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Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki While it’s a good thing that being in therapy is becoming more socially accepted, someone who is in therapy does not always equal the perfect relationship choice. Just like doing personal development work does not guarantee becoming a well-adjusted person. Therapy and personal development have become crutches to some extent, like a green flag that this is a person worth dating because they’re doing the work. But there are plenty of well-adjusted men (and women) who had wonderful upbringings and have never set foot in a therapist’s office…does that make them unworthy of a date? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why we rely so much on “therapy” and “personal development” as barometers for good dating prospects. Let’s talk about… Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why Modern Dating Needs A Makeover with Jillian Turecki appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away I’ve lost count of the times women have told me they are afraid to speak their true feelings because of how their guy will react. Instead of jumping to the idea that this guy must be a horrible human or that she’s a little mouse, let’s look at this from the perspective of how self-love can help her gain the confidence to speak what’s on her mind. If you feel like certain topics are off limits in your relationship, I invite you to think about why this is the case. Is this relationship fulfilling and loving…even if you don’t use your voice? Is this relationship a true partnership…even if you keep things to yourself? How can you work on YOU so you gain the confidence to have tough conversations with your partner? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to gain confidence when it comes to open communication and why certain topics make you clam up. Let’s talk about… How to Express Your Feeling without Scaring Him Away Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post How to Express Your Feelings without Scaring Him Away appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 I do believe that most men are decent guys but they are just bad daters. You and I know that personal development work is so important but many guys think that’s just for women or it sounds too woo-woo. And once you get that belief into your head, it takes a lot of convincing to believe otherwise. Some women who come out of stressful or violent relationships might believe they aren’t worthy of having a caring, loving guy in their life. They might believe this is their destiny because of their “bad luck” picking guys. Remember…your past does not define you. Not mistakes you’ve made, not the awful guys you’ve dated. Every single person is deserving of a second chance and with the right support, you CAN move out of victimhood and into a peaceful place. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to believe in yourself again, even if you’ve had some awful relationships in the past. Let’s talk about… Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Scary Things Men Do To Use Women Over 40 appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

What’s A Good Pace for Dating or Relationships? I’ll admit, this is a trick question because there’s no one-size-fits-all rule about how fast or slow a relationship should go. Some people know within weeks if this is the right person for them and others take months to build that trust and respect with someone. I invite you to do some introspection and think about what pace is comfortable for you. How fast is too fast? What does it mean to you if a guy “comes on too strong”? This way you’ll know how to express your feelings with the next guy you feel attracted to. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it means to “come on too strong” and how to give yourself grace if someone tells you this isn’t a good match. Let’s talk about… What’s A Good Pace for Dating or Relationships? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post What’s A Good Pace For Dating or Relationships? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! In recent years I’ve noticed there seems to be a gender war going on: men think women are too entitled or promiscuous and women think men are buffoons who only want sex. Take one quick look at some other YouTube content and you’ll see what I mean. This type of ‘war’ doesn’t get us anywhere. These descriptions certainly do NOT describe every person and it turns dating into a dreaded task instead of a fun adventure. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it takes for men and women to respect each other instead of putting labels on entire groups of people. Let’s talk about… 97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 97% of High-Value Men Respect Women Who Know THIS! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! Sorry to burst your romantic bubble but Prince Charming isn’t going to come along and sweep you off your feet. Well, maybe someone will sweep you off your feet but unlike those fairy tales, you’re not going to commit to a relationship without some serious vetting. The dating process is really like a fact-finding mission. Asking questions and understanding what you both want in a relationship is just the beginning. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why personal growth is a part of every relationship and how to recognize a need to reset vs feeling abandoned. Let’s talk about… What To Do When He’s Pulling Away Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post What To Do When He’s Pulling Away – Don’t Text Him, Do This Instead! appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man While a healthy sexual attraction is important in a long term relationship, chemistry alone is not enough to build a foundation…at least not if you want long term companionship instead of a friend with benefits. Also remember that men and women approach sex differently. Men see it as a physical act while most women view sex as an emotional connection. If you’re not on the same page before sleeping together, you might be in for some disappointment. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to approach conversations about sex and why you need to understand what you want in a relationship. Let’s talk about… Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Establish THIS Before Sleeping With A Man appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? In a world of complex relationships, it’s easy to feel lost when faced with silence from a partner, especially during the midlife years when you want to find a long term companion. Instead of living in fear that your relationship is over when he goes silent, use this opportunity to talk with your partner about why this is challenging for you and how it can bring up fears. Hopefully your guy will be open to talking (not all men are!) and show him some consideration when he shares his own vulnerabilities. When you have committed conversations, you’ll feel empowered and have a newfound understanding of how you both feel and how the relationship should progress. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the complexities of human connection and how to foster healthier communication and deeper connections. Let’s talk about… He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post He’s Acting Silent | Does THIS Mean It’s Over For Him? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman Understanding attachment styles helps you to understand why your guy does the things he does. In this episode, we’re focused on the fearful avoidant, who is often afraid of abandonment and might have difficulty letting a woman get close to him. My guest today is Bev Mitelman, M.A., a Certified Attachment Practitioner who has spent her entire career (25+ years) working with adults in the realm of personal growth and professional development. She is also an author and the founder of SecurelyLoved.com . Listen in as Bev gives some really great examples of how the lessons we learn from childhood affect our adult lives and relationships. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about attachment styles and how each style has a range of traits worth recognizing. Let’s talk about… Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Will A Fearful Avoidant Man Ever Commit? with Bev Mitelman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You Men and women alike bring childhood trauma into their adult lives and relationships. As humans, there’s no way to avoid it because every lesson we learn in our early childhood sticks with us like glue. Hence the reason personal development is so darn important, so we can all move past those traumas and live our best lives. Understanding these stages that I talk about in this episode is important because you can gauge how far along your guy is in this process. Of course, there’s no timeline to completing these stages as every one is so different but you’ll recognize if he’s at the very beginning, midway, or nearing the end of the stages. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it takes to make a commitment to another person and how to gauge if your guy is near that point. Let’s talk about… The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post The 5 Stages Men Must Go Through Before They’ll Fully Commit To You appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.