

REALIFE Conversations for Christian Coaches
Teresa McCloy
Welcome to the podcast hosted by certified coaches Teresa McCloy and Erica Vinson. Join us for authentic conversations around building and sustaining your coaching practice. We'll share tools like our REALIFE Process™ framework as well as business development skills and chat with amazing guests. Together we'll develop ways to stay connected to your realself, engage in your realife, and live out your realwork through the amazing and wonderful world of coaching.
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Jan 5, 2022 • 25min
159: How to Create a Compelling Website
How do you create an effective website, and what is the true purpose for it? In today’s episode, we’re getting back to basics and talking about the big picture goals for your website. I’m joined by our Marketing Director, Lindsay Sterchi, as we talk about: Why your website is not really about YOU The top three pages you should focus on, and best practices for each of these Practical tips to update and clarify your website Our favorite services for creating your website It’s easy to get stuck in the technical weeds when you’re setting up your website, but it doesn’t have to be complicated or complex. We hope this episode helps you get back to the true purpose of your website as a tool to help your ideal clients. REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. This is one sample of the content we provide for exclusive use by our REALIFE Process Facilitators™. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Dec 29, 2021 • 26min
158: What Are You Tracking In Your Business?
What story are your numbers telling you? In this week’s podcast episode, I’m joined by our team’s Integrator, Terri Johnson, as we talk about paying attention to the data and what it reveals. We discuss: Why it’s important to pay attention to your numbers How your personal money mindset can create resistance to talking about data Specific examples of expenses and revenue to track How the numbers can show you what to focus your time and effort on, and what to stop doing The method we use for tracking data at the REALIFE Process® As a business, you can’t know where you’re going if you don’t pay attention to where you’ve been. Numbers and data can give you a concrete picture of what’s working and what’s not. As you listen to this episode, we hope it helps you identify exactly what to track in your business as we move into a new year. REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. This is one sample of the content we provide for exclusive use by our REALIFE Process Facilitators™. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Dec 22, 2021 • 14min
157: Merry Christmas from the REALIFE Process®! [REPLAY]
Merry Christmas! As you're unwrapping presents and celebrating this week, there's one last gift just for you... This replay episode of the podcast is a special one with a story and a song. As a Type 3 on the Enneagram, I connect with the 3-6-9 Harmony Triad. I also have a very strong Type 4 wing which invites me to be creative and original. From a very young age, I've loved to write music. As I've come to embrace the Enneagram as a tool for harmony and transformation, I learned how songwriting really invites me to be present in all three centers of intelligence as it engages: The body movement of writing the song The intellect of the words and lyrics coming together The expression of the heart This Christmas, I wanted to give you a FULL CIRCLE gift–one that's transparent, vulnerable, and straight from my heart to yours. May your Christmas be full of extraordinary moments! REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. This is one sample of the content we provide for exclusive use by our REALIFE Process Facilitators™. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews. Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Dec 15, 2021 • 20min
156: Using the S.W.O.T. Analysis to Plan for 2022
How can you identify your strengths, weaknesses, opportunities, and threats to make decisions about what to do next? Our entire team joined me for this episode that we recorded together on our recent REALIFE Process® Team Retreat! Using the S.W.O.T. Analysis, we share some of our team’s discoveries as we answered these questions: What are your strengths that set you apart? What are your weaknesses? Where do you need to improve? What opportunities are open to you? What are your threats or competition? What are the factors outside of your control? Taking time to name what you do well and where you can improve can help you identify the projects you want to focus on next. I hope that hearing our team’s answers to these questions will help you as you process your own S.W.O.T. analysis, whether as an individual business owner or with your team. Resources Mentioned in This Episode: Voxer: Our team’s favorite tool for communication.You Are the Brand by Mike Kim: Book and Podcast REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. This is one sample of the content we provide for exclusive use by our REALIFE Process Facilitators™. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Dec 8, 2021 • 14min
155: How to Create Your Signature Framework
How do you develop your unique content into a repeatable framework you can use with your clients? In today’s episode, I’m sharing how I created the REALIFE Process® as a framework I use with a variety of clients in different contexts, and how you can do the same in your business. This episode covers: How to map out your exact steps and process for helping people get unstuck Identifying the signature components that are unique to YOU What it looks like to test your content now and adjust as you go If you have content that is repeatable and there are consistent steps along the way, you have a process. I hope today’s episode helps you begin to develop your own framework that can become something you use to consistently earn a profit. REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. This is one sample of the content we provide for exclusive use by our REALIFE Process Facilitators™. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Dec 1, 2021 • 32min
154: Introducing the “New” N.O.W. Process Tool [REPLAY]
What would you give to have a tool you can take with you anywhere that helps you to notice your adaptive patterns and move to something more authentic? In this replay episode, we are sharing one of the key tools we use here at the REALIFE Process® called the N.O.W. Process Tool. Through the lens of the Enneagram and the N.O.W. Process, we've learned that thoughts produce feelings, feelings drive actions, and actions or behaviors lead to results. Both brain research and Biblical truth remind us that we have the ability to "renew our minds." We're so excited to share with you our N.O.W. Process Tool that invites you to name your circumstance, identify your adaptive thoughts, feelings, actions, and current results in order to realistically reframe the thought to something believable and authentic that renews your feelings, actions and eventually changes behaviors and results. Pull up a chair to this conversation as two of our REALIFE Process Coaches, Terri Johnson and Erica Vinson share: The components of the N.O.W. Process Tool Personal examples from REALIFE that display the power of renewing your mind Practical ways to identify thoughts and feelings that allow you to create new actions and results We hope this episode helps you in your own REALIFE and in the work you do to help others. For more on the N.O.W. Tool, listen to episode 61: Using the N.O.W. Method with the Enneagram REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Nov 24, 2021 • 37min
153: Moving from a Solopreneur to a Company: How to Grow Your Team for Success
How can having the right team surrounding you help you do what you love as a business owner? In this episode, I’m turning the hosting duties over to Winston Faircloth, a coach and REALIFE Process Certified Facilitator™ who coached me through the process of growing my team. In our conversation, we discuss what it looked like for me to move from being a solopreneur to a company with multiple roles and team members, and what that made possible for me. Plus, we talk about exciting shifts coming to THIS podcast as I invite my team to join me for conversations about coaching, marketing, and business. You’ll get the benefit of their unique expertise and experience as we explore these topics together in future episodes. As you think about how to grow your team in a way that leads to doing more of the work you love while also growing your business, I hope this episode will give you ideas and inspiration as I share my own experience. Connect with Winston Faircloth: Visit www.forloveofteam.com to learn more about Winston and how he can help you build a business and do the work you love–surrounded by team members you love–and multiply your impact, income, and freedom in business and in life. Check out Winston’s podcast, For Love of Team. You can also listen to my interview with Winston on Episode 118: For Love of Teams. Join us for the FREE 5-Day REALIFE Process & Profit ChallengeThe challenge kicks off on Monday, November 29th at 12pm CT. During the challenge, we’ll lead you through all four components of the REALIFE Process, along with live daily coaching. Learn more and sign up here! REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Nov 17, 2021 • 39min
152: Let’s Have a Great Conversation, with RLP Facilitator Michelle Mullins
What if you invited just one person a day to have a conversation? This question helped today’s guest find a natural way to connect with people and help them discover what really matters to them. I’m joined in this episode by one of our REALIFE Process Certified Facilitators™ Michelle Mullins, a coach who helps busy entrepreneurs find a healthy, sustainable rhythm of life so they can avoid burnout and say YES to a life they love. We talk about:The power of conversation and listening to help someone identify what matters to them and how to live that out How the framework of the REALIFE Process® equips Michelle to have great conversations through her coaching Why being “busy” isn’t always a bad thing, and how rhythms and routines can prevent burnout How your calendar can show if you are truly living out your values in your personal and work life We also talk about how the REALIFE Facilitator Network™ provides support and community for Michelle as a coach and business owner. If you want to learn how to impact people through great conversations, this episode is for you! Connect with Michelle:Visit michellemullinscoaching.com to learn more about Michelle and to download the free Intro to REALIFE Needs & Values Assessment! About Michelle:Michelle is a certified coach, online trainer, and mentor for remote professionals around the world. She loves partnering with businesswomen, ministry leaders, virtual team leaders, and work-at-home moms from around the globe. She is passionate about helping busy entrepreneurs find a healthy, sustainable rhythm of life so they can avoid burnout and say YES to a life they love! Join us for the FREE 5-Day REALIFE Process & Profit ChallengeThe challenge kicks off on Monday, November 29th at 12pm CT. During the challenge, we’ll lead you through all four components of the REALIFE Process, along with live daily coaching. Learn more and sign up here! REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook-The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram-teresa.mccloy LinkedIn-teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Nov 10, 2021 • 34min
151: If Jesus Gave a TED Talk: Communication and Neuroscience, with Author Charles Stone
How do you communicate in a way that people will remember? What can we learn from the intersection between biblical truth and neuroscience about how we retain information? Today I’m joined by author Charles Stone, and we talk about his latest book If Jesus Gave a TED Talk: Eight Neuroscience Principles the Master Teacher Used to Persuade His Audience. We talk about: The eight components of a memorable talk that lead to healthy learning What we can learn from the teaching and storytelling of Jesus that can help us grow as communicators How the brain continues to change and grow even as we get older Specific ways communicators can ensure that their message is one that people will remember and retain If you want people to not only remember your message but take action on it, this episode will give you powerful ideas to help you improve as a communicator. Connect with Charles Stone:To learn more about Charles, his books, and for free resources, visit www.charlesstone.com. Charles has been a pastor for 40 years serving as Lead Pastor, a Teaching Pastor, an Associate Pastor, and as a Church Planter. He’s the author of seven books, which you can learn more about here. Charles has been married to Sherryl for 41 years, and they have three grown children and three grandchildren. He earned an engineering degree from Georgia Tech, a Masters of Divinity from Southwestern Baptist Theological Seminary, and a Doctorate of Ministry from Trinity Evangelical Divinity School. His most recent degree is an executive masters in the neuroscience of leadership from The Neuroleadership Institute. He is completing a post-baccalaureate certificate in Therapeutic Models of Mindfulness from Wilfred Laurier University and has also completed a graduate certificate in Mind, Brain, and Teaching from Johns Hopkins University. He is currently enrolled in the PhD program at Columbia Biblical Seminary and is researching stress in pastors. REALIFE Resources:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!

Nov 3, 2021 • 27min
150: Creating Space for Big Life Events
How do you create space in your life and business when you have a big event coming up? In this episode, I’m joined by Erica Vinson, our Director of the REALIFE Facilitator Network™, as we talk about the big life events we are each currently navigating: Erica’s move and my daughter’s wedding. We’ll give personal examples and practical tips for how to create space for life’s big moments, including: How to make the event more manageable by creating a project with specific action steps Why it’s important to limit other things going on in your life so you have the emotional space to be present Recognizing your limited capacity by setting boundaries and communicating your needs with your people How to purposefully pause and acknowledge the moment instead of rushing through it Whether you are walking through an exciting life change or grieving a loss, it’s important to create space for it. You can’t do it all, and this episode will help you name what matters so you can be present for life’s big moments. Mentioned in This Episode:Task management software used by the REALIFE Process® Team: Nozbe REALIFE Resources Mentioned in This Episode:If you’re ready to discover what matters to you, download our FREE Intro to REALIFE Needs and Values Assessment. You’ll gain clarity on what you uniquely need to create a life and career you love. REALIFE Process Facilitator Network™The REALIFE Process Facilitator Network is open for applications! If you're looking to go deeper personally in your REALIFE and have the desire to serve others and multiply your impact, check out how to be certified as a REALIFE Process Facilitator™! Support the Podcast–Leave us a ReviewAre you growing as a result of listening to the podcast? The greatest compliment you can pay us is to share it with a friend and leave a review on iTunes. Click here and scroll down to Customer Reviews to leave a word on what you've found to be helpful as you're listening in! Connect further with the REALIFE Process®:Join the FREE REALIFE Process® Community - continue podcast topics discussions with Facebook LIVEs and guest interviews Connect with your host, Teresa McCloy on:Facebook- The REALIFE Process® with Teresa McCloy Instagram- teresa.mccloy LinkedIn- teresamccloy About Teresa McCloy:Teresa McCloy is the creator of the REALIFE Process®, an ACC Executive Coach, and an IEA Accredited Enneagram Professional who helps entrepreneurs, business owners, and leaders discover and live out their best REALIFE! She has worked with clients from all over the world to help them bring clarity to their REALIFE and joy to their REALWORK!


