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#10 - He's "not ready" to commit, what do I do?

Feb 23, 2022

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The Relationship Is Not About You, but About You

01:56

You Accept the Love That You Think You Deserve

01:37

The Cycle That Just Keeps Repeating

01:41

Introduction

2min

I Hate Small Talk

1min

What to Do for Valentine's Day?

2min

Relationships - The Question to Day

2min

I Feel Like You're Not Ready, Something Like That

2min

The Relationship Is Not About You, but About You

2min

What Are You Afraid Of?

2min

The Cycle That Just Keeps Repeating

2min

You Accept the Love That You Think You Deserve

2min

10.

What Do I Want in an Ideal Relationship?

3min

11.

The Relationships That Really Help You Love Yourself More

3min

12.

I'm Going to Say Goodbye

4min

13.

You Can't Help Someone Change

3min

14.

Relationships Are Hard, Man, They Are

3min

15.

Being Kind to Yourself When Going Through This Phase

3min

16.

Is There Risk in Continuing a Relationship?

2min

So you've been hanging out for a while now and basically act like you're a couple, but they tell you they're "not ready" to commit or define the relationship status... sound familiar anyone? This anxiety inducing non-committal dynamic is no foreign concept to many of us, Rowena (@rowenatsai) and Vivian (@vivianxvan) included. This week, we share about the ups and downs of past non-committal relationships, how we justify that we're "okay" with the situation and convince ourselves that it's actually a good thing (!), and when it is finally time to say goodbye. Stay tuned for a read from Rowena's 2012 journal and a plot twist in Vivian's relationship story.

If there’s anything you’ve been pondering or specific scenarios you’d love us to chat about, send us a DM @voicehugspodast or an email to hello@voicehugspodcast.com