
The Juggle is Real
You’re juggling work, family, and everything in between—and it can be a lot. The Juggle is Real is your weekly dose of strategies, mindset shifts, and honest conversations to help you stress less and enjoy more. Host Andryanna Gonko, an educator and mom of three, shares real-life insights, expert advice, and proven tools on topics that matter, so you can create a life that feels lighter and more fulfilling. Because 'balance' isn’t about doing it all—it’s about doing what matters most. Tune in for the fresh takes you didn't know you needed to actually embrace and enjoy this stage of life.
Latest episodes

Apr 24, 2025 • 23min
Another Trip Around the Sun: The April Theory & Embracing the Season of Renewal
In this solo episode, Andryanna Gonko shares a personal and powerful reflection timed with her birthday and the seasonal shift into spring. Included in this episode: - The April Theory—the idea that spring, not January, is the true time for renewal- How Spring's fresh energy can support anyone feeling the weight of daily responsibilities - Andryanna's signature 5 Pillars of Well-Being—Nurture, Nourish, Move, Grow, and Discard—with gentle, actionable ways to embrace growth, clarity, and self-compassion. Whether you’ve had a chaotic start to the year or you’re simply ready to feel more like yourself again, this episode is your invitation to reset—no perfection required.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.Click HERE for the weighted vest Andryanna uses for walking and around the house! And HERE is a link to a double chest clip vest for runners/high intensity workouts.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Apr 17, 2025 • 46min
Cat & Nat on Parenting Teens in a Digital World: What Every Parent Needs to Know | E145
In this must-listen episode, Andryanna welcomes back two of the internet’s most beloved moms—Cat & Nat—for a raw, real, and deeply insightful conversation about parenting in the age of screens, smartphones, and Snapchat.Catherine Belknap and Natalie Telfer—aka Cat & Nat—built their brand by keeping it real about motherhood, and now they’re leading the charge on a topic every parent is worried about: raising teens in a digital world.Together, they unpack the wake-up call that is Netflix’s Adolescence documentary, share what inspired their Screen Sense phone guide, and reveal their biggest lessons (and helpful tips) as they navigate tween and teen life with their own seven kids.They also discuss:The biggest thing parents get wrong when it comes to giving kids a phone;Boundaries that work—and how to set them;How to keep communication open when your kid wants to shut down;The power of tools like the Thoughts Between Us amnesty journel to help parents and teens reconnect;Why we don't have to fear this stage, but rather embrace it with the tools and knowledge needed to raise teens in 2025.This episode is packed with relatable stories, game-changing advice, and the kind of honest truth-telling Cat & Nat are known for. If you're parenting through the tween and teen years—or you're almost there—you don’t want to miss this one.CONNECT WITH CAT & NAT:Screen Sense Phone GuideCat & Nat Unfiltered PodcastWebsiteOn InstagramCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Apr 10, 2025 • 33min
When Life Gets Busy/Stressful/Hectic: Choose Peace (Here's How) | E144
In this solo episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna shares a gentle, grounding message for anyone feeling overwhelmed by the chaos of life. With April bringing a whirlwind of holidays, egg hunts, sports tryouts, shifting routines, election buzz, and global uncertainty, Andryanna turns to the simple but powerful idea: “I can choose peace instead of this.”Inspired by the teachings of Dr. Wayne Dyer, Marianne Williamson, and A Course in Miracles, she offers practical ways to pause, reflect, and protect your energy—especially when your calendar (and mind) are full.Whether you're prepping Easter brunch, juggling practices and meetings, or just trying to breathe through the noise, this episode will help you reset, realign, and move through your days with more intention and ease.In this episode, Andryanna covers:What it means to choose peace in moments of stress and busynessWhy we default to overdoing—and how to catch ourselves before the spiral;Simple practices to create calm in a hectic season;Her own recent experiences where this practice was and wasn't put in place, and what she learned from both;A mindset reframe that puts connection and presence above perfection;This isn’t about doing more—it’s about doing what matters, with more peace in your heart.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Apr 3, 2025 • 56min
The Power of Reinvention: DIY, Design & Resilient Motherhood with Rebekah Higgs | E143
Spring is the season of transformation—refreshing your space, making bold moves in your career, changing your routines and embracing personal growth. And today’s guest knows all about reinvention.Rebekah Higgs, aka DIY MOM, went from being a broke single mom to a thriving entrepreneur, designer, and renovator with a loyal community of over 150K followers. She’s built a career on her own terms, flipping homes, empowering women to take charge of their spaces, and proving that creativity and resilience go hand in hand.In this episode, Rebekah shares:- How she pivoted from musician to DIY powerhouse;- Why trusting your gut but not doing it blindly is key in business & life;- The biggest lessons she’s learned as a single mom & business owner;- Spring refresh tips for your home & mindset (without breaking the bank!)- Her eye-opening experience in South Africa & what it taught her about resilience and giving back.If you’re craving inspiration—whether for your home, career, or mindset—this conversation is a must-listen.CONNECT WITH REBEKHA:Diymom.caOn InstagramOn YouTubeCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Mar 27, 2025 • 26min
Life Lately: My Baby is 4, the Current Political Landscape & Spring Cleaning our Energy | E142
In this solo episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna shares an honest and heartfelt life update, touching on the sentimental milestones of motherhood, navigating today’s political climate without losing yourself, and the much-needed seasonal shift into spring.As her youngest son turns four, she reflects on how fast time moves and how moms can embrace the present and be nostalgic without getting stuck. She also breaks down the weight of current world events—like the upcoming Canadian election and U.S. / Canada trade tensions—offering practical ways to stay informed while protecting your energy. And, as the seasons change, Andryanna shares how she’s shifting her routine to welcome more sunlight, movement, and ease, inviting listeners to do the same.Topics Discussed:The bittersweet feelings of watching kids grow up—and how to stay present;How to navigate political news without falling into fear or negativity;Practical ways to “spring clean” not just your home, but your mind and energy.Tune in for real talk, relatable insights, and tangible ways to feel lighter—inside and out.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Mar 20, 2025 • 50min
The Secret to Making Decisions Faster (and Procrastinating Less!) with Kelly Maiese | E141 (replay)
Struggling with decision fatigue and procrastination? You’re not alone.In this episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna sits down with self-leadership coach Kelly Maiese to unpack the hidden ways indecision drains our energy—and what we can do about it. Kelly shares powerful insights on how decision-making is a skill we can develop to reclaim our time, energy, and confidence.Tune in as they discuss:The Indecision Loop—what it is and how to break freeWhy decision fatigue is keeping you stuck (and how to lighten the mental load)How to sharpen your decision-making skills for a more aligned, efficient lifeThe link between procrastination and self-image—and how to shift bothSimple strategies to help you and your kids become better decision-makersIf you’ve ever felt overwhelmed by choices or caught in cycles of hesitation, this episode will give you the clarity and tools to move forward with confidence.CONNECT WITH KELLY:On LinkedIn On InstagramWebsiteBook a complimentary discovery call Decide with Confidence FREE downloadCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:Get your copy of The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Mar 13, 2025 • 26min
Self-Sabotage vs. Self-Care: How to Break the Cycle | E140
In this episode of The Juggle is Real, Andryanna dives deep into a topic that many of us struggle with: self-care. But not the Pinterest-perfect version. We're talking about the real, messy, and sometimes guilt-ridden self-care that we all need but often resist. Why do we know it’s important, yet still sabotage ourselves? And how do we break free from that cycle?Tune in to hear:Why self-care can feel so hard, even when we know we need it;The self-care paradox: Why we resist it the most when we need it the most;How stress and self-worth sabotage our efforts to care for ourselves;Real strategies to make self-care doable—even when motivation is low;Why toxic self-care advice is everywhere—and how to find what actually works for you;If you’ve ever felt like you’re failing at self-care (spoiler: you’re not), this episode is for you. Let’s break the cycle and reclaim our well-being.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 is HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Mar 6, 2025 • 41min
Podcasting Made Easy: How to Start Without Stress with Candace Dudley | E139
Thinking about starting a podcast but wondering where to begin? In this episode, Andryanna sits down with Candace Dudley, podcast producer, business manager, and host of The Better Brave Podcast, to break down how to launch a podcast in the easiest, most stress-free way possible.Whether you're a busy entrepreneur, a multi-passionate creative, or just someone with a message to share, Candace offers simple, actionable steps to help you start and sustain your show—without the overwhelm.In this episode, they cover:✔️ The first three steps to take when launching a podcast;✔️ Common misconceptions and mistakes new podcasters make✔️ Budget-friendly tech and tools to get started;✔️ How to stay consistent and avoid overwhelm✔️ Strategies for growing your audience without over-complicating things.If podcasting has been on your mind, this episode will give you the clarity, confidence, and tools to finally hit record.CONNECT WITH CANDACE:On InstagramCandaceDudley.comBetter Brave Podcast Free Resource: Podcast Setup GuideCONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 is HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Feb 27, 2025 • 24min
The Hidden Pain We Learn to Tolerate – And How to Let It Go | E138
In this solo episode, Andryanna explores the hidden pains we unknowingly tolerate—physically, emotionally, and mentally. A simple yet powerful comment from her massage therapist sparked a deep reflection on how much discomfort people endure without question.Drawing on insights from Eckhart Tolle and recent research, Andryanna unpacks why people hold onto pain, the cost of unresolved discomfort, and how awareness can be the first step toward lasting change.🔹 In this episode, she covers: How and why we learn to tolerate physical, mental and emotional pain; How conditioning leads people to accept discomfort as normal; The hidden cost of tolerating stress, resentment, and pain; Recognizing where you may be carrying more than you should; Moving from tolerance to transformation with research-backed strategies for releasing pain and creating more ease; and How awareness and presence can lead to greater joy and alignment.Tune in for an honest and insightful conversation that encourages you to recognize where you’re stuck and take meaningful steps toward freedom and well-being.CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 is HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.

Feb 20, 2025 • 54min
Staying Connected: Nurturing the Relationship with Your Partner While Raising a Family with Dr. Mary Marano | E137
Parenting is a beautiful but demanding journey, and amid the chaos of raising a family, relationships often take a backseat. But staying connected doesn’t have to be complicated. In this episode, Dr. Mary Marano, a leading relationship and family expert, shares actionable strategies for keeping love strong, even in the busiest seasons of life.In this conversation, Dr. Mary shares:🔹 The importance of viewing your relationship as the foundation of your family’s well-being🔹 Small, intentional habits that strengthen your partnership every day🔹 How to stay emotionally connected, even when time together is scarce🔹 The “connection thread” that keeps couples close, even in the busiest seasons🔹 Budget-friendly and creative date night ideas to rekindle romance🔹 How to shift your mindset from "survival mode" to a thriving partnership🔹 Practical ways to support each other as a team—especially during challenging timesTune in for expert insights, relatable stories, and simple ways to nurture your relationship while navigating the realities of parenting.CONNECT WITH DR. MARY MARANO:On InstagramLife & Family Counselling WebsiteLinkedInDr. Gary Chapman’s, The Five Love Languages QuizThe Seven Principles for Making Marriage WorkThe Love DareChanged By Mary WebsiteShop: https://changedbymary.com/shop/ CONNECT WITH ANDRYANNA:The Juggle is Real: Authentic Self-Care Planner Vol. 2 is HERE! On InstagramEmail: hello@andryanna.com*Click HERE for your FREE '30 Days For Me' Self-Care Guide.And please visit Andryanna.com for blogs, giveaways, workshops, tools, resources and more.