

Decisions, Decisions
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Welcome to "Decisions, Decisions," the podcast where boundaries are pushed, and conversations get candid! Join your favorite hosts, Mandii B and WeezyWTF, as they dive deep into the world of non-traditional relationships and explore the often-taboo topics surrounding dating, sex, and love.
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
Every Monday, Mandii and Weezy invite you to unlearn the outdated narratives dictated by traditional patriarchal norms. With a blend of humor, vulnerability, and authenticity, they share their personal journeys navigating their 30s, tackling the complexities of modern relationships, and engaging in thought-provoking discussions that challenge societal expectations.
From groundbreaking interviews with diverse guests to relatable stories that resonate with your experiences, "Decisions, Decisions" is your go-to source for open dialogue about what it truly means to love and connect in today's world. Get ready to reshape your understanding of relationships and embrace the freedom of authentic connections—tune in and join the conversation!
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Apr 9, 2025 • 19min
You've Got Decisions: How Do I Prove I Didn't Outgrow Him?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 7, 2025 • 49min
Ep. 415: Meeting Black Men Who Don’t Date Black Women (Ft. Lex P)
This week we got the one and only Lex P from Pour Minds on the show to discuss her new (and old) relationships, and her brand new show: “Love, Lex P”! The ladies get into the world of content creators turning into comedians, figuring out how to handle your date forgetting his wallet, and going on a date with a man who’s never dated a black woman. Then for the reactionary of the week the ladies breakdown Omarion’s comments on Kofi Siriboe’s views of Non-Monogamy. Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Apr 2, 2025 • 17min
You've Got Decisions: I'm Desperate and She Won't Sleep With Me!!!!
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 31, 2025 • 57min
Ep. 414: If He Wanted To, He WOULD
This week the ladies are going SOLO starting off with a catch-up where we hear about how Mandii’s man did THAT and sent her some lovely flowers, got an EMAIL from her ex out of the BLUE, & how she watches movies with her boo from home. Weezy talks about having a partner who “gets you” and someone who knows how to balance your strengths and weaknesses. After that the ladies break down an excerpt of their up and coming manifesto: “No Holes Barred” and get into men who don’t go into long-term relationships that go out a lot. The hypothetical of the week is THIS or THAT, so get ready. For the reactionary we got you choosing between your baby and your baby’s daddy, then we get into the history of giving & getting oral if you have a pecker, plus MUCH MORE! Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 26, 2025 • 24min
You've Got Decisions: Am I a Cheater?
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 24, 2025 • 1h 6min
EP 413: Going Through A Glow-Up, An IVF Nightmare, & The History of Brothels
Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Link This week the ladies are going SOLO, breaking down a “letter” that a man sent his girlfriend about what is his “ideal” partner. After Mandii talks about her man her man her man, the ladies get into “time wasters” and how some people only get into relationships to kill time. Grabbing some notes from their “New York” chapter of their upcoming book, “No Holes Barred”, the ladies go into the meaning of a “glow-up” and if they feel like isolation is necessary to achieve it. Looking into getting an IVF? Listen to this HORROR story where a woman receives the wrong donor. Last but not least, the ladies get into the history of brothels, and much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 19, 2025 • 30min
You've Got Decisions: Mandii B on No Holes Barred (Ft. Tempest X)
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisions Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!Order Here Don't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 17, 2025 • 1h 7min
EP 412: No Holes Barred (Ft. Tempest-X)
Help us become a New York Time's Best Seller & make sure you pre-order your copy of Mandii & Weezy’s upcoming debut book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299 This week Mandii & Weezy are joined by Tempest-X, author & co-writer of the ladies’ upcoming book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power.” Starting off the episode we get to learn more about Tempest-X, how much the book has changed since the start of writing, the art direction of the cover of the book, and how Tempest played “therapist” through the writing and editing. After reminiscing Mandii’s “backdoor” story, the ladies get into dealing with the insecurities during writing, how the book’s chapters are broken down, and what the toughest chapters to write were. While breaking down the chapters, the ladies get into their favorite chapters, the awakening while writing this book, a secret Weezy’s been hiding from us that’s revealed in the book, and much more! Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 12, 2025 • 23min
You've Got Decisions: WeezyWTF On No Holes Barred (Ft. Tempest X)
Send us your questions Decisionspod@gmail.com Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Mar 10, 2025 • 1h 10min
Ep. 411: Reproductive Justice, & Women's History Month (Ft. Monica Simpson & Kendrick Sampson)
Help us get a New York Time's Best Seller! Pre-order Mandii & Weezy’s first upcoming book: “No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto Of Sexual Exploration And Power” w/ Tempest X!https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-Holes-Barred/Mandii-B/9781668061299 This week the ladies are joined by two fantastic guests who are striving in building a powerful conversation on the intersection of Black Culture and Reproductive Justice. We’re excited to have Monica Simpson, Time 100 influencer, reproductive justice leader, and NYT opinion author. Along with Monica is Kendrick Sampson, who is often known for his role in HBO’s Insecure, but is also known as an activist & the founder/President of BLD PWR, a non-profit org that focuses on engaging pop culture, education, and activism to build a community of storytellers and activists committed to advancing radical social change. The ladies get into navigating abortion and women’s rights through entertainment, baby showers by men, a world where men could birth babies, Mississippi’s new law on unprotected seggs, semen retention, the human right not to have children, and much more! If you wanna see your favorite ladies LIVE this year, check them out as the HOSTS of the 3rd Annual Black Effect Podcast Festival! Come see Mandii & Weezy bring out Black Effect’s favorite podcasts at the Pullman Yards in Atlanta, GA on April 26th! https://blackeffect.com/podcastfestival/ Follow the hosts on social media Weezy @Weezywtf & Mandii B @Fullcourtpumps and follow the Decisions Decisions pagesInstagram @_decisionsdecisionsDon't forget to tag #decisionsdecisions or @ us to let us know what you think of this week's episode!Want more? Bonus episodes, merch and more Whoreible Decisions!! Become a Patron at Patreon.com/whoreibledecisionsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.