Multiamory: Rethinking Modern Relationships 091 - The Polyamorous Man: Masculinity and Non-Monogamy
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Nov 2, 2016 This podcast explores the impact of masculinity on polyamorous relationships and delves into topics such as sexy superhero costumes, unrealistic living arrangements in TV shows, and the benefits of becoming a patron on Patreon. The hosts also discuss healthy masculinity in non-monogamous dynamics and break societal norms of male touch.
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Contradictions of Polyamorous Masculinity
- Polyamorous men face contradictory masculinity judgments both as "alpha" players and "beta" for allowing partners other partners.
- This creates complex social dynamics and pressure within poly communities.
Toughness in Masculinity Socialization
- Masculinity is socially enforced with traits boys learn from early age marketing and socialization.
- These rigid expectations are difficult to unlearn even when one personally identifies differently.
Cultural Masculine Ideals
- Common masculine traits include physical strength, broad shoulders, respect, intimidation, sexual virility, and provider status.
- These traits are heavily reinforced culturally through media and social norms.