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Mar 12, 2025 • 41min

351. Keeping Up Love After Marriage

In this episode, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with Barry and Lori Byrne, the powerhouse couple behind Love After Marriage and Nothing Hidden Ministries. We’re talking about the real struggles, the tools for breakthrough, and why transparency is the key to a thriving marriage. Whether you’re married, engaged, or hoping to be, this conversation is packed with wisdom on intimacy, connection, and spiritual warfare in marriage. Plus, we get real about sex, communication, and how to heal when trust has been broken. Grab your coffee, get comfy, and let’s do this!Love After Marriage course: https://nothinghidden.com/love-after-marriage/
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Mar 5, 2025 • 48min

350. Marriage & Communication: What We Wish We Knew Sooner!

Hey friends! This week, we're diving deep into marriage—what makes it healthy, what challenges come up, and how to keep growing together. And I’m not doing it alone—Ben’s here! We’re getting real about our own journey, from the early struggles to the tools that transformed our relationship. We talk communication, intimacy, and the mindset shifts that made all the difference. Whether you're newly married, deep in the trenches, or just curious, this episode is packed with insight and hope. Let’s get into it!
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Feb 26, 2025 • 50min

349. The Dating Mistakes Christians Make (And How to Avoid Them!)

Hey friends! Today, we’re diving deep into a topic that doesn’t get enough real talk in the church—dating, sex, and singleness. Yep, we’re going there! I’m sitting down with my friend Elles Maddry, who, along with her husband, leads Moral Revolution, an organization dedicated to helping people navigate healthy sexuality within faith. We’re unpacking everything from dating apps to setting boundaries, from purity culture to how to know if you’re in a God-honoring relationship. If you’ve ever wrestled with questions about love, relationships, or even just how far is too far, this one’s for you. Get ready for an honest, no-filter convo with plenty of laughs and real wisdom.Parenting Sexuality Course: https://truthtotable.com/parenting-sexuality/The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A
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Feb 19, 2025 • 48min

348. Faith and Porn: Breaking Free from the Trap

Wow, this episode was a deep one! I sat down with my friend Aaron to talk about a topic that so many struggle with but rarely discuss—porn. We unpacked why it’s not just about self-control but about deeper needs, how shame keeps people stuck, and what real freedom looks like. Aaron shared his personal journey, the science behind addiction, and practical steps for breaking free. Whether you’re dealing with this yourself, walking alongside a spouse, or raising kids in a hypersexualized culture, this conversation is full of insight and hope. Don’t miss it!More from Aaron: zintsquad.comBuy Numb to Known: The Surprising Path Away From Porn: https://a.co/d/ivwtDySBuy The Naked Truth About Sexuality: https://a.co/d/a3afM3A
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Feb 12, 2025 • 21min

347. The Science of Sex: What No One Told You

Today we’re diving deep into a topic that honestly, we don’t talk about enough—the science of sex. Last time, we covered the basics of healthy sexuality, and today, we’re taking it further. Did you know that sex isn’t just about the physical? There’s a biological, emotional, and even spiritual design behind it. We’re talking hormones, bonding, God’s intention, and why culture often gets it completely wrong. Plus, I break down the three B’s of sex—babies, bonding, and beauty—and why understanding them can change the way you view intimacy forever. Stick around, because this conversation might just change the way you think about sex for good!Buy The Naked Truth About Sexuality:https://a.co/d/a3afM3AParenting Sexuality Course:https://shop.truthtotable.com/collections/digital-courses-studies/products/parenting-sexuality
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Feb 5, 2025 • 24min

346. What Happens When The Church Ignores Sexuality?

Wow, this episode is going to be a powerful one! We're diving into a topic that doesn’t get talked about enough—sex and sexuality. I know, I know, it’s not always an easy conversation, but that’s exactly why we need to have it. This month, we're unpacking what healthy sexuality looks like through a faith-filled lens, tackling big questions like intimacy, marriage, and even the tricky subjects like porn and shame. My goal? To equip you with clarity, hope, and practical tools to navigate your own journey. So stick with me—let’s get real, let’s get honest, and let’s take back the narrative together!
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Jan 29, 2025 • 26min

345. Supercharge Your Productivity!

In this episode, we dive into the power of attention and how it shapes our productivity and outcomes. I share personal insights and practical strategies for staying focused, avoiding distractions, and prioritizing what truly matters. Whether it’s tackling the one task you've been procrastinating on or learning how to set boundaries to protect your mental energy, these tips are game-changers. Plus, I reflect on how my journey of saying "no" to some things has made room for a more intentional, fulfilling life. Tune in to supercharge your focus and get ready to shift your productivity into high gear!
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Jan 22, 2025 • 22min

344. How Assumptions Are Holding You Back—And What to Do Instead

Are your assumptions secretly running the show? In this episode, we’re diving into how assumptions shape our decisions and relationships—often without us even realizing it. I share personal stories, like my old red convertible days, and explore how our minds love shortcuts (hello, confirmation bias!). Together, we’ll unpack practical ways to identify and challenge those sneaky thoughts holding you back, so you can reframe your perspective and step into a more intentional way of living. Trust me, you don’t want to miss this one!
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Jan 15, 2025 • 22min

343. The Mind-Body Hack That Will Unlock Your Brain Power

This week on the podcast, we’re diving into the fascinating connection between our minds and bodies, exploring how intentional living can unlock your full potential. I’m sharing some of my favorite insights, practical tips, and even personal stories to show how things like sleep, exercise, and mindfulness can profoundly impact not just your mental clarity but your whole life. Plus, I’ll let you in on how tiny habits can lead to big transformation and why even something as simple as smiling can boost your mood. Ready to take your intentional living game to the next level? Let’s do this together! Learn about Havilah's Author School here 👉🏼 https://havilahsauthorschool.com/ How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb here 👉🏼 https://a.co/d/3GuHVg2
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Jan 8, 2025 • 23min

342. How to Keep Your Brain in Discovery Mode

Welcome back to the podcast! This week, we’re diving into an essential concept for the new year: moving from defense mode to discovery mode in our brains. I share insights from one of my favorite books, How to Have a Good Day by Caroline Webb, breaking down how our automatic and deliberate systems influence our responses to stress. We’ll explore practical ways to shift out of the fight, flight, or freeze mindset and into a space of curiosity and anticipation for good things. Join me as we unpack how embracing discovery mode can help us live intentionally and create a more rewarding life.

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