381: Rejection, Abandonment & Building More Confidence

In today’s episode, we’re digging into the real story behind rejection, abandonment, and the confidence it takes to shut down the negative narratives trying to shape your life.

I share how my dad’s early years were marked by abandonment and self-rejection—and how everything changed when he met Jesus. I was raised in love and safety, but that same generational thread still tried to attach itself to my story.If you’ve ever felt like you’re fighting patterns you didn’t choose… this conversation is for you.

What we cover:

• Why rejection and abandonment often feel “normal” in our thoughts

• The moment I realized those same narratives were knocking on my door

• How generational patterns try to repeat themselves

• The choice we all face when negative thoughts show up

• What it looks like to reject self-abandonment and stay connected

• How God actively orchestrates healing, confidence, and freedom

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