful conversations. Independently produced weekly since 2011, Dr. Dave Stachowiak brings perspective from a thriving, global leadership academy, plus more than 15 years of leadership at Dale Carnegie. Bestselling authors, expert researchers, deep conversation, and regular dialogue with listeners have attracted 40 million downloads and over 250K followers on Spotify and Apple Podcasts. Activate your FREE membership to access the entire leadership and management library at CoachingforLeaders.com
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Jun 11, 2018 • 40min
355: How to Approach Corporate Budgeting, with Jody Wodrich
Jody Wodrich: Corporate Budgeting
Jody Wodrich is an executive leader in Southern California and has served his organization for over 20 years. On this episode, he shares some of the key leadership skills and considerations when creating an organizational budget.
Key Points
When budgeting, think about the big picture.
Start off simple with the fixed and flexible expenses.
Money is the foundation behind what you do, but people are the ones implementing them. Think about the people when making budgets.
If you don’t budget your money, it will just seem to evaporate and you’ll have no idea where it went.
Don’t just examine your budget once a year.
Think about how closely you’re watching your money.
Related Episodes
Improve Your Financial Intelligence, with Joe Knight (episode 244)
How to Benefit From Conflict, with Susan Gerke (episode 263)
Negotiation Tactics for Results, with Kwame Christian (episode 311)
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Jun 4, 2018 • 33min
354: Handling Defensiveness and More Questions, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni Stachowiak is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, a professor of business and management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, Bonni was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. She joins me monthly to respond to listener questions.
Questions
Marcelo asked about how to navigate boundaries between personal and professional relationships.
Martin asked for advice on handling defensiveness from an employee.
Louise wanted our advice on negotiating a new position in her company — and potentially stepping away from leadership.
Resources Mentioned
Books by Edgar Shein*
The Coaching Habit* by Michael Bungay Stanier
Dan Pink’s 1-3-20 podcast
Seth Godin’s Akimbo podcast
Getting Things Done podcast
NPR: Up First podcast
Pod Save the People podcast
Ear Hustle podcast
Brains On podcast
Related Episodes
The Seven Steps You Follow To Delegate Work (episode 117)
How to Manage Former Peers, with Tom Henschel (episode 257)
The Way to Stop Rescuing People From Their Problems, with Michael Bungay Stanier (episode 284)
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May 28, 2018 • 38min
353: Enhance Your Self-Awareness, with Daniel Goleman
Daniel Goleman: Emotional Intelligence
In 1995, Daniel Goleman published the blockbuster bestselling book Emotional Intelligence*, a book that now has more than 5 million copies in print worldwide in 40 different languages. He’s the author of a new series of primers for the competencies of emotional and social intelligence, titled Building Blocks of Emotional Intelligence* and he’s launching an emotional intelligence coaching certification.
Key Points
Emotional Intelligence has given us permission to talk about emotion in the workplace.
Emotional Intelligence is about how well you can manage yourself.
Self-awareness is fundamental.
If you have a sense of your true strengths and weaknesses, you can have self-confidence that is based on reality.
If you feel your emotions flaring up, pause and name what’s going on. That’ll allow the executive part of your brain to take back charge.
Notice what your triggers are and intentionally avoid them.
Self-awareness can give you insights into bad habits you might have as a leader.
Resources Mentioned
Emotional Intelligence Coaching Certification
Building Blocks of Emotional Intelligence Primers* by Daniel Goleman, et al.
What Makes a Leader: Why Emotional Intelligence Matters* by Daniel Goleman
Emotional and Social Competence Inventory
Book Notes
Download my highlights from Emotional Self-Awareness in PDF format (free membership required).
Related Episodes
Create Behavior That Lasts, with Marshall Goldsmith (episode 196)
The Choice for Compassion, with Edith Eger (episode 336)
How to Leverage Your 360, with Tom Henschel (episode 341)
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May 21, 2018 • 39min
352: How to Find Your Calling, with Ken Coleman
Ken Coleman: One Question
Ken Coleman is a Dave Ramsey personality and host of The Ken Coleman Show and the top-rated EntreLeadership Podcast. He’s also the author of One Question: Life-Changing Answers from Today’s Leading Voices*. Ken joined the Dave Ramsey team in 2014 and frequently guest hosts The Dave Ramsey Show, the third-ranked nationally syndicated talk radio show in America.
Key Points
The fear of the unknown scares us from changing careers.
The fear of regret may outweigh other fears.
Ask yourself who you most want to help and what problem you most want to solve.
The sweet spot is when you use your top talent to perform your top passion.
The safe decision is often not the smartest decision.
Resources Mentioned
The Ken Coleman Show
EntreLeadership Podcast
One Question: Life-Changing Answers from Today’s Leading Voices* by Ken Coleman
Finding the Career That Fits You*
The Ultimate Guide to Using Your Strengths to Get Hired*
Related Episodes
An Astronaut’s Guide To Life On Earth, with Chris Hadfield (episode 149)
How to Know When to Move On (episode 175)
How to Figure Out Your Career, with Scott Anthony Barlow (episode 259)
The Benefit of Being a Rookie, with Liz Wiseman (episode 340)
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May 19, 2018 • 35min
351: The Value of Pivoting for Growth, with Beth Garrison
Beth Garrison: Shaping Development
Beth Garrison is the senior consultant of Shaping Development and the owner of Operant Coffee. She is a board certified behavior analyst by training — and previously was the CEO of a non-profit services division. She’s in her second year of membership in the Coaching for Leaders Academy.
Key Points
When you create new boundaries, relationships can change.
Once you’ve set boundaries, you can finally start to focus on the things you always wanted to.
It’s a good thing to go outside of your direct network to work through tough problems.
Flexibility is very important in today’s fast-paced world.
Resources
Getting Things Done* by David Allen
The Power of Weak Connections, with David Burkus (episode 347)
Pivot* by Jenny Blake
Permission to Screw Up* by Kristen Hadeed
The Five Temptations of a CEO* by Patrick Lencioni
Walden Two* by B. F. Skinner
Related Episodes
Getting Things Done, with David Allen (episode 184)
How to Get the Ideal Team Player, with Patrick Lencioni (episode 301)
Your Permission to Fail, with Kristen Hadeed (episode 338)
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May 14, 2018 • 40min
350: How to Create an Unstoppable Culture, with Ginger Hardage
Ginger Hardage: Unstoppable Cultures
Ginger Hardage is the former senior vice president of culture at Southwest Airlines. She led a team responsible for building and sustaining the organization’s legendary culture and communications enterprise, resulting in 23 consecutive years on Fortune’s list of Top 10 Most Admired Companies in the World.
Key Points
Three Characteristics of an Unstoppable Culture:
Putting people first
Constantly nourishing your culture
Sharing stories relentlessly
Cultures don’t happen accidentally — they have to be managed.
Start with your company values and then hire for those values.
Use peers to help select and interview candidates.
If the leadership team is not fully engaged, employees will be able to tell.
Capture customer stories and share them with your employees.
Set your company vision and expectations, but don’t prescribe how you employees must go about doing it.
Resources Mentioned
Hire Tough Manage Easy* by Mel Kleiman
Unstoppable Cultures Fellowship
Exuberant Dancing Airport Employee Will Instantly Make Your Day More Enjoyable
How Southwest Airlines Uses Emotional Storytelling To Connect With Its Customers
Turn the Ship Around* by David Marquet
Related Episodes
Turn Followers Into Leaders, with David Marquet (episode 241)
How to Get the Ideal Team Player, with Patrick Lencioni (episode 301)
The Way to Capture the Power of Moments, with Chip Heath (episode 329)
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May 12, 2018 • 32min
349: The Path to Start Leading Your Team, with John Piñeiro
John Piñeiro, regional sales director, discusses transitioning from peers to manager, incorporating 'Start with Why' and leading with purpose, improving communication and shifting perspectives, discovering and tracking helpful podcast episodes, and his training program covering managing former peers, starting with why, moving the numbers, and creating team guidelines.

May 7, 2018 • 37min
348: How to Move Up, with Bonni Stachowiak
Bonni Stachowiak: Teaching in Higher Ed
Bonni Stachowiak is the host of the Teaching in Higher Ed podcast, a professor of business and management at Vanguard University, and my life partner. Prior to her academic career, Bonni was a human resources consultant and executive officer for a publicly traded company. She joins me monthly to respond to listener questions.
Questions
Emily asked about strategies for growing her career while planning for a future family.
Patrick asked our advice on how to communicate effectively when multiple cultures are represented in the room.
Scott wondered about the best ways to transition to leading an accounting team, without having that expertise himself.
Jennifer asked how she could move up into an executive position.
Brian wanted to know what he could do to prevent managers from venting to their employees.
Resources Mentioned
Mind the (Wage) Gap from HBR Women at Work
slide:ology: The Art and Science of Creating Great Presentations* by Nancy Duarte
Presentation Zen: Simple Ideas on Presentation Design and Delivery* by Garr Reynolds
Slidedocs
Slideuments
So Good They Can’t Ignore You* by Cal Newport
Related Episodes
How to Listen When Someone Is Venting, with Mark Goulston (episode 91)
How to Make Deep Work Happen, with Cal Newport (episode 233)
How to Influence Cross-Culturally, with Erin Meyer (episode 286)
Notice and Change Dysfunctional Culture, with Jonathan Raymond (episode 327)
The Path to Start Leading Your Team, with John Piñeiro (episode 349)
How to Create a Team Vision (MemberCast 4)
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Apr 30, 2018 • 37min
347: The Power of Weak Connections, with David Burkus
David Burkus: Friend of a Friend
David Burkus is a best-selling author, a sought-after speaker, and an associate professor of leadership and innovation at Oral Roberts University. His TED talk has been viewed over 1.8 million times, he is a regular contributor to Harvard Business Review, and he’s now listed on Thinkers50. He’s just released his new book, Friend of a Friend*.
Key Points
Networking should not just be about meeting total strangers.
Constantly providing value to your network doesn’t mean you have to be close friends with everyone.
It’s impossible to maintain close ties with everyone in your network.
Don’t just rely on close connections, because they’re likely in the same circles as you.
Weak ties are more likely to provide valuable information.
When networking, it’s fine to start with your close connections to warm up, but you can’t stop there.
Don’t let your connections get too dormant — regularly engage with them.
Follow people on social media to know what’s going on in their lives, and then send them a personal message.
Make your inner circle diverse to be sure you’re getting the wide-ranging insight you need.
A diverse network will give you information you wouldn’t otherwise have.
Resources Mentioned
Friend of a Friend* by David Burkus
How To Give and Get The Introductions That Will Transform Your Life and Your Career
Book Notes
Download my highlights from Friend of a Friend in PDF format (free membership required).
Related Episodes
How Superbosses Master the Flow of Talent, with Sydney Finkelstein (episode 236)
New Management Practices of Leading Organizations, with David Burkus (episode 253)
How to Deal With the Diminishers, with Liz Wiseman (episode 305)
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Apr 23, 2018 • 39min
346: The Way to Build Relationships at Conferences, with Robbie Samuels
Robbie Samuels: Croissants vs. Bagels
Robbie Samuels has been recognized as a networking expert by Inc. and Lifehacker, and is the author of Croissants vs. Bagels: Strategic, Effective, and Inclusive Networking at Conferences.* He’s a member of the National Speakers Association and has been speaking on the topic of inclusive networking for over a decade. He also hosts the On the Schmooze podcast.
Key Points
If you’re brand new to a conference, scan the floor and look for welcoming people. If you don’t see anyone, get in a line somewhere to meet people.
If you’re a regular at the conference, think of yourself as a host.
A lot of networking success is about preparation.
When you go into a session early, don’t just hop on your phone. Talk to people.
When a line forms to talk to a speaker, work the line. It’s a great opportunity for networking.
Organizing a networking event at a conference is a great way to meet people.
Resources Mentioned
10 Tips for Conference Connections
Croissants vs. Bagels* by Robbie Samuels
Contactually
Quiet* by Susan Cain
Book Notes
Download my highlights from Croissants vs. Bagels in PDF format (free membership required).
Related Episodes
The Secret To Success At Conferences, with Charles Max Wood (episode 73)
Get ROI From Professional Associations, with John Corcoran (episode 209)
Executive Presence with Your Elevator Speech, with Tom Henschel (episode 316)
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