The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD

Alexandra Stockwell, MD

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Nov 2, 2022 • 25min

98. How Masculine-Feminine Polarity Teachings Undermine Intimacy

Implementing masculine and feminine polarity teachings prohibits the cultivation of uncompromising intimacy, because they place you in a particular role that inhibits the expression who you really are. This is an outdated view on relationships and ultimately undermines the idea that the tension between “masculine” and “feminine” ways of being creates erotic chemistry in a relationship. This usually is understood to mean that having a man embody masculine energy and a woman embody feminine energy (in a heteronormative relationship) will result in a wonderful marriage.  It’s far more important to focus on your own authenticity and self-expression, rather than taking on a particular gender role.  In this episode, I discuss: How masculine and feminine roles have changed over the decades (including examples from my own relatives) Why I believe that masculine and feminine polarity teachings are extremely restrictive My client, Suzanne, who was hesitant to participate in coaching because she was so concerned about giving up who she is in order to fit into a “feminine” role (as she felt she would be losing herself in the process) When masculine and feminine polarity teachings ARE helpful in an intimate marriage Resources referenced in this episode: Uncompromising Intimacy podcast episode Going Beyond the 5 Love Languages podcast episode  Download the first chapter of my book, Uncompromising Intimacy Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.
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Oct 26, 2022 • 42min

97. Enhance Your Intimate Marriage Through Being Healthy And Losing Weight, With Jared & Joni McDonald

All aspects of our lives contribute to the health of our relationships, including physical health and well-being. The couple I’m speaking with today with Jared and Joni McDonald. Jared is a health coach I have worked with as a client and has made an enormous difference in my life. Jared and Joni are beautiful examples of a couple who focus on physical well-being in a way that enhances their connection and brings them closer together. In this episode, you’ll hear: The significant event in my life that triggered me to gain weight The happenstance story of how Jared and Joni met All about Jared and Joni’s health journeys and how a mold problem in their home triggered their lifestyle change How focusing on health and wellness enhances Jared and Joni’s marriage today How Jared and Joni balance the lack of time of being parents with their physical health routine Learn more at: The Metabolism Reboot  Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.
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Oct 19, 2022 • 21min

96. When Your Complaints Become Desires

Your complaints can become desires.  Oftentimes, however, when I talk to couples about challenges in their relationship, no matter the issue, there is one common theme: one of them wants the other to make a change. When the partner stays the same, they inevitably respond with resentment. This is the cycle that happens no matter what the issue is. Whether it’s about sex, parenting, work, or anything else, this is the pattern that plays out. In this episode, you’ll hear detailed examples of 3 real-life couples I’ve worked with: A couple who was fighting constantly A couple who had a non-existent sex life A couple where he was working too much and she felt he needed to be more present in their marriage If you’ve been looking for an accessible way to work on your marriage and see real results, my brand new Aligned & Hot Marriage LIVE program is for you! Click here for details: www.alexandrastockwell.com/LIVE Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | InstagramIf you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.  
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Oct 12, 2022 • 19min

95. A Surprising Way to Achieve Growth In your Marriage

More often than not, couples shy away from the idea of group coaching,  they think it will mean sharing intimate details in your marriage with strangers. If you’re feeling this way, you could be missing out on one of the most powerful ways to grow your relationship while thriving in an inspiring community and having a genuinely fun and productive time: compounded growth in your marriage In this episode, you’ll hear: The two most common times when we tend to share intimate details of our relationship with others Why it’s beneficial to have other couples present while you coach on your relationship (and oftentimes people’s favorite part of group coaching!) How group coaching can improve your marriage Details about my brand new Aligned & Hot Marriage LIVE program If you’ve been looking for an accessible way to work on your marriage and see real results, my brand new Aligned & Hot Marriage LIVE program is for you! Click here for details: www.alexandrastockwell.com/LIVE Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.
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Oct 5, 2022 • 30min

94. Libido Mismatch Is A Myth

Libido mismatch is a myth. That’s right. In my experience working with hundreds of people on relationships and intimacy, drawing the conclusion that one person has a low libido and the other person has a high libido is an oversimplification of a much larger (and much more solvable) issue.   Libido mismatch is an easy assumption to make because it is an accurate description of what seems to be happening at the moment. But, it is not an explanation and it is not the root cause of the issue at hand. In this episode, you’ll learn: The actual most common reasons why one person wants to have sex less often than the other Lifestyle changes you can make to start to boost your libido Ways in which you can transform the environment around you to increase your or your partner’s desire for sex Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.
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Sep 28, 2022 • 25min

93. Communication To Turn Up The Heat

Communicating about sex with your partner is essential to turn up the heat in your relationship. If you are you are newly dating or they have been married for forty years communication is key. Talking about sex will also create and maintain a long-lasting, happy marriage–one that includes nourishing, erotic, intimate sensuality. In this episode, you’ll hear: My own early sexual experience with an older man exemplified how I couldn’t communicate and didn’t know what I wanted in the bedroom Why talking about sex is so important to the quality of sex you have Clear tips on exactly how to get the conversation about sex going with your partner  When to avoid talking about sex Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare. Communication To Turn Up The Heat
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Sep 21, 2022 • 25min

92. Live Coaching: Married Man Wants To Flirt With His Wife

When thinking about flirting, it’s common to think of initial meetings, picking someone up in a public place, dating, or when getting to know a partner. But flirting is not something that should be restricted to the early stage of a relationship; it should be present through the decades of a long-lasting, intimate marriage! Logan reached out to me on Facebook seeking advice on how to flirt with his wife. He wanted to cultivate genuine connection, playfulness, and spontaneity in his marriage and didn’t know where to begin. This episode was recorded live and is a unique episode and a rare opportunity to hear Alexandra coach.   In this live coaching call, you’ll discover: Logan’s initial thoughts on what flirting means to him My specific, step-by-step advice for Logan to bring flirtation into his marriage Logan’s own recap of what he learns from our impactful coaching session   Subscribe To The Podcast:   Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show:   Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD   My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.   Live Coaching: Married Man Wants To Flirt With His Wife
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Sep 14, 2022 • 57min

91. Maintaining Individual Identity Within A Long-Term Relationship With Lee Cordell, DNP And Timothy “Lee” Cordell

One of the biggest struggles individuals face within a relationship is the experience of losing one’s own identity.  When a couple goes into business together it can become even more prominent, exacerbated by having very little separation from one another throughout the day. Enter Lee and Lee Cordell. This is a couple who have been together for 17 years, and not only do they share a life and career, they also share the same name. But that hasn’t stopped them one bit from maintaining their individual identities while keeping their relationship hot, deeply intimate and juicy.     In this episode, you’ll hear:   How Dr. Lee’s own trauma and anxiety shaped her career path What caused the shift in Lee’s career that made him be take on a roll in his wife’s company Specific ways Lee and Lee respect each other’s need for space without taking it personally The surprising story behind how Lee and Lee keep their sexual chemistry alive after so many years together    You’re about to meet a beautiful couple with a beautiful story who have also managed to build an incredible business that helps other individuals and couples thrive. I loved talking with them so much so this definitely won’t be my only conversation with the Lees!    Follow Lee and Lee: https://www.institutefortrauma.com/ https://www.instagram.com/becomingtraumainformed/   Subscribe To The Podcast:   Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show:   Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD   My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare.
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Sep 7, 2022 • 27min

90. The Antidote To Boredom In Long-Lasting Relationships

What’s the number one biggest concern that people have in the marriage? Boredom in long-lasting relationships. The fear of getting bored spending time with one another, feeling bored with the intimacy in the relationship, or just the overall fear that what was once juicy and dynamic will eventually become stale and flat.  It can feel inevitable and unavoidable. Fortunately, that’s simply not true. I share the #1 way to avoid boredom in your relationship!   In this episode, you’ll hear:   The ultimate cause of boredom and lack of intimacy in a relationship Ways to prevent boredom in a relationship  One of the most effective ways my husband and I keep our marriage feeling juicy and alive Specific tips for how to intentionally prioritize growth in your relationship   I know first-hand that boredom in a relationship is definitely avoidable. I know this from my own 26 year marriage, as well as from my many clients who have been married for decades who have learned how to maintain a delicious, juicy connection.   Subscribe To The Podcast:   Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify   Connect With The Show:   Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram   If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE   About Alexandra Stockwell, MD
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Aug 31, 2022 • 25min

89. From Patient Care to Stress-Free Coaching | with Dr. Robyn Tiger and Dr. Eric Tiger

All relationships undergo ups and downs and major changes, especially once you’ve been together for decades. Doctors Robyn Tiger and Eric Tiger are no strangers to that, having met early in their radiology careers when they quickly noticed how many parallels their lives had. But when the stress of practicing medicine began impacting her emotional and physical well-being, Robyn’s career took a turn… In this episode, you’ll hear: How Robyn transitioned from her medicine into stress-management coaching for physicians Shifts that Robyn has seen in herself and in her marriage since focusing on stress reduction and becoming a coach Shifts that Robyn sees in her husband, Eric, since he’s retired What Robyn and Eric have each learned about themselves as a result of being married to one another  Robyn’s advice for anyone that is currently trapped by stress  Yesterday was Robyn and Eric’s 30 year wedding anniversary! It’s such an exciting milestone for this beautiful couple so please join me in wishing them a happy anniversary. Follow Robyn and Eric: https://www.stressfreemd.net/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/robyntigermd/ https://www.instagram.com/stressfreemd/ https://www.facebook.com/robyntigermd Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare. From Patient Care to Stress-Free Coaching feat. Dr. Robyn Tiger with Dr. Eric Tiger

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