
The Juggle is Real
You’re juggling work, family, and everything in between—and it can be a lot. The Juggle is Real is your weekly dose of strategies, mindset shifts, and honest conversations to help you stress less and enjoy more. Host Andryanna Gonko, an educator and mom of three, shares real-life insights, expert advice, and proven tools on topics that matter, so you can create a life that feels lighter and more fulfilling. Because 'balance' isn’t about doing it all—it’s about doing what matters most. Tune in for the fresh takes you didn't know you needed to actually embrace and enjoy this stage of life.
Latest episodes

Jul 3, 2025 • 24min
Letting Go of the Perfect Summer: Making it Count Without the Pressure | E156
In this solo episode, Andryanna invites you to stop chasing the Pinterest version of summer and start embracing what’s actually happening—chaos, crumbs, magic, and all.Through honest stories, simple mindset tips, and grounding tools, this episode offers support for moms who want to feel less pressure and more presence.Takeaways & Support:How to shift from control to connection;Research that shows what really makes summer memories stick;A mindset reframe for when the days feel overwhelming;Simple practices to regulate your nervous system on the go;A visualization to anchor your day. Creating a “Summer Feel List” instead of a to-do list.Whether you're navigating wet towels and sibling squabbles or just trying to feel more like yourself this season, this one’s for you.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com✨ Free download: Simple Summer Days Visual Guide*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Jun 26, 2025 • 38min
The Genius of Judy Blume: Honesty, Motherhood & the Fight for Stories That Matter with Rachelle Bergstein | E155
In this episode, Andryanna is joined by bestselling author and cultural commentator Rachelle Bergstein to unpack the legacy of Judy Blume—and why her fearless storytelling matters more than ever today.Rachelle, a seasoned journalist whose work has appeared in The New York Times, Washington Post, NPR, and more, dives into the cultural, political, and deeply personal impact of Blume’s books. They also explore how motherhood, identity, and creativity coexist (and clash), and what it means to keep telling the truth—especially when the world tries to shut it down.In this episode:Why Judy Blume's work was revolutionary—and still is;How finding her creative spark in motherhood shaped Judy’s voice (and how it shapes Rachelle’s, too);The cultural and emotional cost of censorship and book bans;Telling the truth in a curated world;How to hold onto your voice as a woman, mother, and creative;The unexpected lessons Judy Blume's work offers modern parents.Whether you're raising kids, chasing creative goals, or questioning the rules you’ve been handed, this episode is a tribute to messy, meaningful, unapologetic storytelling.CONNECT WITH RACHELLE:RachelleBergstein.comOn InstagramOn LinkedInRachelle's Substack, Banner YearCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com✨ Free download: Simple Summer Days Visual Guide*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Jun 19, 2025 • 31min
Cultivating Patience: How to Trust the Timing When Everything Feels Urgent | E154
In this solo episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna invites you to reflect on the power of patience—especially in the season of juggling it all. Inspired by her own journey from feeling antsy to accomplished (including finally putting away those winter mitts!), Andryanna explores how patience can transform how we parent, pursue goals, and take care of ourselves. In this episode, she shares:A personal story about feeling overwhelmed by her to-do list—and what shifted in just 4 weeks;A mindset reframe that reminds us: not everything is urgent;The science behind cultivating patience (and why it matters);Supportive, easy-to-implement tools that help you stay calm and grounded in the moment;A simple framework for practicing patience with yourself, your kids, your home, and your goals;Reflection prompts to reconnect with your values when you're feeling rushed.Packed with research-backed strategies, personal stories, and practical prompts, this episode offers a grounded perspective on trusting your timeline and showing yourself more grace.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com✨ Free download: Simple Summer Days Visual Guide*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Jun 12, 2025 • 56min
Anxiety, Assertiveness + the Art of Emotional Recovery with Dr. Kristine Laderoute | E153
In this validating and insightful episode, Andryanna is joined by Dr. Kristine Laderoute to explore what anxiety is really trying to tell us—and how learning to be more assertive is a powerful way to support our mental health.Dr. Laderoute, a clinical psychologist with over 15 years of experience, shares how women can reconnect with their emotional selves, rewrite old narratives and begin to set boundaries with courage and self-compassion.She shares practical tools for:Understanding anxiety not as a flaw, but as a natural alarm system;Exploring the iceberg analogy of anxiety to uncover unresolved emotions;Reconnecting with our own emotional expression;Differentiating between danger and discomfort in the nervous system;Learning what true assertiveness looks like (hint: it’s not aggression);Navigating relationship shifts when becoming more assertive;Using daily recovery tools to feel seen, centered, and self-connected.This conversation is especially supportive for moms, professionals, and anyone who finds themselves overthinking, overextending, and overwhelmed.CONNECT WITH DR. LADEROUTE:drkristineladeroute.comlumewomenshealth.comOn InstagramCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com✨ Free download: Simple Summer Days Visual Guide*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Jun 5, 2025 • 31min
Navigating June: 3 Ways to Prepare for a Summer of Ease and Joy | E152
In this episode, Andryanna reflects on the whirlwind of May and shares her go-to systems for shifting from chaos to calm as we head into the final stretch of the school year. This episode offers three practical, evidence-informed strategies to help you enter summer feeling more grounded, intentional, and joyful.What’s covered in this episode:Why May often feels like a blur and how to reset for JuneThe power of weekly and monthly recaps to build gratitude and awarenessAn easy 10-minute reflection practice to reduce stressHow to prioritize self-care using the Pillars of Well-BeingWhy putting yourself first is the opposite of selfishThe Self-Care Pyramid as a visual guideA reminder that intentional rest is productive (hello, Laziness Principle!)A personal story about getting shingles and the lesson in slowing downThis episode is full of support and encouragement to navigate June with grace, presence, and self-compassionCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com✨ Free download: Simple Summer Days Visual Guide*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

May 29, 2025 • 1h 1min
Regulate, Respond, Repair: Parenting Through a Nervous System Lens with Kathryn Flynn
In this episode, Andryanna is joined by Kathryn Flynn, Registered Psychotherapist, yoga educator, and founder of The Wren Centre: Therapy for All Ages. Known for her warm, integrative approach, Kathryn helps individuals feel safe in their bodies, achieve emotional balance, and parent from a place of connection rather than perfection. Along with her academic qualifications, Kathryn also draws from somatic therapy and Eastern wisdom traditions—such as Ayurveda, yoga philosophy, and Buddhist teachings.Together, they unpack the nervous system’s role in parenting—especially in a modern world when we’re navigating our own healing and raising emotionally complex (and often dysregulated) children. From co-regulation to sensory mismatches to practical repair after rupture, this episode is packed with compassionate insight and actionable strategies.How the nervous system responds in stressful parenting momentsThe difference between co-regulation and self-regulationWhat attunement looks like—and how we can practice itReal-life tools for rupture and repair when things go off the railsWhether you’re a mom who’s read all the parenting books but still loses it when your kids push your buttons, or you’re simply seeking a gentler way to show up for yourself and your family, this one’s for you.CONNECT WITH KATHRYN:WebsiteOn InstagramThe Wren CentreCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com✨ Free download: Simple Summer Days Visual Guide*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

May 22, 2025 • 29min
From Surviving to Thriving: My #1 Tip to Have the Best Summer | E150
In this solo episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna explores what it really takes for busy moms to thrive—not just survive—this summer. After battling a lingering spring cold and facing the pressures of seasonal expectations, she reflects on the importance of recovery as the missing ingredient in our pursuit of a joyful and sustainable summer.With personal stories, science-backed insights, and practical tools, this episode offers permission—and a plan—to slow down, reset, and reclaim your energy without guilt. If you’re craving a summer that feels balanced, intentional, and full of ease, this one’s for you.In this episode, Andryanna covers:Why recoup is the key and the role recovery plays in thriving;The science behind stress and the nervous system (and how to signal safety);Tangible strategies for weaving recovery into summer days;How to create structure and flexibility for your family;Mini recovery moments you can build into even the busiest days;How to protect your peace and prioritize joyful living this season.✨ Free download mentioned: Summer Days PlannerCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.Chapters00:00 Introduction to Thriving in Summer02:50 The Importance of Recovery06:13 Understanding Stress and the Nervous System09:07 Strategies for Building Recovery11:53 Practical Tips for a Balanced Summer15:09 Creating Structure and Flexibility17:59 Choosing Joyful Activities20:48 Mini Recovery Moments24:10 Final Thoughts on Thriving27:06 Conclusion and Resources

May 15, 2025 • 35min
Are You Addicted to Drama? Breaking Free from the Chaos Loop with Kim Rogne | E149
In this episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna is joined by certified High Performance Coach and bestselling author Kim Rogne to unpack a surprisingly relatable question: Are you addicted to drama?From the constant chaos of doing it all to being the 'fixer' and putting out every fire (even the ones no one asked you to handle), it’s easy to mistake stress for success—especially for high-achieving women and moms.Kim shares her journey of rediscovering clarity and alignment after a traumatic injury forced her to slow down. She offers insights from her PRP Model (Potential = Reality = Perception), practical mindset shifts for busy seasons, and a refreshing take on how to lead without defining your worth by your roles.This episode is for you if:You feel stuck in a cycle of constant busyness and burnoutYou’re always in fix-it mode but crave more calmYou want real strategies—not just quotes—to realign your life with what mattersYou’re ready to stop wearing chaos like a badge of honourCONNECT WITH KIM: KimRogne.com On InstagramFor The Love of Self Free Download: floself.com For The Love of Self JournalCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

May 8, 2025 • 30min
Maycember Survival Guide: Practical Tools + Real Help for Moms
May is wild. Between school events, extra sports schedules, field trips, and summer planning, moms are running on empty—and then some. In this episode, Andryanna breaks down why May *and June* feel so heavy (hello, Maycember), the invisible labour we’re carrying, and what we can actually do to make it easier.This episode combines honesty with researched support, to share:Practical tools to lighten the load;Time-saving hacks that actually help;Boundary-setting strategies (minus the guilt);Mindset shifts that offer more peace and less pressure.Andryanna shares permission to let go of perfection, step off the hamster wheel, and remind yourself: you don’t have to do it all. Especially not alone.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

May 1, 2025 • 55min
Finding 'Enoughness' in a World of More with Barbara Burgess | E147
In a culture of “not enough,” what would it mean to finally feel like you already are?In this heart-opening episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna welcomes author, mother and executive Barbara Burgess to talk about her new book Enough: Finding Peace in a World of Distractions, Hustle, and Expectations.Together, they explore the difference between big and small “no’s,” how to create boundaries with bullet-proof grace, and why letting go of the self-improvement trap may be the most empowering thing we can do. If you’re tired of feeling like you need to do more, be more, or prove yourself every single day—this one’s for you.In this episode, we talk about:The true meaning behind EnoughSmall “no’s” that create big peaceNavigating toxic relationships with bulletproof graceHow to stay grounded and graceful when someone tries to pull you out of your energy lane Breaking free from comparison cultureBreaking free from comparison and competitionCONNECT WITH BARBARA:BeEnough.comCorluma WebsiteOn LinkedIn CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.