

The Modern Therapist's Survival Guide with Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy
Curt Widhalm, LMFT and Katie Vernoy, LMFT
The Modern Therapist’s Survival Guide: Where Therapists Live, Breathe, and Practice as Human Beings It’s time to reimagine therapy and what it means to be a therapist. We are human beings who can now present ourselves as whole people, with authenticity, purpose, and connection. Especially now, when clinicians must develop a personal brand to market their private practices, and are connecting over social media, engaging in social activism, pushing back against mental health stigma, and facing a whole new style of entrepreneurship. To support you as a whole person, a business owner, and a therapist, your hosts, Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk about how to approach the role of therapist in the modern age.
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Nov 3, 2025 • 47min
How Therapists Retire: Planning, Ethics, and Letting Go of the Work You Love – An Interview with Lynn Grodzki, LCSW and Margaret Wehrenberg, PsyD
In this engaging discussion, Lynn Grodzki, LCSW, a private practice coach, and Margaret Wehrenberg, PsyD, anxiety expert and author, delve into the complexities of therapist retirement. They introduce the Readiness for Retirement model, outlining four essential stages: pre-contemplation, contemplation, preparation, and action. The conversation highlights the emotional toll, identity shifts, and ethical considerations therapists face when letting go of their work. Listeners will gain insights into planning effectively and embracing their new roles, while navigating guilt and legacy.

Oct 30, 2025 • 1h 3min
Modern Therapist’s Consumer Guide: SimplePractice
In this engaging conversation, Jonathan Seltzer, CEO of SimplePractice, discusses his mission to empower independent mental health clinicians. He shares insights into the evolution of SimplePractice and its commitment to transparency and clinician trust. Jonathan highlights how AI is designed to enhance therapists' work, not replace them, and explains efforts to improve referral processes and billing workflows. He also addresses concerns about data privacy, assuring listeners that clinician data is never sold or monitored.

Oct 27, 2025 • 42min
Protecting Clients Through Better Notes: An Interview with Dr. Maelisa McCaffrey
Protecting Clients Through Better Notes: An Interview with Dr. Maelisa McCaffrey
Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk with Dr. Maelisa McCaffrey about how therapists can document ethically and protectively in a politically charged climate. They explore how to handle sensitive topics like gender identity, reproductive rights, and immigration status while keeping documentation accurate, ethical, and safe for clients.
About Our Guest
Dr. Maelisa McCaffrey is a licensed psychologist, nail design enthusiast, and author of the book, Stress-Free Documentation for Mental Health Therapists. Through her business QA Prep, she empowers therapists with training and consultation on clinical documentation. Maelisa focuses on the “why” behind the usual recommendations and encourages clinicians to think outside the box, while also keeping their ethics intact.
Key Takeaways for Therapists
Documentation can carry legal and ethical risks in today’s climate.
Use clear but sensitive language when writing notes.
Informed consent and collaboration with clients are essential.
Focus on clinical themes rather than politically charged terms.
Review your own forms and practices for unnecessary information.
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Oct 23, 2025 • 42min
How Conscious Awareness Shapes Leadership, Therapy, and Collective Healing: An interview with Pardis Mahdavi, PhD
How Conscious Awareness Shapes Leadership, Therapy, and Collective Healing: An Interview with Pardis Mahdavi, PhD
Curt and Katie chat with Pardis Mahdavi, PhD, about how consciousness and intentional awareness can transform therapy, leadership, and community. Pardis shares how cultivating our “inner state," moving from suffering to a “beautiful state,” impacts how we lead, connect, and heal collectively. She offers practical ways therapists can integrate mindfulness, breath mastery, and curiosity into their work to help clients (and themselves) live with greater awareness and alignment.
About Our Guest:Pardis Mahdavi, PhD is an author, educator, and entrepreneur. She has written seven non-fiction books and two edited volumes, including Book of Queens (2023) and Riding (2024). A former university president and global human rights expert, Pardis now leads Entheon Journeys, focusing on consciousness, leadership, and transformation. Her work has been featured in Time, Ms. Magazine, Huffington Post, and the Los Angeles Times.
Key Takeaways:
Consciousness work deepens mindfulness into an ongoing framework for intentional living and healing.
Therapists can help clients identify and shift their inner “state” from suffering toward beauty, calm, and connection.
Preventive practices such as meditation, journaling, and breath mastery support long-term wellbeing and resilience.
Leadership and therapy are energetic processes: awareness of one’s own state affects how others experience us.
Community healing grows when curiosity replaces critique and connection transcends identity barriers.
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Oct 20, 2025 • 41min
The Crisis in College Mental Health: An Interview with Pardis Mahdavi, PhD
The Crisis in College Mental Health: An Interview with Dr. Pardis Mahdavi, PhD
Curt Widhalm and Katie Vernoy talk with Dr. Pardis Mahdavi about the growing mental-health crisis among college students. Pardis shares insights from her years in higher education leadership—revealing how rising costs, outdated systems, and lack of purpose are driving student anxiety and burnout. Together they explore what therapists, universities, and communities can do to realign education with meaning, wellbeing, and real-world readiness.
About Our Guest: Dr. Pardis Mahdavi, Ph.D.
Pardis Mahdavi is an author, educator, and entrepreneur whose work spans human rights, education policy, and consciousness. A former university president and provost, she is the author of seven nonfiction books including The Book of Queens (Hachette Books, 2023) and Riding (Duke University Press, 2024). She currently leads Entheon Journeys and The Bondery House, fostering connection and expanded awareness.
Key Takeaways for Therapists
College students face unprecedented levels of anxiety and depression—driven by systemic disconnection, financial stress, and unclear purpose.
Higher education often fails to evolve with societal change, leaving students feeling unprepared and unseen.
Preventive supports like mindfulness and mentorship should be built into the college experience.
Therapists can help students find meaning, manage uncertainty, and advocate for collaborative care across campus systems.
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Oct 13, 2025 • 35min
Medical Necessity or Personal Growth? Why Documentation Matters in Therapy
Medical Necessity or Personal Growth? Why Documentation Matters in Therapy
Curt and Katie talk about medical necessity in therapy documentation – what it is, why it matters, and how therapists can navigate the tension between clinical care, insurance requirements, and personal growth. We explore how documentation protects therapists in utilization reviews and disciplinary processes, and how to ethically distinguish therapy from coaching or self-improvement.
Key Takeaways for Therapists
Why documenting medical necessity matters for insurance, ethics, and liability
Risks of over-diagnosing or misrepresenting symptoms
The role of treatment plans and progress notes in demonstrating medical necessity
Navigating personal growth requests vs. clinical therapy
Protecting yourself with clear, consistent documentation
About Our Hosts
Curt Widhalm, LMFT – www.curtwidhalm.com
Katie Vernoy, LMFT – www.katievernoy.com
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Oct 6, 2025 • 37min
Beyond Coping: Radical Healing in a World Not Built for Us – An Interview with José Rosario
Beyond Coping: Radical Healing in a World Not Built for Us – An Interview with José Rosario
Curt and Katie chat with José Rosario about radical healing, disability, cultural trauma, and intersectionality. José shares his story as a scholar, practitioner, and activist, and how his lived experience as a disabled person of color who is also queer informs both his clinical work and research. He discusses how healing must move beyond coping, the importance of community engagement, and how therapists can better support clients with marginalized identities.
About Our Guest: José Rosario
Born to young Puerto Rican parents, José Rosario developed Cerebral Palsy as a premature baby. His family's journey towards equity deeply impacted his mental health. Currently nearing his PhD in Clinical Psychology, his research focuses on cultural trauma in intersectional communities. He is an Interdisciplinary Minority Fellow for the American Psychological Association, member of the Congressional Diversity and Equality Advisory Board for Congressman James Langevin, and member of the Rhode Island Attorney General Community Advisory Board. He has been honored with the Chris Martin Humanitarian Award and the Victoria Lederberg Award for Excellence in Psychology.
Key Takeaways for Therapists
Radical healing means moving beyond coping to systemic change and community-based healing.
Disability, race, and queerness intersect in ways that compound stigma and systemic barriers.
Community is both a source of hope and a vital element of healing.
Therapists must step outside the therapy room and engage genuinely with the communities they serve.
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Sep 29, 2025 • 45min
Navigating Food, Body Image, and GLP-1 Medications: An Interview with Robyn L. Goldberg, RDN, CEDS-C
Navigating Food, Body Image, and GLP-1 Medications: An Interview with Robyn L. Goldberg, RDN, CEDS-C
Therapists are seeing more clients struggling with confusing medical advice, new medications, and diet culture messages that impact their relationship with food and body. In this conversation, Curt and Katie talk with Robyn L. Goldberg, RDN, CEDS-C about how therapists can examine their own biases, support clients navigating restrictive medical guidance, and encourage healthier, more intuitive approaches to eating.
About Our Guest: Robyn L. Goldberg, RDN, CEDS-C
Robyn began her career at Cedars-Sinai Medical Center in Los Angeles as the in-patient dietitian in the Department of Cardiology. Over the last twenty-eight years she has developed her own private practice in Los Angeles, CA.
She is a contributing author and is a nationally and internationally known registered dietitian nutritionist. She has been quoted in The New York Times, The Huffington Post, and Vogue.
She has been on national television as the eating disorder expert on The Insider. Robyn is the author of The Eating Disorder Trap: A Guide for Clinicians and Loved Ones, Co-author of the online course Your Recovery Resource, and the host of The Eating Disorder Trap Podcast.
Key Takeaways for Therapists
Therapists must examine their own food and body biases to avoid unintentional harm to clients.
Many physicians have minimal training in dietetics and may give inadequate advice.
Clients can advocate for themselves in medical settings, including refusing to be weighed.
GLP-1 medications may reduce appetite but can cause malnutrition, fatigue, and bone/muscle loss.
Intuitive eating offers a path back to a healthier, more trusting relationship with food.
For full show notes and transcript: mtsgpodcast.com
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Sep 22, 2025 • 40min
Somatic Therapy, Nervous System Regulation, and Expanding Capacity for Rest: An Interview with Linda Thai
Somatic Therapy, Nervous System Regulation, and Expanding Capacity for Rest: An Interview with Linda Thai
Curt and Katie chat with Linda Thai, LMSW, ERYT-200 about practical, culturally aware somatic tools therapists can use, helping clients (and themselves) expand capacity for rest, and integrating bottom-up work ethically when working with trauma survivors and adult children of refugees and immigrants.
Full show notes and transcripts available at mtsgpodcast.com.
About Our Guest: Linda Thai, LMSW, ERYT-200
Linda Thai is a trauma therapist and educator specializing in brain- and body-based modalities for addressing complex developmental trauma. She teaches mindfulness, grief tending, and somatic practices with a special focus on adult children of refugees and immigrants. Linda has assisted Dr. Bessel van der Kolk in psychotherapy workshops on attachment trauma and offers trainings and courses worldwide.
Key Takeaways for Therapists
Gentle rocking and orienting to distance are accessible entry points for regulation.
Track SUNs (Subjective Units of Nourishment) as well as distress in sessions.
Somatic work expands capacity for rest, not just activation.
Therapists must contextualize disembodiment within colonization, hustle culture, and systemic exploitation.
Choose teachers and communities that match your style before committing to long trainings.
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Sep 15, 2025 • 41min
The Initial Consultation Call: Setting the Foundation for Therapy
The Initial Consultation Call: Setting the Foundation for Therapy
Curt and Katie chat about consultation and intake phone calls — the crucial first step in the client–therapist relationship. They explore how to balance logistics with empathy, set realistic expectations, and create safety and rapport from the very beginning.
About our Hosts:Curt Widhalm, LMFT – www.curtwidhalm.comKatie Vernoy, LMFT – www.katievernoy.com
Key Takeaways for Therapists:
How consultation calls set the tone for therapy
Balancing logistics (fees, scheduling, insurance) with rapport-building
Exploring referral sources, past therapy experiences, and client expectations
Avoiding underselling yourself when discussing fees
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