Did you know the rational side of a human brain is not fully developed until around age 25? No wonder why we regret so many decisions made by our younger selves! This week, we share some not-so-proud moments of young Ro & Viv - from drinking and raving at a very early age to trash talking friends behind their backs. The build up of poor decisions over the years resulted in an era of overcompensating our “bad” by becoming borderline obsessed with being “good” (aka: addiction to self-improvement until burnout. SOS). We’ve learned that the only way to forgive our past is to accept all parts of the story. Tune in to find out what has helped us over the years ;)  If there’s anything you’ve been pondering, specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, or if you just want to say hello (!!), send us a DM @voicehugspodcast or email us hello@voicehugspodcast.com! --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

After a one-week hiatus, Rowena (@rowenatsai) and Vivian (@vivianxvan) are back with an even more intense recording schedule (Viv woke up at 4:30 a.m. for this episode 🙃). Keeping it lighthearted this week, we answer a handful of fun get-to-know-you questions sent in from our listeners (see time stamps below). We also dropped our headphones like 10 times during this pod sorry! lol Let us know what you think about these lighter episodes and if you have more questions, send them our way to hello@voicehugspodcast.com or DM us @voicehugspodcast  Listener Q&A:  Do you shower in the mornings or evenings (3:44)  Would you rather live by the beach or in the mountains (7:23)  Would you rather always be 10 minutes late or 20 minutes early (11:39)  What is your favorite thing to do together (14:28)  Is there something you really want to learn, if so what (17:40)  Have you gone to therapy (21:14)  Would you rather have a pause button or a rewind button (25:34)  Do you prefer meeting with friends on weekday evenings or on the weekend (27:55)  Meditation after waking up or before going to bed (30:36) Describe the other person as a candle scent (32:53)  What is your biggest pet peeve (36:33)  Who is your goal special guest for the podcast (39:31)  What is something you wish you did before turning 30 (42:45) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

Breakups aren’t just for romance. Oftentimes, the breakups that hurt the most are those with your friends. This week, Vivian (@vivianxvan) and Rowena (@rowenatsai) chat about heartache from friendship fallouts, and how to get closure when you’re no longer on speaking terms. Through our stories, we explore why some friendships last while others fall apart, and how different life stages impact these experiences. If there’s anything you’ve been pondering or specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, send us a DM @voicehugspodast or an email to hello@voicehugspodcast.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

Swiping left and right on dating apps is thrilling, and sometimes feels like fun and games. But after getting ghosted for the 50th time, you might start to question... is it me? Am I the problem?? This week, Rowena (@rowenatsai) and Vivian (@vivianxvan) chat about finding love on dating apps, taking rejection personally, and overcoming the fear of putting yourself out there through deepening the most important relationship: the one with yourself.  If there’s anything you’ve been pondering or specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, send us a DM @voicehugspodcast or an email to hello@voicehugspodcast.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

So you've been hanging out for a while now and basically act like you're a couple, but they tell you they're "not ready" to commit or define the relationship status... sound familiar anyone? This anxiety inducing non-committal dynamic is no foreign concept to many of us, Rowena (@rowenatsai) and Vivian (@vivianxvan) included. This week, we share about the ups and downs of past non-committal relationships, how we justify that we're "okay" with the situation and convince ourselves that it's actually a good thing (!), and when it is finally time to say goodbye. Stay tuned for a read from Rowena's 2012 journal and a plot twist in Vivian's relationship story. If there’s anything you’ve been pondering or specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, send us a DM @voicehugspodast or an email to hello@voicehugspodcast.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

Whether you’re an anxious type like Viv (@vivianxvan), or tend to lean more avoidant like Ro (@rowenatsai), there are many challenges that both of us went through because of our attachment styles. In this week's episode, we chat about attachment theory and share stories on our struggles (from sweaty palms and panic attacks to a six-year single streak lol) and how we’ve learned to move towards to becoming more secure in ourselves and our relationships. We also touch on the topic of ‘toxic independence’ (is marriage a trap? is being self-reliant = strong woman? how much independence is a good thing?) to close out the episode. Thank you Anna for submitting this week’s question! If there’s anything you’ve been pondering or specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, send us a DM @voicehugspodast or an email to hello@voicehugspodcast.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

Have you ever questioned your existence after social outings or interactions? That’s vulnerability hangover for ya friends. Something Viv (@vivianxvan) and Ro (@rowenatsai) are fortunately or unfortunately very well acquainted with 😬 In this week’s episode, there’s story time galore ft. Vulnerability Hangover in the form of swearing off eating shrimp chips forever, drunken competitiveness, cringe text messages sent to a DJ crush 👀, and saying ‘I love you’ first. Thank you A. for submitting this week’s question! If there’s anything you’ve been pondering or specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, send us a DM @voicehugspodcast or email hello@voicehugspodcast.com --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

From never truly understanding our life’s impact on others to experiencing immense gratitude to the point of feeling reborn, catch up with Viv (@vivianxvan) and Ro (@rowenatsai) as they catch up with each other. With LNY upon us, we reminisce on childhood mems and our childlike wonder, share what we’ve been reading, and ponder what it means to live a meaningful life. Yes, if you’re wondering, this is indeed a very casual and normal convo between the two of us. 🙃 Say hello :) email us at hello@voicehugspodcast.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/voicehugspodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

How do you get over your first love? Should you live together before marriage? Do you think guys or girls should make the first move? In this week’s episode, Viv (@vivianxvan) and Ro (@rowenatsai) picked out 13 relationship questions submitted by you lovely humans and share some candid advice on looooove! Thank you for sending in all the submissions - twas a really fun episode to record. :)  Are there questions we missed, or specific relationship troubles you’d like advice on? Drop us an email hello@voicehugspodcast.com or DM our IG @voicehugspodcast  Questions:  Do you think guys or girls should make the first move?  What advice do you have for long-distance relationships?  Getting over your first love, ex fiance and soulmate? Do you think people can change when they love someone?  Do you think a partner can change while in a relationship?  What’s the best relationship advice that someone has ever given you?  I've caught feelings for a close friend now what? Make a move and risk not having that person in my life at all?  Is it ever too late to say “I love you”?  Is anyone ever too good or not good enough for someone else?  Is your “first love” overrated?  2021/Instagram trend of “soft-launching” a partner (basically posting IG stories without showing their face)  Do you think it’s necessary for a couple to have the same love languages?  Thoughts on living together before getting married?  When do you know that a relationship is over? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support

With the rise of social media within the past decade, how often would you say you compare yourself to someone else’s “perfect” life? In this week’s episode, Viv (@vivianxvan) and Ro (@rowenatsai) get real about social media and its impact on their personal, and our collective, mental health. From how to be more mindful about the content we consume to self-censoring in fear of saying the “wrong” thing, let’s explore the dopamine-driven, pixelated world of likes, shares, and follows. Send us an email at hello@voicehugspodcast.com IG: https://www.instagram.com/voicehugspodcast/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/voicehugs/support