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Heart of Dating

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Sep 6, 2024 • 30min

S13 MM67: Why is it so hard to be a single guy in 2024?: Gender roles, Turnoffs and Feminism

Join JJ Tomlin, a panel member navigating the complexities of modern dating, as he and fellow bachelors dive into the shifting landscape of romance in 2024. They discuss the impact of gender roles and hyper-feminism on attraction and relationships. JJ shares insights on traditional dynamics, the frustrations surrounding modern chivalry, and the need for respectful communication. The conversation highlights the balance between societal expectations and personal values, providing a thought-provoking look at contemporary dating experiences.
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Sep 5, 2024 • 10min

Physical Touch and Wandering Eyes (Patreon Bonus August 2024)

Discover the nuances of physical touch in dating and its emotional impact. The hosts take on intriguing audience questions, covering everything from navigating 14-year age gaps to healthy intimacy practices. Explore how personal backgrounds influence comfort levels with touch, and why understanding oneself is key. They also discuss the importance of open communication in addressing relationship insecurities, including concerns about fidelity. Tune in for insightful advice wrapped in humor and warmth!
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Sep 4, 2024 • 39min

S13 Ep240: Girls CAN Make a Move: Double Standards and Fear of Rejection

Delve into the courageous communication women need in dating and the double standards they face. Discover the balance between active love and traditional teachings, challenging the notion that women should remain passive. Explore biblical examples of boldness, like Ruth and Esther, that inspire modern romantic pursuits. Address the fears of rejection and misconceptions of desperation, urging authenticity and self-awareness. Lastly, navigate the complexities of expressing romantic interest in friendships with confidence!
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Aug 30, 2024 • 30min

S13 MM66: 12 Month Rule: Get Married or Break Up

JJ Tomlin, a relationship expert, dives deep into the tough questions surrounding commitment. He challenges listeners to confront their feelings about marriage and make decisive choices in their relationships. The conversation explores the anxiety often felt by young adults contemplating long-term commitments. Additionally, JJ emphasizes the importance of facing uncomfortable truths rather than living in a fantasy when evaluating relationships beyond the first year.
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Aug 28, 2024 • 1h 14min

S13 Ep239: Male Headship and Submission: Is this for modern marriages? What about Abuse victims? with Nika and Emeka

Nika and Emeka share their unique journey with headship and submission in marriage. They discuss how the Holy Spirit has redefined their relationship dynamics, offering insights into the complexities of traditional roles. The conversation highlights the importance of mutual respect and understanding, especially in the context of abusive relationships. They also address the significance of faith in leadership, the emotional complexities of submission, and the ongoing nature of personal and relational growth in the modern marriage landscape.
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Aug 23, 2024 • 29min

S13 MM65: Find Your Spouse Here: Where to Find a Quality Partner

Join JJ, a thoughtful voice in the dating sphere, as he shares his insights on finding meaningful connections. He tackles the scarcity mindset, revealing how it impacts perceptions of available singles. With practical tips, he advocates for seeking godly partners in everyday settings, like game nights, rather than formal events. JJ also opens up about his own dating challenges, encouraging listeners to embrace humility and trust in the journey of love.
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Aug 21, 2024 • 44min

S13 Ep238: Christian Single Men CRISIS: Shortage Of Good Men, If They Exist, How To Find Them

Explore the crisis of good single Christian men and the maturity gap in dating. Unpack societal changes and the impact of technology on emotional connections. Discover the significant disparity between single men and women in the church, urging a deeper evaluation of potential partners. Delve into the qualities of true goodness, emphasizing spiritual maturity and genuine mentorship. Shift focus from potential to present actions in romantic relationships while navigating modern dating challenges.
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Aug 16, 2024 • 46min

S13 MM64: Can I Miss The Spouse God Has For Me?

Delve into the delicate balance between understanding God's will and exercising personal free will in daily life. Discover how divine sovereignty can shape your dating decisions and the role of spiritual practices like prayer. Explore the complexities of age gaps in relationships and the importance of emotional maturity. Unpack the interplay between personal choices and divine plans, emphasizing the need for wisdom and guidance in navigating love and life.
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Aug 14, 2024 • 1h 4min

S13 Ep237: No Such Thing As A Soulmate with Deb Fileta

Deb Fileta, an expert on cultivating healthy, God-centered relationships, joins the hosts to debunk the soulmate myth. She emphasizes the importance of soul care and self-awareness in relationships, helping listeners recognize personal wholeness to avoid codependency. They explore the role of early life experiences in shaping adult relationships and discuss the balance between individual needs and mutual support. Insights on managing emotions and fostering community through personal growth also highlight the dynamic conversation.
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Aug 9, 2024 • 26min

S13 MM63: The Person You Really Need To Marry

JJ tackles the complex topic of purity, showing it’s more about intention than just sexual history. Dive into the statistics reflecting young Christians' views on premarital sex and the evolving definition of purity. Discover how purity encompasses mind, heart, and soul, representing a continuous journey of growth. Explore how a genuine relationship with God can transform your approach to purity, underscoring the importance of community support in navigating personal challenges.

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