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Aug 11, 2024 • 46min
041: How To Love Others Properly - Osho
Lesson from 'Love, Freedom, Aloneness' by Osho.
Osho (1931 -1990) was a spiritual teacher and mystic. He was known for his unconventional and provocative teachings that challenged traditional spirituality and societal norms.
Osho emphasized freedom, self-love, awareness, and solitude.
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Shownotes
00:00 - Introduction
01:00 - Excerpt from ‘Love, Freedom, Aloneness’ by Osho
03:30 - Who is Osho and what is his main message?
07:45 - What is love?
09:21: - Love and Truth are one; you can’t love God and hate man
12:50 - Love yourself first before loving others
14:35 - Osho’s thinks ‘love yourself’ is superior to ‘know thyself’
22:00 - Love vs. Lust
26:04 - How can I know love?
33:45 - Love is not an emotion but a verb
38:00 - Ladder of freedom and building your inner castle
43:10 - When you understand love, your life is meditation
44:05 - Challenges

Aug 4, 2024 • 51min
040: How To Live In The Now - Eckhart Tolle
Explore Eckhart Tolle's teachings on the profound power of living in the present. Discover the transformational journey to inner peace through self-awareness and acceptance. Learn how the concept of 'flow' intertwines with embracing the now for true fulfillment. Understand the distinction between intellectual knowledge and genuine spiritual experiences. Finally, dive into the importance of stillness and how it can lead to profound breakthroughs, illustrating that happiness doesn’t reside in the future, but within our current reality.

Jul 28, 2024 • 57min
039: Why Your Suffering Is Not A Curse - Kahlil Gibran
Lessons from The Prophet by Kahlil Gibran.
The Prophet is a collection of 26 prose poetry fables that deal with love, children, friendship, freedom, charity, time and death. The Prophet is one of the most translated books.
Kahlil Gibran was a Lebanese-American writer, poet, and artist. He was born in 1883 in Bsharri, a village in northern Lebanon. He wrote in both Arabic and English, and his works reflect his influences from various spiritual and philosophical traditions. He is best known for his book The Prophet.
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Shownotes:
00:00 - On Identity and Pain
05:13 - Excerpt from "The Prophet"
07:48 - Gibran’s influence on culture
11:57 - The Prophet’s synopsis
12:53 - Unify your reason and passion
15:09 - How to prepare for death
16:43 - How to love deeply
20:43 - How to treat your children
24:13 - How to give with joy
31:08 - Embrace both suffering & joy fully
35:13 - How to work
40:53 - Giving thanks for your food
45:53 - How to seek knowledge within yourself
46:13 - Find solitude always
51:13 - The path is made by walking

Jul 21, 2024 • 1h 17min
038: How To Stop Being Lonely - Tara Henley & Sebastian Junger
Lessons from 'Lean Out: A Meditation on the Madness of Modern Life' by Tara Henely, and 'Tribe: On Homecoming' by Sebastian Junger
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Jul 14, 2024 • 54min
037: How to Find Eternal Beauty - Plato
Lessons from ‘Symposium’ by Plato
Plato was an ancient Greek philosopher, a student of Socrates, and a teacher of Aristotle. His works laid the foundational stones of Western philosophy and science
The "Symposium" is one of Plato's most famous dialogues, set during a banquet attended by a group of notable Athenian men. The dialogue is a series of speeches the participants give, each extolling the nature and virtues of Eros (Love).
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00:00 - Introduction
01:45 - Excerpt from ‘Symposium’ by Plato
05:44 - What’s happening in the Symposium
06:50 - Are you not whole until you find your other half?
10:10 - Why Socrates thinks everyone is wrong about love
11:15 - Phaedrus’s notion of self-sacrificial love
13:10 - Different types of love
15:20 - Socrates correcting Agathon on Eros
21:10 - Love is of something that you’re desire
25:18 - Love in on continuum ferrying between the immortal and mortal realm
28:50 - How Diotima initiates Socrates through the ladder of love
42:10 - The Beautiful and Tao
44:00 - The Beautiful makes life meaningful, become a philosopher
47: 15 - Humans seek immortality, true immortality is found in birthing virtues
50:48 - Challenges

Jul 7, 2024 • 42min
036: How To Find Meaning In Your Life - Lao Tzu
Lessons from ‘Tao Te Ching of Lao Tzu’ by Lao Tzu.
Listen to episode 18 for more context on 'Tao Te Ching'
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00:00 - Introduction
03:08 - Excerpt from ‘Tao Te Ching’ of Lao Tzu
04:00 - Seek Tao in your life and you’ll find rest
09:00 - What is the meaning of your life?
14:50 - Tao is the Eternal Spring and Source
19:35 - Live in Harmony and generously
23:10 - Stay vigilant
25:35 - The importance of rest, know what is enough
28:22 - Be free of desires
31:45 - The overlapping of Taoism and Atman/Brahman
34:50 - Tao is found wherever you are
37:10 - Challenges

Jun 30, 2024 • 1h 1min
035: How To Annihilate Your Ego-Self Through Sufi Teaching - Nevit O. Ergin
Lessons from ‘The Sufi Path of Annihilation: In the Tradition of Mevlana Jalaluddin Rumi & Hasan Lutfi Shushud’ by Nevit O. Ergin
Ergin is the translator of the complete Divan-i Kebir of Rumi’s opus. He is a Turkish-born surgeon. He was initiated into Itlak Sufism under Sufi master Hasan Lutfi Shushud.
‘The Sufi Path of Annihilation’ examines three main parts of the Sufi path of annihilation through zikr, fasting, and mental suffering.
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00:00 - Introduction
00:00 - Excerpt from ‘The Sufi Path of Annihilation’
09:10 - What is Itlak Sufism, and what is the true and greatest Jihad?
13:40 - Non-dualism is the true state of being, but don’t become a bird without wings
18:33 - The path of annihilation is the essence of all religion
22:22 - The three that leads to annihilation: breath work, fasting, suffering
26:30 - Why anyone can become a Saint
29:25 - The intellectual and experiencer
32:25 - Going to Nothingness and Absence
37:40 - Attaining and experiencing non-dualism, why you shouldn’t belong to religions
43:55 - Is annihilation only for monks?
46:00 - Suffering, death, and remaining unattached to this world
52:30 - The three stages of annihilation
56:00 - Love is the only way towards Absence and immortality

Jun 23, 2024 • 53min
034: How To Combat Meaninglessness Through Peak Experiences - Abraham Maslow
Lessons from “Religions, Values, and Peak-Experiences” by Abraham Maslow. Maslow is the American psychologist who developed Maslow’s hierarchy of needs and proposed a theory of psychological well-being based on satisfying fundamental human needs in a specific order, ultimately leading to self-actualization.
The article referenced in the episode: 'Beyond Modern Nihilism: The Revival of Symbollism and Beauty in Art' - https://ijmakan.substack.com/p/beyond-modern-nihilism-the-revival?r=763v5
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00:00 - Excerpt from “Religions, Values, and Peak-Experiences” by Abraham Maslow
05:50 - Why Maslow thinks we should study peak-experiences
08:10 - What is Peak-experiences? Why Logical Positivism is wrong
14:25 - Mystical experience == peak experiences, the state of B-Cognition
20:50 - Finding meaning, curing nihilism
22:17 - The importance of artists and Humanist scholars for inspiring people to do great things
25:40 - If you’re too materialistic or over religious persons, you can’t have peak-experiences
33:19 - The greatest threat is our valuelessness nihilistic society
35:08 - If there is no beauty, what is there to admire? This creates a bleak society
38:00 - To cross the barrier of science and religion we need good education. Good education addresses the questions of life, meaning, goodness, beauty, ethics, and peak-experiences
44:25 - Aspects of peak-experiences, and attaining new knowledge through it
50:40 - Challenge
52:12 - Announcement

Jun 16, 2024 • 57min
033: How To Conquer Existential Despair - Søren Kierkegaard
Lessons from ‘Sickness Unto Death’ by Søren Kierkegaard.
Søren Kierkegaard (May 5, 1813 - Nov 11, 1855) is the father of existentialism. His work laid the groundwork for later existentialist thinkers. In 'Sickness Unto Death', he argues that your despair arises from your misrelation between the finite and the infinite aspects of ourselves. Despair is not simply an emotion but a true dread beyond dying because you aren't living per your true self. This is worse than sickness unto death. And finally, in the book, he gives his solution to overcoming despair.
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00:00 - Excerpt from ‘Sickness unto death’
04:40 - All suffer from despair
7:35 - Man’s relationship to self
12:55 - Three types of despair for Kierkegaard
15:50 - What is sickness unto death?
19:45 - Harmonize the Infinitude and finitude
24:30 - Don’t be ignorant of your state of mind: the man who lives in a basement
28:14 - Don’t avoid defeating your despair by living a life of distraction
42:00 - The drunkard who loses his legs
43:20 - The role of sin in magnifying your despair
48:27 - Defeat despair by acting out of love and in love
53:35 - Challenge

Jun 9, 2024 • 48min
032: How to Find Happiness - Thich Nhat Hanh
Lessons from 'Happiness' by Thich Nhat Hanh.
In 'Happiness' Thich Nhat Hanh teaches that by being mindful, we can live in the present and find peace. He provides his key principles and practices to help everyone, whether new or experienced, to live mindfully and enjoy life.
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00:00 - Excerpt from ‘Happiness’ by Thich Nhat Hanh
03:16 - Life of Hanh, becoming a monk, Zen Buddhism
07:44 - Happiness is found in mindfulness
09:14 - Suggestion on how to read ‘Happiness’
11:50 - Our lives are overscheduled so learn how to rest
17:20 - Only this Present moment is real, Krishnamurti’s sunset story
22:00 - Using Gathas to unite body and mind, and doing walking meditations
27:40 - Facing difficulties by finding refuge within yourself
29:50 - How to listen properly & finding community
33:50 - Solitude is a key component for a thriving community
37:00 - Judge yourself strongly, and others lightly
43:45 - Loving yourself, knowing yourself
46:20 - Challenges