
Heart of Dating
The purpose of this podcast, Heart of Dating, is to unmask the ever-so-ambiguous world of dating in the Christian world. While there are resources spread out over the years, there are not many centralized areas where Christians can access dating advice, help, and guidance easily and in a fashion that is accessible. The ultimate hope is that Heart of Dating Podcast will start a healthy conversation for men and women and provide wise input and direction as we answer some tough questions and uncover some transformative ways to develop a healthy attitude and approach to dating as a Christian.
Latest episodes

Feb 12, 2025 • 51min
S15 Ep257: The Spark & Butterflies EXPOSED - Why That Triggers People | Healthy Type & Attraction
Today we’re diving deep into attraction and 'types.’ Join us as they challenge conventional views on physical attraction and how societal and personal expectations shape our dating choices!Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdatingSubscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQWant to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitnesshttps://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 8, 2025 • 57min
BONUS: Long Distance, Big Risks, and The One That Was Worth It
Today Kait and JJ have guests, Amber and Randward on to talk about how they met at the Heart of Dating Conference, navigated long distance, and are now married a year later. Get your ticket to HODC Dallas here! February 14th and 15th in Dallas, TX! You never know what might happen😉 https://www.heartofdating.com/hodcLove Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdatingCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQWant to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitnesshttps://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 5, 2025 • 1h 11min
S15 Ep256: Love After Heartbreak, Set-Ups, and How God's Hand is in the Details with Elyse & Tim Mahan
Elyse Mahan, a resilient advocate for love after heartbreak and divorce, joins her partner, Tim Mahan, to share their inspiring journey. They discuss the challenges of dating post-divorce and emphasize the significance of faith and community support in rebuilding relationships. The duo highlights the power of trusted setups and the importance of self-awareness in navigating new love. With personal anecdotes, they reveal how embracing vulnerability can lead to healing and transformation, reminding listeners that every ending can be a beautiful new beginning.

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Jan 29, 2025 • 42min
S15 Ep255: How fast is too fast? Stages of Dating and Redefining SUCCESS
The hosts dive into the stages of dating, exploring how societal changes have shaped modern relationships. They discuss the pressures of navigating dating dynamics within the church and the difference between genuine love and mere excitement. Emphasizing intentionality, they argue for meaningful connections over superficial successes. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace personal growth and emotional connections, redefining what success in dating truly means. Conflict resolution and understanding a partner's character through challenges are also highlighted.

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Jan 22, 2025 • 1h 1min
S15 Ep254: Attachment Styles 101 with EXPERT Adam Lane Smith
Adam Lane Smith, a licensed marriage and family therapist specializing in attachment theory, shares his insights on secure, anxious, and avoidant attachment styles. He delves into how these styles shape our relationships and spiritual beliefs. The conversation highlights the impact of early childhood experiences and the importance of connection in overcoming emotional disconnect. Adam offers practical advice for nurturing healthier relationships and emphasizes the role of secure attachment to foster personal growth and emotional well-being.

Jan 15, 2025 • 59min
S15 Ep253: Signs You’re Not Ready to Date (Yet).. and Signs That You ARE With Riley and Jack Kehoe
Jack Kehoe, a husband and experienced traveler in the realm of singleness, joins Riley to share their perspectives on embracing both closed and open singleness. They discuss the importance of personal growth and spiritual fulfillment during these phases. The couple dives into signs that indicate you’re ready to date, emphasizing self-love and courage in navigating relationships. They also touch on the emotional challenges of waiting for love, encouraging listeners to find purpose in their current season. Prepare for a blend of humor and heartfelt insights!

Jan 8, 2025 • 5min
S15 Trailer: Basics of Dating
Today Kait and JJ are giving you a sneak peek into what we have up our sleeves for this next season on the Heart of Dating Podcast! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdatingSubscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQWant to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitnesshttps://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 18, 2024 • 53min
S14 Ep 252: Being Led On, Mixed Signals, Hot and Cold...Are They ACTUALLY Into Me or Just CONFUSED?
Today we’re diving into all things mixed signals, dissecting the concept of "gophering" in relationships, and how to set boundaries for clarity! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdatingSubscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQWant to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitnesshttps://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en. . . . . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 13, 2024 • 15min
Single During the Holidays: A Survival Guide (Patreon December 2024)
Today Kait and JJ are doing you a favor and helping set you up for success to survive this holiday season! Love Heart of Dating Podcast? Want to support us AND be a part of the fam? Join us on Patreon! https://www.patreon.com/heartofdatingSubscribe to our YouTube channel here! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCJ1PswEXEyeSddMmOSiRKGwCrushing on a cutie? Download this FREE Resource on how to show interest:https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/how-to-show-interest Want to further your dating knowledge? Check out our ultimate dating library!https://www.heartofdating.com/resource/ultimate-dating-library Kait wrote a book! Snag Thank You For Rejecting Me on Amazon:https://amzn.to/3E59cLQWant to meet some epic Christian Singles? Join our huge HOD Family on FB!https://www.facebook.com/groups/heartofdatingpodcast Come hang with us on the gram:http://instagram.com/heartofdatinghttp://instagram.com/kaitnesshttps://www.instagram.com/jjtomlin/?hl=en. . . . . Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dec 11, 2024 • 1h 5min
S14 Ep251: Compatibility is OVERRATED, Why Opposites MAGNETIZE (& What TRULY Matters)
JJ and Kait explore the innovative idea that compatibility might be overrated. They emphasize the value of embracing differences and shared core values in relationships. Personal anecdotes highlight the challenges of marriage and the importance of meaningful communication. The discussion also dives into family dynamics, reflecting on how upbringing shapes romantic connections. Tools like '365 Connecting Questions for Couples' are recommended for fostering deeper understanding. Ultimately, the focus is on growth through contrasting traits and openness in partnerships.
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