Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships

In this podcast, the hosts discuss the concept of the Triforce of Communication, which involves three primary goals of communication in relationships. They explore the frustrations that can arise when communication goals are mismatched and share strategies for effective communication. They also touch on gender communication stereotypes and personal experiences, as well as the importance of expressing disappointment and building intimacy in relationships.

This podcast discusses attachment styles in adults and how they manifest in multiple relationships, debunking misconceptions about polyamory and exploring the importance of inclusive content. The hosts delve into the origins of attachment styles, highlight characteristics of dismissing avoidance attachment style, and discuss the impact of attachment styles on polyamorous relationships. They emphasize the significance of self-awareness, communication, and emotional support in maintaining healthy relationships.

The podcast celebrates its second anniversary with a humorous reflection on their growth and accomplishments. They discuss the challenges of podcasting and the positive impact of audience engagement. The hosts explore the possibility of podcast episodes being downloaded on other planets and reveal the top downloaded countries. They play a game guessing the most downloaded states in the US and read positive feedback from listeners. Additionally, they discuss adjusting communication styles in relationships and the importance of finding a custom blend of habits.

Learn about the concept of love languages and how they can enhance communication and intimacy in relationships. Discover the origins and popularity of 'The Five Love Languages' book. Explore the importance of expressing unique appreciation and verbal support. Uncover insights about the love language of receiving gifts and the thought behind them. Gain tips for adapting to multiple love languages in polyamorous relationships.

This podcast explores the intersection of polyamory and spirituality, discussing the origins of free love, the connections forged through spiritual practices, and the clash between science and spirituality.

Exploring the experiences of individuals identifying as male or female in polyamorous or dating journeys. Discussing the struggle for fairness and insights from the Buddha. Representation of bisexuality in media and the challenges faced by bisexual individuals. Frustration of a bisexual man constantly mislabeled as gay and the issue of bi erasure. Perks and privileges patrons can enjoy, including access to exclusive communities and ad-free content. Promotion of their Patreon community and a promo code for a website. Differences in dating experiences for men and women and the impact of labeling on dating profiles.

The podcast discusses navigating life changes in relationships, including transitioning to polyamory, the importance of supportive community, processing emotions, giving your partner the benefit of the doubt, and embracing change in polyamory.

This podcast explores the topic of emotional abuse in polyamorous relationships, discussing the challenges of identifying abusive patterns and the unique vulnerabilities of poly dynamics. It emphasizes the benefits of poly support groups, avoiding control, and community building. The hosts also promote their show and address misconceptions about abuse in relationships, distinguishing between negative interactions and emotional abuse. Personal experiences are shared, highlighting the importance of recognizing and addressing emotional abuse in polyamory.

The podcast explores hierarchy and priority in polyamory, challenging the idea that a primary/secondary structure is the only way to navigate long-term relationships. They discuss the concept of organic priority, emphasizing flexibility and fluidity in prioritizing partners. The hosts also address the dynamics of egalitarianism and the evolving importance of relationships. Additionally, they discuss the benefits of joining their Patreon community and the importance of supporting metamours.

We're joined by Jessica Fern, author of the upcoming book Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Consensual Non-monogamy. She is also a psychotherapist, public speaker, and relationship and trauma specialist, and this week she's talking with us about trauma and attachment theories, as well as strategies for gaining more secure attachments. Learn more about Jessica and her work at www.jessicafern.com, or email her at connect@jessicafern.com. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices