

hot pursuit by AsianBossGirl
Emily, Madelyn, Jen
welcome to hot pursuit; a podcast about creating conversations where nothing is off limits hosted by three best friends Jen, Em, and Madelyn.
this podcast is produced by AsianBossGirl.
ever since the beloved ABG hosts Melody, Helen, and Janet took their hiatus, we decided there was a space to fill where individuals could continue vulnerable conversations about life, love, and friendship. we value digging deep, being unhinged, and stepping out courageously in topics of conversation that may be more taboo than your typical lunch conversation. join us as we continue the AsianBossGirl legacy with a podcast of our own. we desire to model friendship and vulnerability to our listeners while challenging ourselves to grow in self confidence, friendship, and authenticity.
buckle up! it's gonna be a wild ride.
this podcast is produced by AsianBossGirl.
ever since the beloved ABG hosts Melody, Helen, and Janet took their hiatus, we decided there was a space to fill where individuals could continue vulnerable conversations about life, love, and friendship. we value digging deep, being unhinged, and stepping out courageously in topics of conversation that may be more taboo than your typical lunch conversation. join us as we continue the AsianBossGirl legacy with a podcast of our own. we desire to model friendship and vulnerability to our listeners while challenging ourselves to grow in self confidence, friendship, and authenticity.
buckle up! it's gonna be a wild ride.
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Oct 9, 2024 • 46min
No Dumb Questions with Mel: Love Beyond Words - A Conversation with Author & Designer Jocelyn Chung
In this heartwarming episode of No Dumb Questions, I’m thrilled to welcome Jocelyn Chung, a graphic designer, creator, and newly-published children's book author, to the podcast! We instantly connected during my last visit to Taiwan, and today we’re diving into her debut book, “When Love is More Than Words”, a story that beautifully captures how love transcends language, especially within Asian families—a theme that deeply resonates with me, having grown up with my grandparents and extended family.Jocelyn shares the inspiration behind her book, how her upbringing in a Taiwanese-American household influenced her storytelling, and the creative journey from designer to author. We also explore the challenges she faced as a first-time author and the cultural values she hopes to pass on through her work. Whether you love children's books or simply believe in the power of love beyond words, this episode is a must-listen!Become an ABG Bestie to get new audio episodes ad-free, monthly “Dear ABG” AMA sessions, discounts on merch, and shout-outs in our episodes. https://abg.supercast.com/ __________________________________________Host: Melody ChengEditor: Victoria Cheng__________________________________________P A R T N E R S• BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG__________________________________________C O N N E C T W I T H U S• Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook• Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here• Email: hello@asianbossgirl.com__________________________________________S U P P O R T U S• Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com• Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support• More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Oct 4, 2024 • 1h 5min
Episode 292: The 4 Levels of a Relationship & How to Jump from Attraction to Commitment
Dive into the journey of relationships with the four levels framework: admiration, mutual attraction, commitment, and compatibility. Discover the risks involved in navigating mutual attraction and the complexities of modern dating. The discussion offers personal anecdotes on evolving connections and highlights the importance of communication and shared values. Learn how to transition from attraction to commitment while maintaining emotional vulnerability. It's a deep exploration of love, friendship, and building lasting partnerships.

Oct 2, 2024 • 27min
Spill the Baby Tea: My Emotional Rollercoaster with Acupuncture for Fertility - What I Wish I Knew
In this episode of Spill the Baby Tea, I’m getting deeply personal as I share my experience with acupuncture on our journey to conceive again after the heart-wrenching loss of our first pregnancy. After our miscarriage, I found myself searching for anything that could help us heal and increase our chances of bringing a little one into our lives. Acupuncture seemed like a gentle, holistic approach, but what I wasn’t prepared for was the emotional toll—on top of the physical discomfort and financial strain. I’ll take you through what it’s like—the sadness, the frustrations, the small moments of hope, the crying in the car... the weight of it all. If you’ve ever been curious about acupuncture for fertility or are navigating your own fertility journey, this episode is for you <3AsianBossGirl’s latest Instagram post for comments/interactions, linked here. #SpillTheBabyTeaBecome an ABG Bestie to get new audio episodes ad-free, monthly “Dear ABG” AMA sessions, discounts on merch, and shout-outs in our episodes. https://abg.supercast.com/ __________________________________________Host: Helen WuEditor: Victoria Cheng__________________________________________P A R T N E R S• BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG__________________________________________C O N N E C T W I T H U S• Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook• Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here• Email: hello@asianbossgirl.com__________________________________________S U P P O R T U S• Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com• Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support• More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 27, 2024 • 54min
Episode 291: Adulting in Our 30s - New Habits, Values, & Life Lessons We’ve Learned
Dive into the realities of adulting as the hosts reflect on their growth from carefree youths to responsible adults. They discuss the unique pressures of being the eldest child and balancing passion with family expectations. The importance of choosing the right healthcare is highlighted, alongside impactful parenting styles that shape personal responsibility. As they explore evolving values, the transition to financial stability and the significance of chosen family come to light, all with a blend of humor and relatable anecdotes.

Sep 25, 2024 • 53min
Living Well with Janet: Botox for Teeth Grinding? Oral Health Best Practices with @joycethedentist
Joyce Kahng, a renowned cosmetic and restorative dentist, brings her expertise from Orange + Magnolia Dental Studio to the discussion. She reveals that Botox can actually help with teeth grinding, an unexpected but fascinating treatment. Listeners learn about the importance of oral health for overall wellness, especially during pregnancy and menopause. Joyce shares insights on minimally invasive veneers and effective teeth whitening methods, debunking myths about dental care while emphasizing personalized oral hygiene routines for better health.

Sep 20, 2024 • 1h 2min
Episode 290: Eldest Daughter Syndrome - Pressure, Responsibility, & Desire to Be the Best
Janet, one of the eldest daughters, shares her experiences navigating the challenges of being a firstborn, especially in immigrant families. The discussion dives into 'Eldest Daughter Syndrome,' detailing the pressures of parental expectations and the emotional weight of being a role model. Janet reflects on her childhood responsibilities, the complexities of sibling dynamics, and how these roles evolve into adulthood. She candidly explores the balance between nurturing her siblings and pursuing her own independence, making it a relatable conversation for many.

Sep 18, 2024 • 59min
No Dumb Questions with Mel: How Do You Organize the Ultimate Friends' Trip?✈️ ft. Tiff Duong
In this chat, Tiff Duong, a travel enthusiast and longtime friend of the host, shares her expertise on organizing group trips. They dive into the intricacies of planning an exciting trip to Vietnam, reflecting on their college days and past travel misadventures. Communication, flexibility, and the right apps for budgeting are vital for a stress-free experience. Tiff emphasizes the importance of catering to everyone's preferences and the joy of shared experiences, ensuring trips foster stronger bonds among friends.

Sep 13, 2024 • 52min
Episode 289: Summer Catch-Up - Milestone Birthday Cruises, Baby Showers, & Life Transitions
Phil shares the highlights of his 40th birthday celebration aboard a cruise, discussing the joy of bringing together a diverse group of friends and family. Janet recounts her experience at her sister's baby shower, reflecting on how such milestones impact friendships. They both explore the evolving nature of relationships in their 30s, emphasizing the need for intentional connections as life changes—especially with friends transitioning into parenthood. The conversation highlights the balance between celebration and the complexities of growing responsibilities.

Sep 11, 2024 • 36min
Spill the Baby Tea with Helen: Choosing the Right Daycare - Tips for Parents Navigating Early Schooling
Today, we’re uncovering the secrets to finding the perfect daycare that will set your little one on the path to success. We’re talking about the must-ask questions, tips for navigating the application process, and how to spot the red flags before it’s too late. Whether you're just starting the search or drowning in options, we’ve got you covered with everything you need to know to make a confident and informed choice. Get ready to feel empowered and excited about this important milestone in your child’s life! And as promised, here are questions I asked each of the schools we visited:
What is the daily schedule like?
How is naptime handled? Where do they sleep? Can my child bring a blanket/lovey?
What is the staff-to-child ratio?
How long have the teachers been at the school? What are the qualifications of the caregivers? Do they have early childhood education degrees?
What is the expectation for potty training? Are they expected to wipe themselves?
What are the policies on sick children?
What are the safety protocols? (Check that the facility is licensed by the state and that they have clear safety protocols in place. Look for things like secured entrances and childproofing.)
How does discipline typically work?
What is the standard communication of how your child is doing? Daily and periodic check-ins?
How do I FEEL after this visit? (This was super important for me to jot down! These feelings are easy to forget after visiting so many schools.)
AsianBossGirl’s latest Instagram post for comments/interactions, linked here. #SpillTheBabyTeaBecome an ABG Bestie to get new audio episodes ad-free, monthly “Dear ABG” AMA sessions, discounts on merch, and shout-outs in our episodes. https://abg.supercast.com/ __________________________________________Host: Helen WuEditor: Victoria Cheng__________________________________________P A R T N E R S• BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month with code “ABG” at betterhelp.com/ABG__________________________________________C O N N E C T W I T H U S• Subscribe and Follow us @asianbossgirl on Apple Podcasts/Spotify/Amazon Music/YouTube/Instagram/Twitter/Facebook• Listener Survey: Let us know your thoughts on the podcast here• Email: hello@asianbossgirl.com__________________________________________S U P P O R T U S• Merch: asianbossgirl.myshopify.com• Donate: anchor.fm/asianbossgirl/support• More about us at asianbossgirl.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sep 6, 2024 • 47min
Episode 288: Homebuying 101 - Where to Start, How to Budget, Inspection Tips, & More!
Jessica Lee, a savvy Southern California realtor, shares her expertise on navigating the daunting homebuying process. She explains how to assess your readiness and the vital role lenders and realtors play. Discover essential tips for millennial homebuyers, including budgeting and finding the right home. Jessica also discusses strategies to stand out in a competitive market, the financial advantages of starter homes, and crucial costs such as down payments and mortgages. Her insights empower first-time buyers to confidently pursue their dream homes.


