
You Are Not Broken
Empowering women (and the partners who love them) to live their best mid lives. Combining the power of mind-work, body-science and relationships, I joyously smash the societal barriers that are keeping us from living our best intimate lives. Whether you are young or past menopause, single or in a long-term relationship, it is never too late or too early to realize YOU ARE NOT BROKEN. With humor, candor and ease, I break down the stories that we have been told about being sexual beings, to help us play, and normalize our intimacy and health. Nothing in this podcast is personal medical advice, of course.
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May 5, 2024 • 59min
263. Women Are Capable of Making Decisions: Grown Woman Talk With Dr. Sharon Malone
263. Women Are Capable of Making Decisions: Grown Woman Talk With Dr. Sharon MaloneDr. Malone is a nationally known expert in women’s health and a vocal advocate for menopause awareness and evidence-based information about hormone replacement therapy. A certified Menopause Practitioner, she believes that all women should be able to make decisions regarding their health and quality of life based on facts – not fear.Her first book, Grown Woman Talk: Your Guide to Getting and Staying Healthy, is out now and is a New York Times Bestseller!Dr. Sharon Malone, an expert in women's health and menopause, discusses her transition from traditional OB-GYN practice to menopause care and her role at Alloy Women's Health. She emphasizes the importance of telehealth in providing access to care for perimenopausal and menopausal women. Dr. Malone also addresses misconceptions about hormone replacement therapy and the need for individualized treatment decisions.She highlights the gender disparities in medicine and the need for more research on women's health. Additionally, Dr. Malone discusses the role of testosterone in menopause and the challenges in accessing and prescribing it for women. In this conversation, Dr. Sharon Malone and Dr. Kelly Casperson discuss various topics related to women's health, including the lack of FDA approval for testosterone preparation for women and the need for more research on testosterone in women.They also highlight the additional struggles faced by African American women and minorities in menopause and emphasize the importance of advocating for women's health and quality of life. The conversation provides practical advice on how to advocate for oneself in medical conversations and emphasizes the importance of being prepared and efficient in doctor's visits. Lastly, they debunk the inaccurate breast cancer risk statistic of one in eight.There is a need for FDA approval of testosterone preparation for women and more research on testosterone in women.African American women and minorities face additional struggles in menopause and may have difficulty accessing appropriate treatments.Advocating for women's health and quality of life is crucial, and patients should be prepared and efficient in medical conversations.Knowing one's medications and their purpose is important for effective communication with healthcare providers.The commonly cited breast cancer risk statistic of one in eight is inaccurate and can cause unnecessary fear.https://www.drsharonmalone.com/https://www.instagram.com/smalonemd/https://twitter.com/smalonemdGrown Woman Talk: Your Guide to Getting and Staying HealthySolv WellnessTo learn more about Via vaginal moisturizer from Solv Wellness, visit via4her.com for 30% off your first purchase of any product. Discount automatically applied at checkout.FirmTechGo to myfirmtech.com and enter code NOTBROKEN for 15% off today.ALLOYWomen of all ages deserve to feel fantastic. And we can—because there is relief to be found. Go to myalloy.com to start your virtual appointment today. Use code NOTBROKEN20 it's good for $20 off any purchase, one time use, and expires July 31, 2024. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Apr 28, 2024 • 1h 1min
262. Women Waking Up - Perimenopause, Hormones, and Personal Growth with Marcella Hill
Marcella Hill, a passionate advocate for women's hormonal health, shares her transformative journey through perimenopause and hormone therapy. She discusses the need for better support in women's healthcare, particularly during this challenging transition. The conversation delves into intimacy, emphasizing the significance of rediscovering passion and agency in relationships. Marcella highlights the importance of breaking free from societal labels and encourages women to embrace their true selves while pursuing joy and personal liberation in midlife.

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Apr 21, 2024 • 54min
261. Unlocking Pleasure: Exploring Sexuality & Relationship Dynamics
Caitlin V. Neal, a sexologist, explores topics like the Erotic Blueprints, premature ejaculation conditioning, female squirting, navigating sexual expectations in relationships, invisibility of bisexual women, and discrimination against non-monogamous relationships with Dr. Kelly Casperson.

Apr 14, 2024 • 43min
260. Women and Testosterone
260. Women and Testosterone
I join Dr. Harper on her “Women’s Power Hour” in the UK on IG live and it was such a good chat she let me have the audio for the podcast.
Dr. Kelly Casperson and Dr. Harper discuss the
importance of testosterone for women's health, including muscle mass, metabolism, mental health, and the health of the genitourinary tract. They address common questions and misconceptions about testosterone, such as why it isn’t easy to prescribe and the normal ranges for women. They also explore the use of testosterone in the treatment of genetic urinary syndrome of menopause and its potential benefits for breast cancer survivors. The conversation highlights the need for personalized hormone therapy and the importance of considering other factors that may impact libido and overall well-being.
Why are there many urologists who are experts in female pelvic health and hormones?
There are no “perfect” testosterone levels; we don’t treat it to a level, but rather, there is a range.
How Testosterone helps with genitourinary syndrome of menopause (GSM).
In perimenopause, sometimes testosterone is the first thing we start for symptoms.
Sometimes testosterone supplementation takes several months to have effects.
What to do if you don’t feel effects. Dr. Harper shares some tips and tricks.
Testosterone is important for women's health,
including muscle mass, metabolism, mental health, and the health of the genital, urinary tract.
There are misconceptions and challenges surrounding the prescription of testosterone for women, including the lack of a female-licensed product and the off-label use of male testosterone products.
Testosterone can be beneficial for women with
genetic urinary syndrome of menopause and breast cancer survivors, but individualized treatment and monitoring of hormone levels are important.
Hormone therapy should be personalized, and
other factors that may impact libido and overall well-being should be considered.
Testosterone positively affects brain function and mental clarity, which can greatly improve the quality of life for women.
Should we use hormones for preventative health?
We make estrogen via the androgen pathway.
Reasons that we benefit from testosterone.
There is no female-licensed product in either
the UK or the USA. https://www.instagram.com/drshahzadiharper/
https://theharperclinic.com/
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Apr 7, 2024 • 50min
259. Lancet Menopause Article Rebuttal - the Menoposse
In this episode, my panel of menopause expert physicians and nurse practitioners discuss the recent four-part article series on menopause published in The Lancet (link below).
We address the agenda behind these articles and the implications for menopause care. The panel strongly disagrees with the claim that menopause is being over-medicalized and emphasizes the importance of hormone therapy in managing menopausal symptoms and preventing long-term health issues.
We also criticize the suggestion that cognitive behavioral therapy should be the first-line treatment for menopause symptoms, highlighting the barriers to access and the lack of evidence supporting its effectiveness.
The panel advocates for a comprehensive and individualized approach to menopause care. The conversation methodically identifies the principal themes discussed in the Lancet article on menopause.
We cover topics such as biased review articles, the citation of the author's own studies, the lack of balance in the article, possible reasons for publication, surprising reactions from colleagues, the lack of education and training, the dismissal of women's experiences, ageism in medicine, the importance of treating perimenopause, ignoring the suffering of perimenopause, setting the stage for future health issues, empowerment through hormone therapy, misconceptions about hormone therapy and breast cancer, estrogen's protective effects on breast cancer, lifestyle factors and breast cancer risk, advocating for access to menopause specialists, and the importance of seeing a menopause specialist.
Takeaways
The panel strongly disagrees with the claim that menopause is being over-medicalized and emphasizes the importance of hormone therapy in managing menopausal symptoms and preventing long-term health issues.
The suggestion that cognitive behavioral therapy should be the first-line treatment for menopause symptoms is criticized due to barriers to access and lack of evidence supporting its effectiveness.
The panel highlights the need for a comprehensive and individualized approach to menopause care, taking into account the diverse needs and experiences of menopausal individuals.
The Lancet articles were criticized for misrepresenting the benefits of hormone therapy and failing to acknowledge the impact of menopause on mental health and overall well-being. Review articles should present a balanced view by citing studies that prove and disprove a point, rather than cherry-picking data.
The Lancet article on menopause fell short of presenting a balanced view and may have been rushed for publication.
Many healthcare providers lack education and training on menopause, leading to dismissive attitudes towards women's experiences.
Hormone therapy is an important tool for treating perimenopause and menopause symptoms and can have protective effects on breast cancer.
Advocacy is needed to improve access to menopause specialists and expand telehealth services.
https://www.thelancet.com/series/menopause-2024
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Mar 31, 2024 • 44min
258. Sexual Empowerment, Reframing Pain, Autism Experiences, Sex Work and More
Sexual Empowerment, Reframing Pain, Autism Experiences, Sex Work and More
This is a wide-ranging conversation, and I hope you enjoy it!
Suzannah Weiss is a feminist writer and sexologist. She is the
author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire.
As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity.
Offering a deeply personal account and powerful critique of
sexual empowerment movements, Suzannah Weiss presents a way forward that focuses more on what women desire, and less on what men desire from them.
She makes a bold yet compassionate call for women everywhere to inhabit their bodies and hearts ― to remain connected to their inner eye and their inner "I," even in a world where they are disproportionately "you," "she," or "them."
Takeaways
Reframing attitudes towards menopause is important to celebrate the positives of this life phase and challenge societal beliefs that devalue women in menopause.
The objectification of older women in medical contexts can lead to dismissive treatment of issues related to desire and pleasure, highlighting the need for more inclusive and comprehensive healthcare.
Understanding and addressing period pain requires recognizing that pain experiences vary among individuals, and it is essential to validate and investigate severe pain rather than dismissing it as normal.
The orgasmic birthing movement promotes a positive and pleasurable birthing experience, emphasizing presence, breathwork, and sensory awareness to enhance the intensity and pleasure of childbirth.
Supporting autistic individuals in dating and sexuality involves celebrating their strengths and unique experiences, promoting positive relationships, and challenging societal stereotypes and assimilation efforts.
Pleasing and empowering women in the bedroom requires men to understand and respect boundaries, communicate openly, and prioritize mutual pleasure and consent.
Changing attitudes towards masculinity and sex work involves recognizing the potential for men to use their sexuality for good, promoting respect and consent, and challenging societal shame and stigma around sex work.
Teaching meaningful consent and embodied consent involves tuning into one's body and feelings to determine consent, promoting open communication, and reframing consent as an ongoing process rather than a one-time agreement.
Subjectified by Suzannah Weiss
You can find her on Twitter (@suzannahweiss) or Instagram (@weisssuzannah).
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Mar 24, 2024 • 58min
257. Testosterone with Dr. Morgentaler
Dr. Morgantaler debunks misconceptions around testosterone, challenges gender biases, and discusses the impact of Women's Health Initiative study. He explores testosterone therapy benefits, reluctance of doctors to advocate for it, insurance coverage challenges, and exciting developments. The conversation delves into testosterone's effect on prostate cancer, refuting beliefs about its role in cancer growth and emphasizing optimal levels for tissue health.

Mar 17, 2024 • 52min
256. The Unfettered Urologist - Dr. Boone
Dr. Martha Boone, a urologist and author, discusses alternative therapies in urology, the importance of quality information, and the changing landscape of hormone therapy. She shares her experiences with alternative treatments for bladder health, pelvic pain, and urinary tract infections. Dr. Boone also discusses the journey of testosterone and prostate cancer, highlighting the shift in understanding and treatment approaches. She emphasizes the importance of considering quality of life in medical decision-making and the need for individualized care. In this conversation, Dr. Martha Boone discusses her experiences in urology practice and her transition to writing. She highlights the challenges urologists face in providing comprehensive care within limited time constraints. Dr. Boone also shares her journey as a writer, including the publication of her books. The conversation explores the differences between writing fiction and nonfiction, as well as the difficulties of writing memoir. The unreliability of memory is also discussed, emphasizing the subjective nature of personal recollections. The conversation concludes with gratitude and encouragement for the next generation of urologists.
Takeaways
Alternative therapies can play a valuable role in urology, providing patients with additional options for treatment and symptom management.
Access to quality information is crucial for patients to make informed decisions about their health and navigate the overwhelming amount of information available online.
The journey of testosterone and prostate cancer highlights the evolving understanding of hormone therapy and the importance of individualized care.
Considering quality of life is essential in medical decision-making, as it can greatly impact a patient's overall well-being and satisfaction with treatment. Urologists often face challenges in providing comprehensive care within limited time constraints.
Transitioning from a medical career to writing requires discipline and adaptation to different genres.
Writing fiction and nonfiction require different storytelling skills and approaches.
Writing memoir can be particularly challenging due to the subjective nature of personal recollections.
Memory is unreliable, and individual recollections of events can vary significantly.
Gratitude and encouragement for the next generation of urologists.
Martha B. Boone, M.D.Author of: The Big Free, The Unfettered Urologist, and Mother CharityMarthaBoone.comTwitter: @drmarthabooneFB: MarthaBBoone
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Mar 10, 2024 • 39min
255. Infertility and Sex
Infertility and Sex
In this conversation, Dr. Sophia Goodridge and Dr. Gillian Stearns discuss infertility, stress, and sex. They share their personal experiences and journeys with infertility, highlighting the emotional toll it can take on individuals and relationships. The conversation also addresses the lack of education and support surrounding infertility and the challenges faced by women in balancing their careers and fertility. The importance of open communication, humor, and seeking support is emphasized throughout the discussion.
Takeaways
We define infertility
Infertility is a common and often taboo topic that affects many individuals and couples.
The emotional toll of infertility can strain relationships and impact sexual intimacy.
Education and support are crucial in navigating the challenges of infertility.
The role of IVF drugs on your sex life.
We discuss the world they wish to see in regards to education and normalizing infertility.
Open communication, humor, and seeking support can help maintain strong partnerships during infertility struggles.
Dr. Sophia Delpe Goodridge is board certified in Urology and Female Pelvic Medicine and Reconstructive Surgery. Her current practice is in Roswell, GA and her interests include pelvic floor dysfunction, voiding dysfunction, urinary incontinence, overactive bladder and pelvic organ prolapse.
Dr. Gillian Sterns is a Urologist at Atrium Health, Director
of Medical Student Education at Wake Forest, North Carolina
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31, 2024
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Mar 3, 2024 • 34min
254. The fortune telling genitals and/or I hate the word "cock"
254. The Fortune-Telling Genitals and/or I hate the Word "Cock"
In this conversation, Dr. Kelly Casperson and Dr. Ashley Winter discuss various topics related to male and female sexual health. They cover the importance of sexual health advocacy on social media, the role and safety of cock rings, the link between erectile dysfunction and cardiovascular disease, the future of sexual health monitoring with smart wearables, and the development of a clitoral smart wearable device. They emphasize the need for research and funding in the field of sexual health and highlight the importance of normalizing discussions about sexual health for all genders.
Takeaways
Sexual health advocacy on social media can help educate and
change lives.
Cock rings can be a safe and effective tool for enhancing erections.
Erectile dysfunction can be a sign of underlying cardiovascular disease.
Smart wearables have the potential to revolutionize sexual health monitoring.
The clitoris plays a crucial role in female sexual health and should be studied and understood.
Further research and funding are needed to advance the field of sexual health.
Ashley Winter, MD is a board certified urologist based in Los Angeles. She completed her urology residency at New York Presbyterian- Weill Cornell Medical center, and a fellowship in male and female sexual dysfunction with Dr. Irwin Goldstein at San Diego Sexual medicine. She is working on a smart wearable device for the clitoris with FirmTech (www.myfirmtech.com). She can be found influencing patients and physicians all over the world through her socialmedia @ashleygwinter (most active on Twitter/X) but trying to be more present on Insta/TikTok.
Princeton ConsensusGuidelines on Erectile Dysfunction
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twitter/X - https://x.com/AshleyGWinter
The non profit research team mentioned in this episode: 21st Century Sexual Fitness and HealthCare Foundation
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