What Would Love Do?

Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One Determining whether or not a guy is a keeper depends significantly on his Emotional  Intelligence (EI). Emotional intelligence is a person’s ability to have deep and important conversations. When a couple has high EI, they are talking about their future dreams and getting to know the other person on a deeper level. Low EI is the opposite, where the conversations are shallow and have very little back and forth interaction. Not every conversation has to be deep but the ability to go to that level is important for the sustainability of the relationship. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to stir up Emotionally Intelligent conversations and how to accept this new level of intimacy with your partner. Let’s talk about… Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Is He A Keeper? 5 Signs He Might Be The One appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman As you know, I’m a big proponent of radical honesty and authenticity. There’s no sense in playing games or hiding your true personality from a guy because you can’t build a solid foundation from dishonesty. And contrary to what other dating coaches might say, women are not “doing something wrong” when it comes to attracting men. Attraction is much more than wearing a certain color dress or lipstick. It needs to be mutual, followed with open communication and a curiosity about the other person. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how men process their feelings and attraction differently than women. Let’s talk about… Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Why A Guy Will Choose You Over Another Woman appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully We’re diving deep into what intimacy means and why it’s the cause of so many breakups. Normally we think of physical intimacy as being sex and a non-existent sex life can certainly cause a break up. But there are different levels of intimacy that we’re discussing today. Being the provider – as so many men were taught in their youth – is not as important in the midlife years. Most single midlife women have their own careers and have their own financial plans in order. So, men need to do more than provide a paycheck to show their partner that they are committed to their future. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about why most relationships end and how to create more intimacy in your relationship (and I don’t just mean sex). Let’s talk about… Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Men Must Do THIS To Commit To You Fully appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share This episode is from my appearance on Eric Coplen’s The Music of Life channel and I wanted to share it because it’s important to remember that men can also be deeply affected by life events and failed relationships. I get vulnerable and honest here, discussing the aftermath of my divorce, getting laid off from my corporate job, and the market crash of 2008. All of these things happened in a short period of time and it really put me in a tailspin. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about men’s reactions to traumatic events and why women are willing to nurture men even when their lives seem to be falling apart. Let’s talk about… How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post How A Man’s Trauma Affects His Love Life | My Personal Share appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney Your past does not determine your future. You’ve probably heard that before and you might even think, “Oh, that’s easy for him to say,”  but my friend and guest, Patty Tierney, is proof positive that you CAN change those lessons learned in childhood. Patty shares about how she became a people-pleaser as a child and then transformed into a truth goddess as an adult. Of course, this type of transformation does not happen overnight; it’s a daily practice but well worth the effort and commitment if you want the change badly enough. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about staying true to yourself and how the path to healing is not a straight line. Let’s talk about…High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post High-Value Men Respect Women Who Have THIS Quality with Patty Tierney appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce Going through a divorce is traumatic. Even if you have the most amicable divorce, there’s still a level of trauma that upends your life and plants the seeds of how you’ll go forward emotionally. Like it or not, a divorce changes your view on relationships and messes with your emotions. If you’ve never done any personal development, now is the perfect time to start. At the very least, show yourself some self-love and commit to yourself that you will strive for what YOU want the rest of your life to look like. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how divorce changes our feelings and thoughts and how to love ourselves going back into the dating world. Let’s talk about… 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 7 Things I Wish I Knew When I Began Dating After Divorce appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Words are powerful. Whether someone is praising you for a job well done or cursing you out in a fit of road rage, you know exactly what’s happening in each situation. But words can also be deeply nuanced, in the case of claiming to love someone. Do they love you like they want to spend the rest of their life with you? Or do they love you in the moment until someone else more spectacular comes along? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about being honest with our feelings and learning how to express those feelings with your partner. Let’s talk about… Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Mixed Signals Men Do That Feels Like Being Used appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good When we have busy lives, we tend to take the good things for granted. But when you take someone for granted, you run the risk of them getting bored or feeling unappreciated. Ultimately you run the risk of them leaving. This is where committed conversations are so valuable. Instead of sticking to the surface details of “how was your day,” get vulnerable and TELL your guy why you appreciate him. This type of communication is SO much more than simply saying, “Thanks for making dinner.” And if your guy is willing to get deeper, that’s a really good sign to keep having these conversations. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about how to have deep, committed conversations so no one feels unappreciated or disrespected. Let’s talk about… 3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 3 Ways A Man Knows You’re The One and He’ll Commit For Good appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest If you’re a regular follower, you know I’m a big proponent of women standing in their power and not giving it away to men. So, even though this title might imply that I’m shifting my views, keep listening. Also remember that it takes two to form a relationship and keep it going. So, just because we’re focused on feminine ways today doesn’t mean the men are off the hook. Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about the innate gifts of men and women plus how women use their natural instincts to fuel a relationship. Let’s talk about… 5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post 5 Feminine Ways to Keep His Interest appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.

Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Have you heard of this saying: “Men marry women hoping they DON’T change and women marry men hoping they DO change.” I don’t really know how or when this saying originated but I wonder why men and women fall into this trap. Of course, people change over time. It’s inevitable as humans. But is it really our responsibility to force change on someone? Or to criticize any changes that occur? Let’s have a DEEPER conversation about what it takes to go ‘all in’ with a relationship and how to work through differences. Let’s talk about… Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? Resources: FREE Discovery Call ► http://jonathonaslay.com/coaching Join My VIP Group for $7– http://jonathonaslay.com/midlifelove Self-Love the Book: http://selflovethebook.com Recommended Books: http://jonathonaslay.com/jonathon-recommends The post Can A Man Change Or Is Our Relationship Doomed? appeared first on Understand Men Now With Jonathon Aslay.