

Decisions, Decisions
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
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May 14, 2025 • 21min
You've Got Decisions: I Want to Stay, But He Doesn't Please Me!
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 12, 2025 • 1h 4min
EP 420: Finding Love....Again! (Ft. Tank)
This week the ladies are joined by R&B legend, Tank! Fresh off his Broadway Debut in Hell’s Kitchen, Tank gives the ladies an insight behind the prep for his role and how he felt finally hitting the Broadway stage. After the showtime talk, the ladies get into Tank’s take on new R&B , how Tank feels about the next generation, what is the “NEW” R&B era, the perfect baby making music, and his Mount Rushmore of Rnb ALL TIME. After Mandii’s icebreaker, we get to read an excerpt from the upcoming book “No Holes Barred”, and Tank lets us in on how he became so open to conversations on controversial topics. Tank then gets into finding love again after going through a break-up while co-parenting, plus much more! Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 7, 2025 • 20min
You've Got Decisions: Reverse Stealthing?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

May 5, 2025 • 1h 3min
EP 419: Dating Woes For High Achieving Women (Ft. Alison Wellington)
In this powerful episode, certified dating and relationship coach Allison Wellington joins Mandy and Weezy to break down the realities of modern dating for high-achieving women.From income gaps to non-monogamy, political dealbreakers to long-distance ultimatums—no topic is off-limits. Whether you’re swiping through apps or managing a million-dollar business, this episode Alison delivers strong advice and hard truths for navigating love, relationships, and self-worth. Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 30, 2025 • 19min
You've Got Decisions: I Feel Guilty For Ending My TOXIC Relationship
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 28, 2025 • 1h
Ep. 418: Once a Cheater Always a Cheater (Ft. Tone Bell)
This week the ladies are joined by one of the stars of Netflix’s “Survival of the Thickest”, Tone Bell! After starting the episode with the classic “Ice Breaker” we get into intimacy on set, working with a coordinator, and how different directors handle “steamy” scenes”. Are you too friendly? Weezy and Mandii breakdown different instances where their friendliness was taken as “flirting”, while Tone gives his plea of why charm can cause confusion. For the reactionary of this week, we are getting into “cheating” with how many times is too many times, and why women choose to stay after being betrayed. Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 23, 2025 • 18min
You've Got Decisions: Career Choices: Do I Move Back in with My Mom?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 21, 2025 • 54min
EP 417: Putting A Limit On ‘Quality Time’ & Insecurities Vs. Boundaries
This week Mandii & Weezy are SOLO! First the ladies deep dive into the limits of quality time with their own partner with Mandii limiting a vacation to only 4 days with a significant other or friend. After that Wolf joins the conversation by giving an insight of how a man feels when their girlfriend has a male “best friend” ,why another woman shouldn’t be cooking for a man who is in a relationship, and why the male/female dynamic in a friendship could be finicky. Then Mandii & Weezy give the breakdown on how to tell your significant other if you were in the same room with a past fling. Last but not least, the ladies go over the true difference of boundaries vs insecurities. Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 16, 2025 • 18min
You've Got Decisions: Am I A Bad Friend?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 14, 2025 • 1h 9min
Ep. 416: The Ups And Downs Of A 20 Year Marriage (Ft. DJ Envy & Gia Casey)
This week the ladies are joined by DJ Envy and his wife Gia Casey to discuss their new book, “Real Life, Real Family: A Guide To Raising Empowered Children”. After starting off with Envy’s Cybertruck problems, Casey gets into the difference of being a wife and being a mom, abstaining from intercourse, why pregnancy “cookie” is the best, and what is one chapter from their book that they wished they never shared. After our hypothetical of the week, the ladies along with Casey & Envy get into the viral “never made my wife” orgasm moment, and how the media got it ALL WRONG. Following the betrayal of letting one of their youngest know that the Easter bunny isn’t real, Envy & Casey discuss the potential benefits of nepotism, what they keep away from their kids, how money is a bonus to happiness, how they saved themselves from a divorce, and much more. Make sure to grab their book, available this week: Link Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.