The Intimate Marriage Podcast, with Intimacy Coach Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Alexandra Stockwell, MD
Welcome to "The Intimate Marriage Podcast," the podcast where we explore the secrets to cultivating passionate and intimate relationships. I'm your host, Dr. Alexandra Stockwell, aka "The Intimacy Doctor," an experienced intimacy coach and marriage expert.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
In every committed marriage, intimacy and connection are the foundation for a fulfilling relationship. Join me as we delve into how small shifts and being uncompromising in your daily interactions can lead to profound and nourishing physical/emotional intimacy.
During each episode, we'll explore topics such as sexual intimacy, emotional awareness, and building an intimate connection that feels comfortable and authentic for you and your partner. I'll share practical advice and strategies to help you unlock the full potential of your relationship.
As "The Intimacy Doctor," I've helped countless couples transform their relationships and create a life filled with passion, purpose, and deep satisfaction. With over two decades of experience, I believe that true intimacy and success stem from being unapologetically yourself. Together, let's uncover the secrets to a juicy, nourishing, and intimate marriage.
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Download the first chapter of my bestselling book, “Uncompromising Intimacy,” here: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/book?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=book
If you're ready to take your intimacy skills to the next level, explore my Aligned & Hot Marriage program. It's designed specifically for couples who refuse to settle for anything less than extraordinary love and connection. Visit https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=ahm to learn more.
Join my email list to stay connected—it’s where I share my latest insights and offer opportunities for live Q & A: https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/subscribe?utm_source=libsyn&utm_medium=podcast&utm_campaign=subscribe
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WHAT DOES AN INTIMACY COACH DO?
An intimacy coach is a trained professional who specializes in helping individuals and couples cultivate deeper connections and enhance their intimate relationships. The role of an intimacy coach is to guide and support their clients in exploring various aspects of intimacy, including emotional, physical, and sexual intimacy.
Intimacy coaches create a safe and non-judgmental space for their clients to express their needs, desires, and concerns related to intimacy. An intimacy coach helps clients develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence, enabling them to better understand their own desires and those of their partner. They provide guidance on effective communication techniques, conflict resolution, and exploring new ways to deepen emotional and physical intimacy.
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Aug 24, 2022 • 18min
88. One Way Your Intimate Marriage Of Today Is Impacted By Your Relationships Of The Past
My husband and I had a solid, collaborative, and intimate marriage. Our foundation was strong and we could envision what it would be like to go from good to great, and were on our way there… However, suddenly, things started to feel strange to me. I experienced a disconnect in our marriage but couldn’t see a single reason why this was happening. The cause, however, had nothing to do with a present-day occurrence; it was something from my husband’s past that was creating the disconnect in our marriage. He didn’t want it to. He didn’t even know it was. Nevertheless, it was definitely happening. In this episode, you’ll hear: How I realized what was causing us to become disconnected What happened when I shared the theory with my husband Why challenging times with your spouse may have nothing to do with you A real client example of how past experiences can come up in your present … and much more! I’m hoping today’s episode opens your eyes to seeing challenging times with your spouse in a whole new light, and also poses the question to you: do you have feelings coming up that might belong to another time in your life? Subscribe To The Podcast: Apple Podcast | YouTube | Spotify Connect With The Show: Facebook | Facebook Group | Linkedin | Website | Twitter | Instagram If you're ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit: www.alexandrastockwell.com If you’re ready for your relationship to feel as good on the inside as it looks on the outside, read this. Get started with a complimentary free chapter from Alexandra’s acclaimed bestselling book Uncompromising Intimacy HERE Purchase A Full Copy of Uncompromising Intimacy HERE About Alexandra Stockwell, MD My mission is to change the cultural narrative around long-term relationships from one of ongoing stagnation and compromise to the delectable joy and deep gratification a couple feels while building passion and excitement on a daily basis. For over two decades, I have been guiding men and women to bring pleasure and purpose back into all aspects of life— from the daily grind of running a household to creating ecstatic experiences in the bedroom! I embarked on this journey not only for my patients but for myself and my own relationship. I wanted more for my life and my marriage than logistics, and discussions about childcare. One Way Your Intimate Marriage Of Today Is Impacted By Your Relationships Of The Past
Aug 17, 2022 • 45min
87. Navigating Difference: Age, Race & Money with Marie-Elizabeth Mali and Patrick Price
In intimate relationships, we must navigate our differences and often that happens through conflict. But imagine if we allowed these areas of tension to be a source of nourishment and expansion instead? What would become possible for both of you? In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I invite Marie-Elizabeth Mali and Patrick Price (former clients of mine and relationship experts themselves) for a discussion on how they have navigated their differences with elegance and intention, in the areas of race, age & money. Join us as they share their profound insights on focusing on “connection over content” to build their rich, intentional, and growth-based relationship. We discuss: Navigating the 3 major areas of difference in their relationship: age, money & race How dating outside their own race has impacted their partnership Code-switching - professionally v. in the relationship A mini-lesson from Patrick on attention in a relationship Transcending their age difference (and which one of them finds this more challenging) Marie-Elizabeth as the financial provider, upper limits & a pivotal moment for Patrick And a lot more… Connect with Marie-Elizabeth, Relationship Alchemist, here: Website: https://relationshipalchemy.com Facebook: https://facebook.com/relationshipalchemymem Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/relationshipalchemyfree Instagram: https://instagram.com/relationshipalchemymem LinkedIn: https://linkedin.com/in/relationshipalchemymem YouTube: https://youtube.com/user/MarieElizabethMali Free gift: Assessment for partnered people: https://lovealchemy.live/assess & Assessment for single people: https://lovealchemy.live/singles If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3HlIGhttps://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Aug 10, 2022 • 45min
86. Medicine & Marriage with Dr. Pranay Parikh
When I became an entrepreneur, integrating my entrepreneur self and my physician self was complicated. I knew how to be either one, but being both didn’t come naturally—I felt pulled in opposite directions. But I knew I had to figure out how to be both a physician and a coach. And how to be a wife and an entrepreneur. Bringing our whole multi-passionate selves to something is part of creating successful careers and satisfying relationships! In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I have a wonderful conversation with Dr. Pranay Parikh about bringing all parts of ourselves to a marriage (especially as multi-passionate people). We discuss the way his marriage developed alongside his career as a medical doctor and now, a real estate investor and entrepreneur. Multi-passionate and looking for ways to improve your relationship? This one’s for you! We discuss: Dr. Parikh’s unconventional journey to medicine Learning how to bring your whole self to your relationship Why Dr. Parikh is actually grateful for a rejection in his career How medicine has played a role in his marriage The dichotomy between safety & security, and freedom & autonomy (and how it could be affecting your relationship) And a lot more… Connect with Dr. Pranay Parikh: www.frommd.com www.ascentequitygroup.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3HlIGhttps://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebookhttps://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Aug 3, 2022 • 18min
85. Uncompromising Intimacy
In this episode, Alexandra goes deep into the details of what is meant by “uncompromising intimacy”. She defines compromise and describes the kind of relationship it creates: bland, neutral, comfortable companionship. In contrast, uncompromising intimacy leads to deep emotional connection, dynamic expansion, self-expression, and passion! Listen in for more details and what this actually looks like in practice. For more on the topic be sure to read Alexandra’s bestselling book called “Uncompromising Intimacy.” Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy”: https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Jul 27, 2022 • 43min
84. Intentionally Selfish with Naketa R. Thigpen
What if being selfish is one of the best ways to improve your relationship? In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I invite Balance & Relationship Advisor, Naketa Ren Thigpen, for a conversation about the best practices to build your relationship which are almost never discussed. Anywhere! Because we dive into what intentional selfishness (yes, it’s a thing!) is all about, why achieving balance in your marriage is essential, and the whys and wherefores of sexological bodywork. You don’t want to miss this one! We discuss: The concept of selfishness - and how to look at it differently so you can amplify the intimacy in your relationship! Why balance matters so much in your marriage Naketa’s work as a Balance & Relationship Advisor helping successful women build stronger families Naketa’s advice for high-achieving women who are feeling stuck or not fulfilled in their marriages An introduction to sexological bodywork - how it works & some real-life stories of working with clients And a lot more… Connect with Naketa here: Website: www.thigpro.com Twitter: http://www.twitter.com/asknaketa LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/in/naketathigpen Instagram: http://www.instagram.com/asknaketa Email: asknaketa@thigpro.com If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Jul 20, 2022 • 30min
83. The Relationship Phenomenon No One Talks About
After some years of bliss, your relationship is likely to encounter some tough times. Could be due to infertility, financial stress, infidelity, illness, or something else. Regardless of what caused the intense season with your partner, now that it’s over you expect everything to be back to a happy normal. But they aren’t - things just aren’t the same as they were. And you’re left wondering why. If your relationship is still suffering from events that are no longer happening - this episode of the Intimate Marriage Podcast is for you! I’m diving into this relationship phenomenon and giving you the practical steps to get out of this trap - and heal your relationship. In this episode I share: The relationship phenomenon that could be keeping you stuck in disconnection and unhappiness A deep dive into why relationships don’t always “bounce back” after a tough time The THREE steps you need so you can heal and evolve this relationship dynamic A special gift for my podcast listeners if you are looking to heal or improve your marriage! And a lot more… The Aligned and Hot Marriage program (use code OURTIME for a special podcast listener price!): https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/aligned-hot-marriage/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Jul 13, 2022 • 48min
82. Surrender, Collaboration, & Play with Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker
Do you desire the next level of deep connection and growth with your partner? I have 3 words for you: surrender, collaboration & play. In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, Marla Mattenson and Julian Colker aka “The Intimacy Experts”, join me to share some beautiful advice & wisdom about these three intimate relationship essentials, and so much more! These love, life & business partners share vulnerably about their beautiful union and what it has taken for them to build a business together, grow their intimacy, and express their playfulness in their relationship. We discuss: Their definition of intimacy (and what it takes to achieve it) How Marla made the transition from “mine” to “ours” in her business Julian’s journey with anger and his profound transformation How to explore more play in your relationship - and why you would want to! A look at “The Lover’s Play Course”, their DIY course to start having more fun in your relationship And a lot more… Connect with Marla and Julian here: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/theintimacyexperts/ Facebook: facebook.com/theintimacyexperts The Lovers Play Course: https://theintimacyexperts.org/play-with-intimacy/ The Intimacy Experts Home Site: https://theintimacyexperts.org If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Jul 6, 2022 • 16min
81. What is Intimacy?
Intimacy is a familiar concept, but the word is actually not that well understood. Even though we’re not always clear on what intimacy means in our relationships, we can definitely sense when it’s present - and when it’s not, right? In today’s episode of The Intimate Marriage Podcast, I’m diving into the 3 types of intimacy, so you can identify where to put your attention in order to cultivate deeper intimacy in your marriage and in your life - starting now! Because there is a foundation that needs to be built before you enjoy more intimacy in your relationship, and it starts with how you relate to you. I discuss: What intimacy really is - and some practical ways to build and cultivate more of it in your relationship The 3 types of intimacy and why these distinctions are important INTIMACY, my audio course for couples- and how it can help you bust the blocks preventing you from accessing more intimacy Where intimacy really begins (hint: it’s not with your partner!) And more! If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com INTIMACY www.alexandrastockwell.com/intimacy Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Jun 29, 2022 • 14min
80. How To Honor Yourself As You Care for Others
Are you making sure everyone else’s needs and wants are met, but forgetting your own? Feeling disconnected or even hollow inside? Maybe you’re struggling to just identify what exactly you want. If you feel a big yes or a small yes to these questions, I assure you that you are not alone. I also assure you that I can help you reconnect with yourself and your vibrancy. Join me today for a story about my client Michelle. I’ll take you back to when we first met, how she felt in her life and in her marriage, what she was struggling with and what she was striving for. I will also tell you how she changed all of that in the most delicious ways. Like many women, Michelle was great at taking care of her family, knowing the intimate details of what they liked and what made them happy, while not knowing what she herself wanted–until everything changed! (And it wasn’t that hard to shift.) Michelle’s story can inspire us all. Listen in for how it inspired me to create something for YOU. In this episode I share: My course DESIRES: Awaken the WOMAN Within and the questions it will help you answer about yourself The simple, intentional practice that allowed Michelle to honor her own experience and begin her journey of accessing what she desires (this can help you too!) Where Michelle is now: how she’s experiencing MORE CONNECTION AND MORE PLEASURE now that she knows what she wants Plus a lot more… Ready to explore your own desires? Enroll in Desires: Awaken the WOMAN Within at www.alexandrastockwell.com/desires If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
Jun 22, 2022 • 52min
79. A Truly Collaborative Marriage with Derick and Dr. Liz Aguirre
If you’ve been around here for any length of time, you’ve probably heard this from me before - Relationships are the ultimate vehicle for personal growth (it’s so true)! In today’s episode, I invite a couple on the show who exemplifies this concept in a big way. Derick and Dr. Liz Aquirre have been married for 12 years and have built an intentional, pleasure-filled & collaborative marriage that has transformed each of their lives immensely. Join us as we discuss how they have both grown inside of their relationship, as a result of the other’s influence, their passion for growing together as a couple, and the ultimate gift of participating in a truly collaborative marriage. We discuss: Liz and Derick’s collaborative marriage & the impact they’ve had on each other’s transformational journey during their 12 years of marriage Motivation by inspiration v. motivation by desperation Some powerful insights on communicating through frustration (we talk about what to focus on instead!) Derick’s advice to help men really embrace the role of father and husband The BIGGEST lessons they’ve learned about themselves as a result of their marriage And a lot more… Connect with Dr. Liz here: www.LizAguirreMD.com https://www.facebook.com/LizAguirreMD/ https://www.instagram.com/lizaguirremd/ If you’re ready to create the deliciousness and joy of a growth-oriented, passionate relationship, visit www.alexandrastockwell.com Contact Alexandra https://www.alexandrastockwell.com/contact/ Read Alexandra’s book “Uncompromising Intimacy” https://amzn.to/2ymI3Hl IG https://www.instagram.com/alexandra.stockwell.intimacy/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/alexandrastockwellcoach Join THE INTIMATE MARRIAGE Facebook group https://www.facebook.com/groups/hotmarriage LinkedIn https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrastockwell/
