Sex and the Psyche
Kim Kaplan Productions
Sex and the Psyche is hosted by clinical sex therapists, Dr. Jenni Skyler and Daniel Lebowitz. Married with two children, Jenni and Daniel, take listeners behind the scenes on how they talk shop on a deeper level as they conceptualize the intersection of relationships, sex, and psychology. With over 16 years of helping couples and individuals enhance and optimize their sexual function, pleasure, and knowledge of human sexuality, Sex and the Psyche covers the issues that affect most everyone from desire discrepancy, erectile issues, painful sex, porn obsessions, premature and delayed ejaculation, and healing from affairs among many other topics.
As a husband-wife team and co-directors of 'The Intimacy Institute for Sex and Relationship Therapy', Jenni and Daniel share their expertise from real life scenarios, bringing a unique angle to understanding relationships while offering listeners helpful communication skills through thoughtful and intelligent conversations designed to help connect the more complicated dots for manifesting a more satisfying and sustainable sex life.
As a husband-wife team and co-directors of 'The Intimacy Institute for Sex and Relationship Therapy', Jenni and Daniel share their expertise from real life scenarios, bringing a unique angle to understanding relationships while offering listeners helpful communication skills through thoughtful and intelligent conversations designed to help connect the more complicated dots for manifesting a more satisfying and sustainable sex life.
Episodes
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Nov 28, 2025 • 7min
S3Bonus: Commodification of Sex
Dr. Jenni and Daniel continue their conversation on the Commodification of Sex in this Bonus Episode that provides suggestions for creating deeper connections within sexual relationships in the Gen Z era. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 27, 2025 • 35min
S3E12: GEN Z and the Commodification of Sex
Jenni and Daniel respond to a listener question from a mom with two Gen-Z kids who is wondering why her 20-something children don’t pursue relationships or sex. Jenni and Daniel unpack this conundrum as they explore factors such as screens, social media, cultural narratives, and, how intimacy has become commodified. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 20, 2025 • 38min
S3E11: The Male Low Sex Drive: Americas Biggest Sex Secret
Jenni and Daniel read 3 listener questions from women who have male partners with low sex drive. Learn what depletes the male drive, even when testosterone is healthy or high. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Nov 14, 2025 • 28min
S3NeuroSexy Bonus: Resentment Only Hurts Yourself
Jenni and Daniel continue the conversation with colleague and friend, Michelle Miscione. They dive deeper into how resentment erodes relationships, and how laughter and personal responsibility are essential antidotes. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
8 snips
Nov 13, 2025 • 34min
S3E10: NeuroSexy & the Art of Explicitness
In this enlightening discussion, therapist Michelle Miscione shares insights from her extensive experience helping neurodivergent couples. She introduces Eli and Marcus, navigating intimacy with ADHD and autism, highlighting the importance of explicit communication. The conversation delves into redefining intimacy and managing boundaries, revealing how tailored approaches can enhance connections. They also explore sensory adjustments to accommodate individual needs, all while celebrating neurodivergence as a unique strength in relationships.
9 snips
Nov 11, 2025 • 20min
S3E9: Delayed Ejaculation Bonus: Jenni and Daniel Find Common Ground
Jenni and Daniel navigate their marital dynamics while tackling the sensitive topic of delayed ejaculation. They compare their distinct approaches to sex therapy, using a cooking metaphor to highlight the difference between structured recipes and improvisation. The duo emphasizes the importance of trust and respect in both therapy and relationships. They agree that disagreements can be constructive, and explore various factors influencing delayed ejaculation, such as shame and relationship dynamics. Ultimately, they find common ground in their professional and personal lives.
9 snips
Nov 6, 2025 • 35min
S3E9: Delayed Ejaculation: Jenni VS Daniel
Delved into the complexities of delayed ejaculation, exploring both psychological and physical dynamics. The hosts dissected the Arousal Spectrum and its impact on sexual functioning. They debated differing definitions and shared insights on sensations of arousal versus the reality of ejaculation. The conversation also touched on how internal narratives can hinder sexual experiences. Practical tips included slowing down and enhancing communication with partners for better intimacy.
Oct 30, 2025 • 26min
S3E8: The New Rules of Dating: Let's Be picky Together
Dr. Jenni and Daniel chat with sexuality journalist, and Lifestyle editor for the New York Post, Fabiana Buontempo about her experiences in the dating world professionally and personally. The stakes are higher for men as women create autonomous and lucrative careers; while other women are taking a "pseudo"-celibacy approach to their dating game. Jenni and Daniel discuss with her ways to dating intentionally and manifest what you are ultimately looking for and about her experiences with hot topics like celibacy and the new rules of dating. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
16 snips
Oct 23, 2025 • 31min
S3E7: Tactics For Bedroom Feedback
Navigating bedroom feedback can be tricky, but expressing desires is crucial for both partners. Silence can be more selfish than speaking up, as it denies partners the chance to enhance their experiences. Discussing sexual needs is often stifled by people-pleasing and emotional barriers. Framing feedback positively can help avoid defensiveness, while establishing a safe space for conversation is essential. Plus, understanding past reactions can illuminate present hesitations. Speaking up not only validates our desires but also fosters better intimacy.
Oct 16, 2025 • 28min
S3E6: Postpartum Pampering
Dr. Jenni and Daniel talk with new mom, Suzie, and discuss the challenges in how to reclaim her sexual identity after postpartum with a toddler and a baby. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
