What Would Love Do?

STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead When you really think about it, the idea of dating is relatively new. In previous centuries, marriages were arranged and there wasn’t much getting-to-know-you-and-falling-in-love. It was more about committing to the best ‘deal’ for each family. In today’s world with smartphone technology, it’s all too easy to fall into casual ‘friends with benefits’ situationships. But if you want long-term companionship, how do you move past the casual hookups? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what dating in today’s world means and why we’re craving connection and companionship more than ever. Let’s talk about… STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post STOP Dating Men and Do THIS Instead appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You As the old saying goes, “Actions speak louder than words,” and when you’re looking for a long term relationship, seeing your guy’s actions showing that he’s dedicated and loyal to you validates the words he says. Sometimes it’s nice to have that extra proof that you’re headed in the right direction. But “all in” only works when both people are looking for that same type of committed – all in – relationship. You’ll know pretty quickly if you’re with someone who has a more casual view of sex and relationships. If that’s not what you want, move on. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about finding men who believe in “all in” relationships and how to recognize the signs that he’s true to his word. Let’s talk about… BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post BEAUTIFUL SIGNS He’s All In And Loyal To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore When you’re committed to the dating process and your intention is to find a partner, it’s important that you keep communication open but that you also stick to your boundaries and values. You should not change to suit someone else and the reverse is also true. So, what are your deal breakers? These are the issues that will cause you to walk away from this prospect without looking back. What are your red flags? These are issues that will stop you in your tracks and require more questions and open conversation. Sometimes red flags become deal breakers but not always. Being honest with yourself about what you will and won’t tolerate in a relationship is vital to your happiness. A red flag often triggers our intuition that something might be wrong and it’s up to you to follow through and have that conversation so you can make a clear decision about whether you move forward with this person or not. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to identify red flags during the dating process and why paying attention to them is so important. Let’s talk about… Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Dangerous Red Flag That’s Too Risky to Ignore appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? Isn’t it exciting to meet someone that you’re attracted to and that seems like a promising partner? And the excitement keeps growing as you get to know him…until he tells you something that throws up a red flag. That something could be that he’s unemployed, had a bad breakup, has children, or has a health issue. The list could actually go on longer but you get the idea. What do you do? Throw in the towel and wonder “what would have happened if…” or agree to move forward even though he’s got some tough things to still work through? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to prioritize your list of what’s important in a partner and how to determine if you should overlook that one item that gives you pause. Let’s talk about… He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post He Checks All The Boxes Except For THIS, Is He Still The One? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) Obsession with anything isn’t good but when you’re pining away over your ex and your days and nights are filled with wishing you could get back together, you get stuck and can’t move forward. Inevitably, this way of thinking will affect every area of your life. Now, grieving that a relationship has ended is very different than feeling obsessed. Grieving is a natural human response, especially if it lasted a number of years. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to move forward when a relationship ends and how to know when it’s the right time to start dating again. Let’s talk about… How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post How To Get Over Your Ex (When You’re Still Obsessed With Them) appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Generally speaking, men over 40 can be pretty set in their ways and don’t often make the best decisions when it comes to dating and building a stable relationship. It’s often difficult to break old patterns of behavior – or to even recognize that these patterns exist and are detrimental to the dating process. While women have their own patterns to break, they also tend to strive for a commitment sooner than guys. And when we focus strictly on commitment without doing the proper vetting or asking the right questions, disappointment and heart break often follows. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about emotional connection and how to shift our dating focus on THIS rather than physical chemistry. Let’s talk about… Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Men Who Break Your Heart Have THIS In Common appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You Women are generally good listeners but some women don’t know how to ask good questions. So, when a guy shares his problems and daily complaints, some women will begin to think that he’s open and sharing his thoughts and feelings. But if you don’t know how to ask questions to drive the conversation toward a more positive talk about what he wants in life or in a relationship, women might get a false sense that a strong relationship is forming. Couple this with lust and limerence and you have a couple who think they have a strong relationship because the chemistry is strong but in reality, it could come crashing down at any minute because of their weak communication skills. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about encouraging deep conversations without assuming the role of therapist. Let’s talk about… Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why Men STOP Expressing Their Feelings Toward You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment Emotional maturity is a topic I talk about a lot because I think it’s so important for couples to understand how it plays a large part in building solid communication. Not everyone is a master communicator but lucky for us, it’s a skill that can be improved and refined over time. When you have two emotionally mature individuals, they can have deep conversations about whatever topics are important to them and their partner can listen without being dismissive. They can also have difficult conversations without feeling like the other one is out to get them. Together they have the maturity to resolve issues instead of letting them fester. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to develop a practice of personal development and/or spirituality as a couple. Let’s talk about… Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Quick Test To SEE If He’s Ready For Commitment appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey Today I’m having an important conversation about self-love with fitness and confidence coach Gia Fey. As you know, I’m a big proponent of self-love and Gia shares about the different vibrational levels we emit into the world based upon our emotions. For example, when we feel sad, we’re very low in vibration levels but if we’re feeling enlightened or joyful, our levels are raised significantly. As you can imagine, those emotional vibrations control how much light and positivity we emit to others. Low vibrations remind me of Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh whereas people with high vibrations seem to emit a happy glow. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to raise our vibrations by feeling our emotions and caring for our physical and mental wellbeing with self-love. Let’s talk about… Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Do THIS To Attract A Great Guy with Gia Fey appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive Let’s be real…physical attraction is usually what brings people into our dating sphere. This is the very baseline level of our dating standards but as you know from my coaching, physicality is not enough to sustain a long term relationship. However, today we’re talking about some personality traits that can be attractive and this takes emotional maturity for men to recognize. Not every man is emotionally mature but those who are (or who are working on their own personal development) will be attracted even more when they notice these traits. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about emotional maturity and what attracts people to each other outside of physical looks. Let’s talk about… 6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 6 Things Men Notice First In A Woman and Find Massively Attractive appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.