

Decisions, Decisions
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Episodes
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Nov 24, 2025 • 1h 5min
EP 448: Bump Bump Bump (feat. Ryan Mitchell)
This week the ladies are joined by Ryan Mitchell of HighKey! The trio dives into the need formore queer identity represented in media and whether gay men actually watch football. Fromthere, the ladies jump into Truth & Dare, being anti-ponchos and brunch boots, true-crime dateenergy, and diving nose deep into “Bump Bump Bump”. They also unpack circling back afterghosting, navigating religious fears, and the honest moments where we listen and we judge.Ryan breaks down the landscape of gay-dating apps, first-time hookups, cleaning toys, andeven gets into Mandii & Weezy’s bi-racial cards.Finally, they close out with a heartfelt turntoward gratitude in love and sex. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 19, 2025 • 37min
You've Got Decisions: Dating While Broke
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 17, 2025 • 1h 18min
EP 447: Finding Love & Sharing Results (ft.Danielle Campbell & Raheem DeVaughn)
This week, Mandii & Weezy sit down with Danielle Campbell and Raheem DeVaughn for an open, judgment-free conversation on HIV prevention, testing, and how to make sexual health talks feel a lot less awkward. Danielle joins the ladies to break down the importance of PrEP, how to ask a partner for their test results without killing the vibe, why Planned Parenthood asks so many questions, and the real framework people need to feel comfortable getting tested. The crew gets into the nerves that come after you get tested, the correct way to screen for different STDs (including the ones hiding in your mouth), the reality of HPV turning into genital warts, plus a fun detour into the Top Ten Best Cities for Black Singles. Then Raheem DeVaughn taps in to talk about being an advocate for PrEP, the conversations men often avoid around protection, and what it was like having his PCP bring up PrEP for the first time. There’s a moment about Weezy being nervous while getting tested, an ice breaker that gets interesting fast, and a spicy round of Smash or Pass that leads into a real talk on the homophobia still associated with PrEP. The group dives into how often people actually avoid condoms and how to bring up PrEP to male friends, sons, or potential partners. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 12, 2025 • 20min
You've Got Decisions: Is Our RacePlay Going TOO Far?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 10, 2025 • 58min
EP 446: The Box Theory (ft. Jodie K. Taylor)
This week on Decisions, Decisions, Mandii B and Weezy sit down with the magnetic Jodie K. Taylor for an insightful, funny, and brutally honest conversation about dating, confidence, and knowing your worth. The ladies dive into everything from red carpet elegance and finance bro fantasies to how women are navigating modern expectations in love, money, and identity. Jodie breaks down “The Box Theory,” exploring how people categorize potential partners — and how to get out of the box someone’s put you in. The trio also get into dating 10/10s, why softness can be hard to hold onto, and how self-awareness and honesty shape better relationships. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 5, 2025 • 35min
You've Got Decisions: Help! I'm Failing as a Bull!
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Nov 3, 2025 • 1h 3min
EP 445: Let Me Get In Your Unruly Womb (ft. Shelah Marie)
This week the ladies sit down with author and Curvy Curly Conscious movement leader Shelah Marie for a conversation packed with transparency, accountability, and a whole lot of softness. Shelah opens up about her new book “UnRuly,” the importance of emotional safety in relationships, and how healing isn’t always gentle but it is necessary. They get into navigating public perception in marriage, when “pick me” energy is intentional, and why Black women deserve tenderness without having to earn it.Getting into why her and her husband Ace Hood look like a Hedo Couple.The controversy again of Ayesha Curry and her relationship with Steph and being desired. Plus, the crew dives into boundaries, shooting your shot as a couple, and why showing your body doesn’t mean you don’t value your mind. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 29, 2025 • 31min
You've Got Decisions: Is My Boyfriend Gay?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 27, 2025 • 1h 8min
Ep. 444: Bringing Your Sub Outside Of The Bedroom (Ft. Kasha & Christopher)
This week on Decisions & Decisions, Mandii and Weezy sit down with Kasha and Christopher for a deep dive into ethical non-monogamy, power dynamics, and what it really means to share control. From using submission for structure and rewards, to role-play stories (yes, including a wild nurse fantasy 👀), this episode blends humor, honesty, and insight into how trust and communication shape their unique relationship. OUT NOW “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Oct 22, 2025 • 25min
You've Got Decisions: This White Guy Kept Me On Read?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.


