

095 - Consent with Sex Nerd Sandra
7 snips Nov 29, 2016
Sex Nerd Sandra, a sex educator and podcast host, joins the Multiamory crew to discuss consent in relationships. They explore the nuances of consent, challenge gender stereotypes, and give advice on non-monogamy. The hosts also touch on the importance of education, the impact of power dynamics, and the role of Patreon in supporting the show.
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Consent as Body Ownership
- Consent is essentially owning your body and granting temporary "easements" to others.
- It's not about ownership but about agreeing on specific boundaries for shared experiences.
Use FRIES for Consent
- Use the acronym FRIES to understand consent: Freely given, Reversible, Informed, Enthusiastic, Specific.
- Check for coercion and always ensure consent can be withdrawn at any time.
Practicing Saying No Exercise
- Sex Nerd Sandra shared an exercise where people practice saying no and respecting boundaries.
- Saying no confidently without apology builds mutual trust and eases consent communication.