Sex and the Psyche S3E10: NeuroSexy & the Art of Explicitness
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Nov 13, 2025 In this enlightening discussion, therapist Michelle Miscione shares insights from her extensive experience helping neurodivergent couples. She introduces Eli and Marcus, navigating intimacy with ADHD and autism, highlighting the importance of explicit communication. The conversation delves into redefining intimacy and managing boundaries, revealing how tailored approaches can enhance connections. They also explore sensory adjustments to accommodate individual needs, all while celebrating neurodivergence as a unique strength in relationships.
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Relational Connection As A Second Language
- Neurodivergent people often miss nuance and need explicit, direct communication to understand feelings.
- Treating relational connection as a second language clarifies why explicitness matters in intimacy.
‘Penis Is Offline’ Misunderstanding
- Eli (37, autistic) told Marcus his "penis was offline," which Marcus personalized as rejection.
- That misunderstanding prompted them to seek therapy when assumptions and flooding increased resentment.
Ask Exactly What’s 'Online'
- Ask direct questions like "what parts of your body are online?" to avoid misinterpretation.
- Use explicit language so partners know boundaries and available avenues for intimacy.